hi,
I am in a long distance relationship which is not working, in every time I want to break up with my boyfriend he says or does something to get me back and works like magic, I want desperately a way to break up with him. Plz spare me your answer if u r going to say just say it cuz I have already done it and it didn’t work!!
Plz give me some tips to a guy within a week
Thanks a lot ;)
2007-12-09 07:00:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*some tips to lose a guy within a week
2007-12-09 07:02:04 · update #1
wow useful tips thanks guys
2007-12-09 07:37:28 · update #2
Try writing a letter to get clear exactly why you don't want to be with hime anymore. If you want, you can then send it. Job done.
If you'd prefer not to send it, don't answer his calls for a few days. Then when you eventually speak to him say you've been thinking about what you want from life and need to take a break to decide. Tell him not to contact you for a bit and ask him to respect your wishes. You'll have to be fair to him though if he's done nothing wrong, don't be really mean (unless you've tried being nice already!).
If he keeps 'winning you back' it's not him that's failing to break up with you, it's you not standing firm breaking up with him!
If it's what you want, hope you get it sorted.
2007-12-09 07:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by louise t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you break up with him and then do not see him or contact him again, he can't do anything to talk you into getting back together. In fact he can't "do or say something that works like magic" unless you allow it to work. Stop blaming him and just be firm about ending the relationship, then don't take his calls etc.
2007-12-09 15:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you need to TOTALLY ignore him after you break it off. If he calls, let it go to voicemail and delete the message without listening. If he sends something to you in the mail, return to sender unopened....just don't give him the opportunity to woo you back.
2007-12-09 15:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Meridianhawk42 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to listen to Sam Kinison"s humor.He is dead now,but I have some of his comedy tapes.He says to make a woman leave,just quit your job,lay around the house all day sucking up cocaine and messing up the place,and she gets mad and leaves.But,I digress,Sorry just be strong ."A woman has to do what a woman has to do!"
2007-12-09 15:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by debbie.sims 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop crawling back! Be firm and tell him to stop calling you. Don't answer calls and don't take him back. That's it. He will realize it eventually.
2007-12-09 15:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by :Sheila: 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat his dick like a beanbag chair untill it becomes really bad.
2007-12-09 15:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have an STD
Don't answer your phone or texts
Dont contact him for any reason
Tell him you think he's too small for you
2007-12-09 15:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok...so...i was IN THE SAME SITUATION 3 DAYS AGO...REALLY!SO...IS BETTER JUST TO SAY HIM THE TRUE AND WHAT YOU WANT...IS NOT THAT DIFFICULT...IN CASE YOU CAN'T!JUST DON T ANSWER HIM AT THE TELEPHONE,SMS...AND AVOID SEEING HIM...GO OUT WITH UR FRIEND...ACT LIKE A *****!...HE'LL GO....DON T WORRY
2007-12-09 15:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by sauvage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer
his calls, emails, etc.
Ever...or he'll lure
you back.
It's easy, just break
off your communication.
2007-12-09 15:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jenna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy, all you have to do is start talking about other guys
2007-12-09 15:03:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋