You see my 15 year old sister's boyfriend always meets at some bar with my 18 year old sister.
I love both sisters.But I confronted my 18 year old sister what she's doing is wrong.And she's hurting her sister.
She says she doesn't give a ****.Because she's really into my 15 year old sister's boyfriend.
I bashed up the guy to stay away from both my sisters.
But he doesn't get the message.
And so I don't know how to break the news to my younger sister.Because my older sister ain't cracking nothing and so is her ******** of a boyfriend.
They haven't broke up.
And my younger sister is pretty much into the asswipe as well.
2007-12-09 21:53:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There's no easy way to break it to her so just tell her. She will probably not believe you, so make sure you've got some sort of proof. Try not to make a fight out of it, try to be supportive, and let her know you're telling her because you love her.
And bring chocolate. When she accepts it and breaks down into tears she'll feel better with chocolate. Or ice cream. Or chocolate ice cream.
2007-12-09 21:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by Socks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't do anything but wait. If they're waiting about his job, then you will have to wait. Since the situation is rushed, there is no way anyone can expect the same results as a wedding that takes a year to plan. Also, I don't understand her idea about surprising the guests at an engagement party. No one is expected to bring gifts to an engagement party. I'm usually so materialistic, but it sounds like they'll be needing things for setting up a new household and with a baby coming that's a whole lot of spending in just 6 months time. I'd say have a plan flushed out with your younger daughter ahead of time so that once the job thing gets straightened out you'll be ready to book . Like a venue that you'll be able to book at the last minute. Perhaps for a Friday night and not a Saturday. Have some dates in mind and some venues in mind. Call and see if there are openings for the dates you have in mind, then let the manager of you favorite venue know what's going on and how you're having to wait to put a deposit on the place. Then they can give you an idea if they expect to book up, or if you need to keep your options open.
2016-04-08 05:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take several snaps in your Mobile of the meetings of your 18 year old sister with that boy with some close and intimate postures to make the things speak for themselves. And later on ask your younger sister if she can recognise the boy in the picture. Let both sister sort out matter themselves. You can only be a referee for your younger sister.
Wish you all success.
2007-12-09 22:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by SHIV KUMAR KAUL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your older sister is out of order. This is going to be hard on the younger one, but I think you have to tell her.
Or maybe you can set things up so your sister finds out by herself?
Seriously he's a rat and your older sister is despicable, she must have jealousy towards the little one.
Time to let the younger one know.
2007-12-09 21:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is tell her the truth. It may hurt, but it is the only way, unless you want to stay out of it entirely. I don't think I would wait too long. If you decide to tell her, the sooner the better. (The truth will set you free and her too). Then she can give her older sister what she deserves.
2007-12-09 22:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth. Or you can tell your parents about this. That way they'll probably break it to her. Takes a load off you, not to mention they probably would know how to let the cat out of the bag.
One question though. How old is her boyfriend?
2007-12-09 21:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by poobear2710 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's your 15 yr old sister doing with someone that's old enough to go to a bar, and how is your 18 yr old sister getting into this bar? My suggestion is tell her! She doesn't need to be going with someone who's old enough to be in a bar anyway!
2007-12-09 22:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun there's only one thing that you can do
you HAVE to tell your sister
she has a right to know whats going on in her relationship,if you wanna call it that.
and your older sister....Sounds like a loser.
Honestly who steals their younger, 15 year old sister's boyfriend when she's 18
she might be desperate and he's prob just horny
so yeah...pretty sure they've done stuff
so just let her know and have her break it off
he's a jerk and she's a h0e
2007-12-09 21:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your younger sister, but not unless you have proof, record them at the bar with your phone or something. or take your younger sister to the bar when you know their there together.
she needs to listen to you and be prepered for the tears, her hating you for a while, then thanking you for what you did, let her know ur there for her, but she has to leave him he's clearly a twxt.
you are a very good brother for caring for your younger sister i hope it all goes ok for you, let me know if you wish to have more advice. elymay01@btinternet.com my name is bev.
and for you older sister she should be slapped in the face, she clearly does not care for your sister, and isnt horrible to do this, a sister should be some one u can trust. ur sister needs to see what kind of guy he is, and what kind of person her sister is.
2007-12-09 23:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her. just get everything out in the open and be there for your lil sis. your older sis and the little sisters boyfriend are just a pair of t w a t s
2007-12-09 21:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by gemma r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋