Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

well me and my ex hav a complicated story.
He is my first and the only guy i have actually ever slept with and he knows this.And basically everytime we do see eachutha we mainly just hook up and do thingz but not have sex all the time. He has a very busy schedule with work and playing soccer. I do have feelings for him and its tough coz i have asked him what he wants to come out of this and he has told me he doesnt want a relationship because hes still young and wants 2 have fun, and says that im still young 2 and dont need 2 b serious. Im 18 and hes 21, and realy i dont like to think of us as **** buddys coz i have much more respect 4 myself. When we see eachother also its like, we make fun of eachother and act like were 2gtha but i honestly do not know wat he wants.

so can u please answer these questions 4 me;
- am i just a booty call ?!
- what do i do; should i tell him how i feel ?!
- does he like me ?!

2007-12-09 00:48:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is married and his wife suspect something is going on with him. Everything was perfect. He pull back but he can't stay away. So I started to pull back. I need ideas from guys what to do. it feels like he is addicted to me. It's is going on three years. I love him but he was to understand I'm giving up more than him. I'm willing but things has to get back they way they were. I'm always there for him. I cook and clean better than your wife? I look better. I'm all those things and more? I need some more tips from you married guys what does it take?Ok his wife is fat and they have kids. He is trying to decide between us. What can I do to help him make his choice ME

2007-12-09 00:47:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when your parent said you have to have a career before you have girlfriend----Is it good for you,for guy under 18?,so that mean you can't have girlfriend until you have a career.Anyone think that is good for you??

2007-12-09 00:46:29 · 8 answers · asked by Ken 1 in Singles & Dating

why are guys more friends orientated than girlfriend orientated!

2007-12-09 00:45:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend of mine is seriously frustrated with his 1.5 yr old marriage. He is being harassed by his wife and in laws, and is tired of regular tantrums and fights with his short tempered and mentally deranged wife. Can you please suggest a good lawyer he could consult in Gurgaon/delhi?

2007-12-09 00:45:49 · 3 answers · asked by netizen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My BFF has a friend, lets just call him Owen, and my BFF gave me his AIM one day so we have been IMing on and off for the past week. So anyways, I know him, he goes to my school, and is one year older than me. He doesn't really know me that well, so we where exchanging pics and telling each other about ourselves. Well, one of the pics in my inbox was his thingy (you all know what I mean!) I didnt know what the message was so I just opened it and there it was! So the big problem is, he has a GF that is crazy and if she knew what I saw, she would kill me, not him! BTW I was fully clothed in the pic I sent him. So anyways, if his GF finds out she will tell everybody and I'll be ruined (although I dont have much of a socail life!). I fell really bad keeping it from her, but I dont know if I should tell her. We arn't great friends, so I dont think she whould understand. I need your help! Should I tell her? Should I feel guilty? And what should I do with the pic?

Thank so much you guys!!!

2007-12-09 00:45:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-09 00:45:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-09 00:44:38 · 22 answers · asked by BB 2 in Singles & Dating

a boy in my year he scared me he sent me pictures of him naked and i didnt want him too, he would talk about sex, and wearing my underwear, i thought he just liked me, then on webcam i stripped to him even though i was crying on webcam to him he kept giving me orders i was scared of him, then i met up with him once he told me to talk as he really liked me we kissed and i was ok then he pulled his pants down and told me to touch it i said no and i started crying so he got my hand and put it on him then he gave up on me as i kept saying no then he he asked me to strip i refused and was still crying but he pulled my pants down i tried to cover myself up and he told me to take my hands off i said no so he pushed me onto the chair and forced my hand off then he touched me i just sat there all quiet and scared not saying anything but no but he kept doing it and he did it with all my body too, i havent forgotten what he did to me and people say i overreact but it happened again last year

2007-12-09 00:43:11 · 12 answers · asked by dreamer 1 in Singles & Dating

That when there is no trust, there cant be any love?

2007-12-09 00:43:05 · 22 answers · asked by Inquiring Mind 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a really good friend who's a guy (i'm a girl incase you didnt notice) and i had a pretty big crush on him, I don't know if I still do. he found out and he was pretty cool about it, and now we're back to being good friends. The question is, he teases me ALOT and makes fun of me ALOT and sometimes I wonder if he hates me, but just a few days ago he got me a birthday present that was almost 20pounds, and said it was because I deserved it and I was one of his closest friends. then why does he tease and make fun of me so much?

Though my question for the guys is - why do you people tease your close friends who are girls? is there another meaning to it?

2007-12-09 00:35:25 · 14 answers · asked by Freddy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 00:34:04 · 15 answers · asked by joyce chalk 1 in Singles & Dating

Rub my _ _ _ _ all over them. fill in the blank.

2007-12-09 00:32:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont know what i should get my sister for Christmas and for her birthday. My sister is turning two on December 13th. she loves the wonder pets! her name is Myia.

2007-12-09 00:31:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

You cannot trust a man who, when left alone with a tea cosy doesnt try it on

2007-12-09 00:23:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know how to ask this, so here goes. At present, I am surely, but gradually recovering from a type of illness (thankfully, not fatal) that has left a few small marks on my neck. I don't know if they will completely heal or become scars & fade with time, but they are still healing with the aid of Vitamin E cream that I rub on my neck.

The thing is, I'm a 23-year-old, single female & really wish for a boyfriend. I've learned that one of the best ways to attract a guy is to show off the neck (I really hope no guys are embarrassed by me saying this. I've just always noticed that men are naturally attracted to a woman's neck, in addition to other things). I used to enjoy showing off my neck, but until I'm completely healed, I'm frightened to. I'm not an ugly sight or anything. It's nothing a little dab of natural-skin coloured make-up couldn't cover. It's just I don't feel confident enough to show off my neck to any guys when socialising or flirting.

2007-12-09 00:19:17 · 11 answers · asked by highland_white_wolf 2 in Singles & Dating

Are you one of them? Do you only watch your maternal grandkids & not paternal ones? Do you spend more time with the maternal ones? If so, why do you do this, and how do you think it's fair & doesn't hurt their feelings? Please tell me so I may know what in the **** my MIL is thinking.

2007-12-09 00:18:02 · 6 answers · asked by mom of 2 3 in Family

when the wearer looks 15 years younger

2007-12-09 00:17:02 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 18 yr old son hates to bring his friends around, cause they tell him how hot looking his Mom is. I have no interest in younger guys what so ever , although it's flattering. I'm 38 & want to know where are the bueatiful hot ladies 35 over. The 30's are great, I want to start a Over 35 & Hot Ladies Club. I'm in California, the Culver City area. Any other outgoing friendly bueatiful, confident, & over 35 yr old ladies out there willing to kick off this club with me? Only positive, friendly, down to earth ladies. We can meet once a month, have a creative fun function monthly & watch it grow. Net work, motivate, as well as break that stereo type that women can't get along with each other. Only the confident, secure, pretty ladies of all races, all backgrounds can be a part. The one thing we will all have in common is that we are 35 & up, & bueatiful. give me your feed back California Ladies. For the record I am straight, nothing against those who are not.

2007-12-09 00:13:45 · 4 answers · asked by cuddles 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i broke up wit my bf last night and he didnt know what to say, ok? and then my friends stephanie IMed me and told me she was on the phone with him and crying his eyes out, and that she started to cry to, so then i was crying. it was my first relationship and i have never hurt anyone so badly. how can i possibly talk to him again? i have to dance with him in chorus and sit by him in my classes! ill probly start crying at school when i see his face. wat do i DO?

2007-12-09 00:09:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We like to joke and say my FIL is a "Jewish Mother." He is very affectionate has trouble understanding boundaries. I have 2 daughters, 13.10yo (she is multiply disabled) and 16.6yo. G-pa has always treated them younger than they are (to the point that my youngest doesn't like being around him. He talks to her like she is 3 and she can't stand it. We've tried talking to him but it really doesn't help) and touched them a lot. I don't want anyone to get the wrong idea, he is not a dirty old man he just really loves them and seriously has no boundaries and doesn't get it that other people do. Another aspect to this problem is him creating problems that don't exist. When Aly was 13 and went through that phase where teens sleep ALL the time, he thought she was doing drugs, she cut her hair short (girlie pixie) and he thought she was a lesbian, she is a very serious, thoughtful and mature young woman and because she's not giggling like an idiot all the time he thinks she's depressed.

2007-12-09 00:04:33 · 12 answers · asked by aly_des 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-09 00:01:17 · 25 answers · asked by alexis christian 2 in Weddings