Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

i started talking to a guy about 4 years ago,,,
we have met a few times.
he has ful custody of his daughter..shes 8 and
he has been married twice..
i get on AMAZINGLY
with his daughter and want to have a long term relationship with him.. am i treading of doggey ground?

2007-12-09 22:56:06 · 8 answers · asked by musicmad_91 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is a person who changes his group of friends everytime he gets bored of them, and me and him just became friends during the summer. we found a group of friends to hang out with and it all went good, until there was some drama and he didn't like one person in that group so he decides not to hangout with them anymore, i personally liked hanging out with them and he told me to dump them too, i didnt want to make that decision so i decided not hang out with anyone, but then my friend called me a trador and we havent talked for a few month now, and i hung out with the group a couple times after the incident, and now i feel guilty when i hang out with the group even though its only a few times a month...what's your intake on this??

2007-12-09 22:55:49 · 6 answers · asked by lincoln 1 in Friends

there's this guy nick. once i told him that jen my friend likes him . he's like " i dont care" and then he's like "i hope you dont like me , do you?" i said "what do you think" he's like "i dont know" and then i said" no i dont like you" and then he started talking about homework!!! what does this mean?? this guy nick is my friend and he flirts with me many a times too but after this incident he's stopped flirting that much !!what should i do ????

2007-12-09 22:53:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im jealous of HOT guys, they can just get any girl they want.

life aint fair!!!

what should i do?

2007-12-09 22:52:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a girl, 14, orphan, living with her sister (same mother different fathers, all dead ) is being abused. the family doesn't want to get involved because the elder sister has attitude problems, but now this 14 year old girl is being beaten and i do not know what to do, i'm afraid if i talk to her sister her sister would abuse her even more, they both had a diffuclt life so i understand how this has also affected the 35 something old sister, but i need to find a way to stop this abuse, do i tell her uncles and family ?
when her parents died we offered to adopt her but her sister and rest of the family refused, now it's too late for her to come and live with us, her uncles woudn't take her because of the problems the elder sister creates, i'm stuck, anyway out ? help. knowing that here were we live we don't get help from organizations or groups like in the west

2007-12-09 22:47:34 · 5 answers · asked by Sahar 4 in Family

and my partner dont want pills ? please guide me

2007-12-09 22:42:59 · 19 answers · asked by R12121 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everyone, Im newly single and hating it!
Split up with my boyfriend of 3 years recently and really not looking forward to this festive season now.
Any singles out there feel the same? If so what you gonna do to keep you're mind off all the 'love' drifting around?:)

And YES I have friends and will be spending New Year with them and Family.

P.S Who are you gonna be kissing under the mistletoe and when the clock strikes midnight?

2007-12-09 22:41:26 · 16 answers · asked by Chanté 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 22:38:56 · 19 answers · asked by Blessing Zenenga 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

example 1:
On a second date with a girl at my place to cook dinner and she offers to bring over a bottle of red wine, she was refilling both of our glasses while we watched a movie. we finished the bottle and she was open to having sex with me.

example 2

met for the first time a different girl at a bar who was with her friends. while they were taking sake shots, she was pouring for me too. then after we all bounced to another bar and she bought a bottle of red wine for her and I to drink. this girl too was refilling my glass with wine. afterwards we walked to her place.
-however, met up with this girl two nights later she had several drinks, and mentioned I wasn't drinking. I had to work the following morning so I had one drink later on. she avoided going to either my or her place afterwards.

so, do women feel it's ok to have sex too soon if the guy also has been drinking?

2007-12-09 22:37:03 · 5 answers · asked by 33ea 3 in Singles & Dating

Well I Talk To Her Daily ,
But I Have Never Showed In Any Way I Love Her !
How Do I Tell Her ?

2007-12-09 22:33:53 · 20 answers · asked by Rahul 1 in Singles & Dating

Seriously I can't stand it, pretty much the whole world has had a boyfriend/girlfriend in high school and during there teenage years, and has had sex already. Man, I can't believe I'm almost 20, I feel so old. Seriously, how rare is it for a male to be 20 and never had a girlfriend and still a virgin?, I bet there are almost none out there. I refuse to have sex with a prostitute so don't even go there, I also rarely or don't approach girls because I feel I will just be wasting my time because most girls in college are taken already. I don't care if my first girlfriend is special, I don't want my first girlfriend to become my wife, I just want it to be random relationship like everyone on the whole planet has experienced.

2007-12-09 22:28:55 · 17 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Singles & Dating

I WANT SOMETHING TO LAUGH ABOUT

2007-12-09 22:28:18 · 14 answers · asked by 100% husaina 3 in Singles & Dating

Right..

So ive been thinking..
what would you say was an acceptable age gap between two people in a relationship?
is it ok for a 34 year old guy to be with a 16 year old with the intentions of a long term relationship?
or should 22 be the limit for older men an women to date the younger generation??
reverse the situation too...
is it ok for a 34 year old woman to be with a 16 year old with the intentions of a long term relationship?

Please let me know your views.

2007-12-09 22:23:31 · 13 answers · asked by musicmad_91 1 in Singles & Dating

or would you forgive her and why.

2007-12-09 22:21:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i like this guy and i'm afraid that my friends won't approve of him but i know that my bestie will because their good friends. he makes me so happy, i feel so alive with him and i feel like i could do anything we always have fun when were together and were good friends aswell. i don't really mind what my friends do and don't approve of, this is my life and i think i should deserve to be happy like other people. when he's not with me or around me then i'm always having a bad day and don't really feel all that happy at all. do you think i should follow my heart or what my friends think? please help.

2007-12-09 22:18:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend revealed to me, that herboyfriend suddenly began threatening her with physical harm if he suspected her of cheating, or if she committed the act of cheating. He told her he would choke her if she let someone touch her and then proceeded to place his hands around her neck snuggly as they were being intimate. and later again threatened to choke her if she let someone else touch her. what is she dealing with here?

2007-12-09 22:17:42 · 23 answers · asked by kay 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so....I'm 16 and I haven't really had my first kiss yet but theres this guy that I really like and he wants to hook up with me. I'm planning on hooking up with him but I'm a little scared. Any tips?

2007-12-09 22:14:00 · 6 answers · asked by Molly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 22:09:22 · 18 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5 in Friends

i have friends who are guys and we are not interested in eachother at all. and a few boys i know like me but i dont like them. every one i like just wants to be my friend. what does it take for a guy to want to be your bf..? i am 5'6' average build and i have pretty blue eyes. i have a great sence of humor. love to party, have tuns of friends, but i have never had a bf.. now that i am older i find it weird that i never have.. waht does it take?

2007-12-09 22:07:22 · 4 answers · asked by Riley E 2 in Singles & Dating

my best mate wants this girls number, he treats girls like ****, and i also used to really like this girl, she was a masssive part of my life. And if he went out on a date with her or slept with her id be gutted. i dont kno why, cause i have a gf...

any suggestions

2007-12-09 22:01:25 · 10 answers · asked by Chris W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is a friend of mine say A who is very jolly, good nature, charming but not flirt means he keeps sending kisses and love yous in emails or texts or scraps or whatever to frens in a general way. he's a nice heart person. i cant explain his nature in a better way.

so what happened was just recently my boyfriend went through my orkut profile he saw my frend A's scrap which was dated 2nd august 2007 where he said "love you bye emmuah." something like that & after reading it he asked for explanation. i told him that my friend A did so casually, there is nothing between me & him,i feel there is nothing to object, & i wont ask him change himself because i know he doesnt mean anything when he says like that to people. then he said that i am a cheap person as im ok with people saying lov you & giving kisses & also said "go and wait for your loving friends for hot kisses,you are not my gf". he is been ignoring me since then. i am shattered & very insulted. im feeling very bad.

2007-12-09 21:58:41 · 5 answers · asked by angelic 2 in Singles & Dating

why oh why ;can we not be stright with each other .

2007-12-09 21:56:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

You see my 15 year old sister's boyfriend always meets at some bar with my 18 year old sister.
I love both sisters.But I confronted my 18 year old sister what she's doing is wrong.And she's hurting her sister.
She says she doesn't give a ****.Because she's really into my 15 year old sister's boyfriend.
I bashed up the guy to stay away from both my sisters.
But he doesn't get the message.
And so I don't know how to break the news to my younger sister.Because my older sister ain't cracking nothing and so is her ******** of a boyfriend.
They haven't broke up.
And my younger sister is pretty much into the asswipe as well.

2007-12-09 21:53:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Have you ever loved anyone with your heart,not by their money beauty,or for sex.

2007-12-09 21:50:14 · 26 answers · asked by Believe in yourself 5 in Singles & Dating

ok there's this guy that i like and he like tease's me and all this stuff and like insults me but he's not trying to hurt me anyway one day i was standing and talking to my mums friends bf and the guy that i like came behind me and started taking my hair tie off and when i turned around he ran straight out the door i was gonna chase him but i had other stuff i needed to do because we were going to the beach. what doe's that all mean i'm so confused please help.

2007-12-09 21:46:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 21:40:35 · 14 answers · asked by bri 7 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together for two months now, and up until The weekend he seemed perfect in every way, and almost always happy.

Out of nowhere Sunday morning he began texting me saying that he felt that I still have feelings for not only my ex, but my best guy friend!

Apparently I talk about them too much, aka When he asks me how my day was, my friend is usually involved, and also recently i said my boyfriend reminds me a bit of my ex.

I had had no idea I was upsetting him, and i apologised immediately, denied having feelings for them, and Promised to not talk about them as much.

unfortunately, this wasnt enough, and he began abusing me, saying if it was anyone else they would have dumped me by now, and he also started pointing out every flaw i have.

now he's avoiding me?? what can I do about this!? I don't want to lose him, but I also think he acted unrationally

2007-12-09 21:39:36 · 15 answers · asked by Maybe 2 in Singles & Dating

what if u go to work 6 days and work from like 7or 9 all the way to 3am. but u dont keep the money u make u give it to your lover or husband. do u think one spouse should control all of the money of the whole realationship. occupation really doesnt matter because im not going to state my occcupation. ill jus say that i get paid every nite. so u are dumb if u dont get it. is there anyone going this problem right now.dont call it pimpin either cuz its far from that. oh yeah and u do love this person but u arent happy with the whole relationship and u have no choice but to be with this person.u have no way out. oh they are very controlling and kind of abusive and has more than one partner.somebody please help me with this one. i dont have anywhere to go but i am very unhappy in this relationship and of course i dont have any money cuz it is not keep by me. there is just so much i want to do like get my own crib save my own money and try to find real true love.someonw that dont need money

2007-12-09 21:39:19 · 13 answers · asked by ceceboo87 1 in Singles & Dating

honestly?, is there

2007-12-09 21:38:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 21:35:59 · 8 answers · asked by Jack 6 in Marriage & Divorce