Seriously I can't stand it, pretty much the whole world has had a boyfriend/girlfriend in high school and during there teenage years, and has had sex already. Man, I can't believe I'm almost 20, I feel so old. Seriously, how rare is it for a male to be 20 and never had a girlfriend and still a virgin?, I bet there are almost none out there. I refuse to have sex with a prostitute so don't even go there, I also rarely or don't approach girls because I feel I will just be wasting my time because most girls in college are taken already. I don't care if my first girlfriend is special, I don't want my first girlfriend to become my wife, I just want it to be random relationship like everyone on the whole planet has experienced.
2007-12-09 22:28:55 · 17 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are more of you out there than you think. The whole random relationship thing really isn't fulfilling. I think you should stick it out and wait for someone special.
2007-12-09 22:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by MelraeJones 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong wih a man being a virgin at your age. Some may call it admorable. It truly depends on your morals but waiting for someone that you are compatable with does make a deference. Try putting yourself in more social situations in order to meet women. Then let things take their natural course. I've always had a boyfriend up until the last few years and I really enjoy being single. But I'm also very social and have had opportunities to meet the opposite sex. Try this and nature wikk take its course.
2014-07-05 22:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my ex boyfriend was 21, and still a virgin, and my brother, and a few of his friend were also your age, and still virgins so there are plenty of guys who are in the same situation as you. Its nothing that should make you feel like a loser, I know every guy that I have met so far that is still a virgin, and your age are actually really cool guys so there isnt anything at all wrong with it... when the time is right it'll happen, until you shouldnt worry about it :)
2016-05-22 11:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by rochelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares man? Long-term relationships for the most part aren't even that great and sex is overrated IMO.
But if it's that much of a concern for you, which it is - since your life revolves around what other people think of you - go out and actually try getting picked up and laid. Go to a club, dance, find a girl, etc.
Don't just sit back and whine like a baby. And no, it's not pathetic (it's more common that you think). What is pathetic though is being a little crybaby about it.
2007-12-09 22:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry! Believe me, u wouldnt want a random relationship, thats a wrecker. After u waited so long... say tom u get a girl, u hardly believe it, how good you get along. Would you want it to be random?
Ur not a loser; the girls who missed out on you are, some of them , in a way. Cheer up! Dont look desperate when you meet some girl thats all. Plan it out, be patient.
2007-12-09 22:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by silly symphonies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should enjoy your life as it is or improve it instead of worrying about relationships. It will come. I'm turning 29 this December and I haven't had a relationship in almost eight years. I'm still enjoying myself being single and I went back to school for a different degree. Just worry about improving yourself first then all the rest will come.
2013-10-16 20:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well so you are still a virgin !? Go out more and talk to people and go to party's get you re social life on track then watch what happens maybe by the end of the year you will get laid !
2007-12-09 22:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by chantie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider your self lucky, for im already 27 and I am in the same situation as yours.Just remember that theres no such thing as a happy ever after story, whether you get married or remain single for the rest of your life, there is no guarantee for happiness, because if it were so the the word divorce should not have been invented.Let faith take its course and remember that happiness is a relative thing
2007-12-09 22:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by JONATHAN L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fifteen percent of adults wait until they're 21 to have sex. Nine percent of adults 20-29 are virgins.
I wouldn't worry about it, take your time and do what is best for you.
2007-12-16 18:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by Mitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not pathetic, and no your not a loser, those people that have had sex in high school and tons of gfs and stuff their the pathetic ones. Sex is usually horrible the first time neway i hear.
2007-12-13 13:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by eee1928 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋