Am i treading of soft ground...?

Question

i started talking to a guy about 4 years ago,,,
we have met a few times.
he has ful custody of his daughter..shes 8 and
he has been married twice..
i get on AMAZINGLY
with his daughter and want to have a long term relationship with him.. am i treading of doggey ground?

Answer 1

Start by talking with his daughter & see how she feels about you wanting to be with her father. If she has no problem with it, then try talking to the father & see how he feels about a relationship with you. But remember he was married twice before & it may take him some time before he wants another relationship. All you can do is try, Good Luck

Answer 2

I would talk to the daughter first, see how she feels. There's a common conception about kids not liking the idea of someone replacing mummy, but if you get on well with her its usually a good step.
However, having known each other for 4 years without making any advances, he may now only see you as a friend and therefore may not be interested.
You'll have to play it by ear.

Edit: With regards to the above postee, where does it say about she being married?

Answer 3

The ground is as only as soft as you water it ... nourishment will keep it healthy. A little fertilizer and a lot of love you'll do just fine !

Answer 4

It depends on how much trouble the ex wife gives him. Sometimes those things can work out good, other times they become a thorn in your side.

Answer 5

I guess I would need to know more about you to answer this question... like how old are you and are you ready for a relationship with a child involved?

Answer 6

Of course not! Why should you be? I understand yr reservations but, you could well live to regret it.........

Just dont suffer fools :)

Answer 7

your cheating. Divorce and let your poor husband move on with his life.

Answer 8

maybe you are, maybe you arent, i say go for it