Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

She complains about everything I do and don't do for her, refuses to help out around the house and expects me to pay for everything. When I try to reason with her and explain she just accuses me of not caring or supporting her. When I ground her she doesn't care, she just sits around for a few weeks. When I say I'm bothered by her attitude she says I'm too sensitive. And then when I get angry she just says that I am crazy for getting so emotional. I told her that if she wanted my help she had to be respectful to me and she said I should kick her out if I find it so hard to be with her. She said her life would be perfect if she lived with her friend's family. I don't think it will last, but I let her go. I never thought I would do such a thing and I feel so sad and like a failure. She never gets into trouble neither is she using drugs. She's seventeen. I just need her to be nice and she just refuses. What do you think?

2007-12-09 07:24:17 · 39 answers · asked by Liteson 3 in Family

I get into football and when my team is losing(which with the Rams happens alot this year), my wife gets so worried about my temper. Do you have boyfriends or husbands out there that do this too?

2007-12-09 07:23:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told him i'll cry and he sed he'll taste my tears
lol
what does that mean why would he want to taste my tears?

2007-12-09 07:22:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife says that I need to improve my sexual skills, bcz i'm running with the same monotony and I ejaculate very quick. plz help, serious answers only.

2007-12-09 07:19:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-09 07:12:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance died last year. I am with someone new, he loves me a lot, i like him too, but I always end up thinking about my ex. I took a few months off from dating scene. But now that i'm dating again, i just start crying sometimes because i miss my ex so much. It's not fair, i just want to move on! I don't want to love him anymore! Is there any way to just stop it?

2007-12-09 07:12:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend of 10 months told me on Tuesday that he didn't want to see me anymore. He's already got a new girlfriend and she's someone I've never liked. How do I get over him?

2007-12-09 07:10:30 · 4 answers · asked by BrittyBabe 2 in Singles & Dating

So I have liked this guy for a while.
A couple people thought that he might like me for a while.
Once he gave me his sweatshirt and he would always flirt and try to make me smile. Once he kind of felt up on me and we always talked at school. He also remembers weird details like what color shirt I was wearing yesterday or my little sisters, boyfriends name.
Once he found out I liked him he started acting very weird. He didnt talk to me as much and all the flirting stopped. The other day we walked together and talked and we text and stuff but he is also kind of rude sometimes (he is the kind of guy that give everyone some attitude) but it still kind of hurts my feelings. This weekend I saw him and when I said hi, he put up a peace sign then walked away... and then didnt answer my text after the day before we had been talking a lot. Whats going on? And what do you think I should do when I see him at school tomorrow?

2007-12-09 07:10:00 · 10 answers · asked by Chat Noir 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 07:08:26 · 21 answers · asked by B B 1 in Family

I'm looking for resources on the subject of Elderly parents who are neglected by their children. I would be grateful for any on websites, forums, books, articles in fact any kind of media. Can anyone help.

2007-12-09 07:03:38 · 3 answers · asked by malcy 6 in Family

hi,
I am in a long distance relationship which is not working, in every time I want to break up with my boyfriend he says or does something to get me back and works like magic, I want desperately a way to break up with him. Plz spare me your answer if u r going to say just say it cuz I have already done it and it didn’t work!!
Plz give me some tips to a guy within a week
Thanks a lot ;)

2007-12-09 07:00:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wats the date today

2007-12-09 06:55:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this man for a year. All along he has known how I feel about smoking - I don't date someone who smokes. He told me he quit, but I keep catching him. Two things: 1) he lied, 2) he is smoking. He doesn't do it around me, but I can smell it and just knowing he does it is causing issues. Also, I have kids and do not want them infulenced by this.Other than this, he is really, really good to me. Should I lower my "standards" and just accept this? Or should I walk away? What would you do?

2007-12-09 06:53:28 · 9 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

Like i have good relations with the daughter of my dad's cousine bother!We meet often

2007-12-09 06:53:18 · 12 answers · asked by mc o 1 in Family

so my bf of 2.5 years wants me to come visit his fam for xmas on the sat and sun b4 xmas. we would leave sat morn and come back sunday morn. we are both 21 and are going with his parents to visit his relatives 3-4 hrs away. my mom is hestitant about me going bc she is worried about the eather and since ive been away at college, she hasnt seen me in a month so she wants me to stay home. i told my bf that i would go a few days ago and now i said i dont want to go. he got really mad that i was listening to my mother and never listen to myself. i am torn bc i dont know whether i should go with my bf or not? what should i do

2007-12-09 06:52:48 · 4 answers · asked by SweetieBear20 2 in Family

At the moment I'm this boring kid who goes to college and does the same thing day-in day-out with a routine and timetable etc.

I really hate my life at the moment, with my parents laying down the law, setting restrictions etc.

To be honest I don't think I'm going to be able to carry on with it all much longer. I'd really love to just quit everything, get a job, move to london and go out every night having fun and seeing what life actually has to offer,

At the moment I feel I'm missing out and wasting my youth.

I've applied for Uni etc but I don't want to go for the course just to get away from here which is stupid and a waste of money. I don't even want to go down that route, I want to be a performer but at this rate that's never going to happen.

help~

2007-12-09 06:52:16 · 32 answers · asked by Heidihi 1 in Family

I don`t see why living with a male roomate would be inappropriate for a college girl. They boy is 28 and I am 20,I met him today,but my mother`s best friend has known his family for years.It would be easier for both of us if we moved in together,I would have more money for my other needs and he would have more money to pay the mortgage for the apartment.I told my brother this and guess what he said?He said it is a little slutty in his opinion. Why would it be slutty and why would it be inappropriate, he is not my b/f or anything, I just want a lower rent.My dad told me: you`re smart, you`ll know how to judge what you`re getting and what you`re losing if you move. I asked him if he had anything against this, but he said he would agree with everything I decide to do (he always says ths).Could they be worried about what other people are gonna say? Honesty, I don`t give a damn about that,this is my life after all.Do you think my brother had a good reason to call my move slutty?

2007-12-09 06:48:51 · 9 answers · asked by faro 2 in Family

I was just wondering have any expirences

2007-12-09 06:48:07 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad has been cheating on my mom for about 5 years already with lots of other women with kids. every time my mom found out she would throw him out of the house for like a week, but it wouldn't last because he would come back and she would forgive him. the thing is he's still doing it. he's never home taking care of his children and paying the bills. it's like im my 3 younger brothers' dad. cause my mom works 2 jobs so we don't see her as much either. Well my mom and i sometimes get into arguments because i won't forgive him for all that he is done. and i know that i will never forgive him because he would hit my brothers and i when we were younger when he was in a bad mood. I'm now 18 and haven't forgiven him. How can i tell him i don't want nothing to do with him?

2007-12-09 06:44:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

with out asking me my wife registered a businnes in her name .to get a visa and a credit line,she borrowed 20000 dollars and spend.she owes about another 20000dollar from her own credit cards.if she can not pay the money back .are they go after my money or asset?she borrowed all money an her name but did not inform ed me.

2007-12-09 06:43:47 · 11 answers · asked by spicy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is often physically hurting me

2007-12-09 06:41:21 · 4 answers · asked by suchi 1 in Family

why are you living?...because I don't know why am i living for, and because this i'm afraid i'm "dead"

2007-12-09 06:38:01 · 5 answers · asked by bird fly 1 in Singles & Dating

and if she's somewhat attractive and seems nice because they are getting to the age where they want to settle down ?

Wondering.

2007-12-09 06:36:46 · 8 answers · asked by kay 1 in Singles & Dating

Honestly, I am sick! I tried to turn my husband on this morning, left for a minute to brush my teeth, came back & he kept acting like he was not interested. So I left, took a shower & when I opened the door, he was on my laptop. I looked at the history & saw that he had been looking at porn while I was in the shower! After finding out, I chastised him & said so did you finish jacking off? He smiled & chuckled. I was pissed. Now he is mad at me because I am mad. Hello! Who wouldn't be mad? Anyway, I'm just sick of it. He keeps doing this. Are all men like this?? The thing is, I'm not ugly or overweight. Sometimes, I think this will lead to an eventual divorce. I'm sick of being left out. I have needs too, & he sure as heck isn't filling any of them!

2007-12-09 06:34:35 · 16 answers · asked by Katie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes I feel like I don't belong anywhere. And it's gonna take so long for me to get somewhere. Sometimes I feel so heavy hearted. But I can't explain cuz I'm so guarded

2007-12-09 06:34:27 · 47 answers · asked by nastyblues 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 06:31:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He is currently being treated for his addiction but I have heard he has tried to have sex with very young girls. My step-son acts very strange upon returning from thier place: Locking himself in the bathroom and if we go to check on him he yells and screams for us to go away. This only lasts a day until he realizes he is back with us. I am afraid he might be getting sexually abused while he is there. What do you all think and what should I do?

2007-12-09 06:30:27 · 7 answers · asked by P 3 in Family

In this I mean, if they were not actually planning to get married to anyone for financial or social reasons, but happen to fall deeply in love. would this make them suddenly become ready

2007-12-09 06:29:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-09 06:28:01 · 13 answers · asked by ٩(̾●̮̮̃̾•̃̾)۶ Gatorade 4 in Singles & Dating

i'm one of only 2 females in the office, and i get really turned on by one of the men working there. he's married, but i find myself having sexual thoughts about him. my mojo really gets working lol.

2007-12-09 06:27:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce