or would you forgive her and why.
2007-12-09 22:21:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. because i would never be able to forget it. and that would ruin everything. and i'd never trust her. so no.
2007-12-09 23:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by abominusprime 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the cheating your referring to is a full blown affair, then no, I couldn't forgive that. Well, maybe I could forgive, but I wouldn't be able to have a marriage with that person.
Trust is very important for me. I don't always want to have to keep up on my husband and doubt what he is doing. What type of life is that?
Secondly, what type of rolemodel are you for your children. Children learn by example. You are teaching your children, that promises can be broken and instant satisfaction at any cost is acceptable.
The financial implications of this are also to be considered. Don't you think that money was also spent on this little adventure. That money should have stayed in the family. How safe are your savings, your house and your retirement plans with this person?
I could never be intimate with this person, the thought of STD's would make me nauseos. What did your partner with the other women? Who does he prefer?
2007-12-10 06:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl but if i had a bf and he cheated on me- i would like to know why he did it. doest matter whether it was one time, 2 times or watever- cos at the end of the day..once u sleep with someone else whilst in a relationship- thats jus it!
if his reasons were understandable then maybe i can forgive him bt if it was sumthin like 'we were arguing..goin thru a rough patch' then to me thats just BS! because if u really love someone and wana be with them forever- then you wudnt cheat u no matter wats goin on!
once a cheater..always a cheater! but if u really love ur gf and u can forgive her then thats good! gona b hard to forget about it tho cos u will always b thinking is she gona cheat on me again..or mite have issues with trusting her.
hope i helped!
2007-12-10 06:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her this question first, can i go cheat on you? if the answer is no then she cheated on you for her personal gain, if so says yes then she really did not want you in the first place. people make mistakes, but it comes to trust in that person when you want a relationship with them. trust would be gone, and hard to get back. answer is No, sorry!!!!!!!!! you deserve better than that!
2007-12-10 06:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by RYAN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...i personally do not forgive a cheater. But i have in the past, one time. And i learned from it, then again you can't learn from my mistakes you have to make your own and learn from them
2007-12-10 06:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by platinumplaiigrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a girl but i would forgive my bf because when you weigh the good times and bad times, the good times weighs more. and also i would look at what i did that make him cheat. and this is only if i only love him a lot!!!
2007-12-10 06:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are going through the trial & tribulation of relationship. Only time will tell.Forgiveness is a gift bit it does not mean it is reciprocated
2007-12-10 06:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater
nope don't work like that....maybe she was confused and she really does love you..i forgave my bf about 10 times for cheating.....worst thing i've ever done...i should have left him the second time he did it...but i didn't.....not all people all the same
****SOME**** people change...but not all.....so give it a shot
if she cheats one more time...leave her she won't change
2007-12-10 06:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by angel cage 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It shouldn't happen in the first place. It happened once already, I hope it doesn't happen again to anyone.
2007-12-10 06:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by Island Styler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldnt ,my mom always told me (once a cheater always a cheater)and its the truth
2007-12-10 06:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by jesse m_violated for nothing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋