Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

This guy im with i really love him but he doesnt love me should i let him go before its gets to far to where ill end up getting hurt!!!

2007-12-09 08:56:34 · 23 answers · asked by Lashantiera Z 1 in Singles & Dating

alright, so, theres this guy at my school and he's a senior and he supposedly "likes me" atleast thats wat he said, on txt he was like, "i'm srry,, i like you and i don't know how to tell you other than text, do you like me?"but idk if he really likes me. all i know is, his friends and him are called the lumberjacks or somthn and they have this hangout place called,the lodge" and he gave me an invite(this was an invitation only party)and then was txting and calling seeing if i was gonna come.then my dad was like hvae him call me, to my brother thats a sophmore that he plays football w/, and justin took my phone from me and gave him my dads #.so he called my dad and asked him if i could go.(it was a halloween party)dad said idk.but i decided not to since no other freshman were going.anyways he txted me last night saying that and i want your opinions on this please.btw-hes the quarterback, well was.but football seasons over.and i'm a cheerleader.
i dont want anything rude.
thanks.

2007-12-09 08:56:20 · 5 answers · asked by courtyg93 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to be in a relationship with someone but every guy who seems to like me i don't like. their all really nice guys to. i'm not saying i like the jerky guys. is it that i'm just looking for mister right? i just don't get it and i hate hurting all this guys but i just don't like them. how can i be nice about it?

2007-12-09 08:56:13 · 8 answers · asked by jordyn k 1 in Singles & Dating

im 16 he is 19. we were pretty much unoffically dating due to our age. I knew that there was a law keeping us apart and that things would be though for the next year or 2. well last nite, I had a strange dream. I had drempt that we were about to kiss and then some woman found out about our age difference, and then the next thing I could remember was us running away from her and then him disapearing, not answering his phone.
well we were talking through email and he said something alonf the lines "there are lots of things keeping us apart, and i wish i could tell you that that doesnt matter to me, but it does" i respect that, cuz I dont want him to get in trouble beacuse of me...I asked him what he ment by that, but hes not online to reply. but if he ment what I think. I cant handle that. I am crying as I type. I really like him and want to be with him, and its hard for me to think I have to wait a yr or 2. and I feel that its my fault for being so young. I dont know what to do... help

2007-12-09 08:55:29 · 10 answers · asked by Ladyjack12 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 he is 31 we have a 3 year old and 1 year old boys. She has had problem with drugs in the past, her parents have left her. She is currently not in school and we are helping her with that as well. She is a big help around the house and with the kids. She gives us respect and respects our house. She kind of acts like a kid we never had. My family doesn't think it is a good idea as they are always judging the book by it's cover. My husbands family thinks it is a good idea because they know we need help with babysitting. What do you think?

2007-12-09 08:55:04 · 9 answers · asked by bigsan2001 1 in Family

your all i want your all i need, if i was there i would beg and pleed, please dont leave me, tell me you'll stay, i wouldnt want it any other way, my life without you oh so grim, baby you could be my only sin, a love strong it could only be wrong, but you are the only thing in my life that truly belongs

My Boyfriend made it !!!
♥♥ I love you cody ♥♥

2007-12-09 08:54:46 · 11 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I've been interested in for a few months and for the past month and half or so, has expressed interest back. We hold hands, get kind of cuddly, hang out on weekends, have been on a couple dates, and went to a dance together.

But we're not officially dating.

Is it because he doesn't want to? He's kind of a shy kid, but he makes a lot of the first moves involving hand holding and asking on dates, so I feel like he'd be bold enough to confirm us as a couple. Should I bring it up with him? I'm afraid he'd think I was pushing it on him and being weird.

2007-12-09 08:54:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cause alot of people do that , that i no as friends!!!

2007-12-09 08:52:52 · 53 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 5' 10" average weight with straight brunette a little below shoulder length hair



AM I HOTT OR NOT? ANSWER HONESTLY! GUYS ONLY

2007-12-09 08:51:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 08:51:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are attracted to each other, and we had good conversations, but I chose not to date him because I don't think I can form a brilliant future with sb. who only earn minimum wage. and if I date him, what if my Mr. Right showed up?

tired of my single life, don't have much friends either, only him, but I can't talk to him any more... feel depressed. really wished he can just be a good friend who just want companionship, nothing more...

2007-12-09 08:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How did it turn out in the end

2007-12-09 08:50:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is a boy! i met her while she was pregnant.Watched her give birth, call him my own. But she is in to drugs, I'm not (any more). I feel like she uses me as a father figure and some one to watch him while she dose them,spends all her money on them. Then expects me to pay her rent, so she dosn't get kicked out. I don't know when i say "ok take you and your(our child) and go away. Let hte chips fall where they may.

2007-12-09 08:48:23 · 34 answers · asked by ronnie s 1 in Singles & Dating

Its my last year in high school and I recently developed really strong feelings for this guy in my grade. We hang in the same group at school and talk some outside of school. When we are together we always touch a lot and somtimes I catch him staring at me in class. I really want to see if we could be more than friends but I dont know if it's worth it since we have less than a year left. To make matters worse one of my friends likes him and flirts with him nonstop. He's not really the type that would ask me out so should I make the first move? Or should I just forget about it?

2007-12-09 08:48:07 · 5 answers · asked by brand_new 2 in Singles & Dating

I currently live with my mother to help her and her husband financially. I dislike her husband a lot. He treats my mothers sons and daughters terribly. He treats his own son like no other. Ive lived on my own i was struggling for a while but i was a lot happier.I dont know if i should go with them and deal with the issues but be closer to my mother.OR if i should continue my own life and be here alone 10 hours away from my mother.I have no family to fall back on anywhere.But then again i cant deal with the stress.

2007-12-09 08:46:21 · 4 answers · asked by winniethepoohluver1029 1 in Family

her house needs alot of work but we would buy it for 45k....it is a 4/2 with no garage....we just built a new 4/2 with a 2 car garage and a dream pool (i build them for a living)....we owe 190k on ours, but it is brand new and in florida that means less electricity, insurance, and way better resale....

2007-12-09 08:45:55 · 15 answers · asked by johnny r 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been together for a while, in the beginning he always told me he wanted to be married and have kids someday, I was the one who made the comments about marraige being horrible (I had a VERY bad marraige before), now after living with him, and being with him, I can recognize him as the only man I ever want to be with. How do I tell him that I grew up, saw the light and want to marry him someday?

2007-12-09 08:43:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

SO 1st umm.....
1- I cant seem to sleep at nights any ideas?
2- Well any advice, i mean i study my but off and dont get a decent grade
3- My 2 friends wont get along and im closer than one than the other but im still really close with the other and they arent geting along! what to do?

2007-12-09 08:42:47 · 1 answers · asked by Munkybutt21 2 in Friends

after you've had a really tough deal in life....after smthg real bad happened to you.
They can't realise how hard it is, but they can refrain from making fun of you. You're so vulnerable you can't defend yourself at the time.
How do you get even??

2007-12-09 08:42:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Christmas is almost here. My 2 kids, 1 is 22 the other 24. granddaughter is 7 and grandson is almost 2. I used to see the g/d every w/e for 6 years. my g/s every other w/e. for the past 6 months. Both of my kids (adults now) are mad at me and said i am the worst mother and my daughter don't want to see me on xmas or see my g/d. i am so hurt and confused. i have appologized for anything i have done wrong and begged them, even just for the holidays to put things aside. she said no way. we have gotten along this is something that has been happening the past 5 months. i even lent or gave her 300.00 to get her car fixed and my daughter said i was probably tring to pay her to see my grandaughter. I miss them so much, mostly the g/d. i keep crying/ praying i just don't know where i went wrong. my son called me today and said he will be spending xmas with his sister at her house and let me know that he don't like me and he said actually i hate you! please any advice

2007-12-09 08:39:37 · 7 answers · asked by lindalu 3 in Family

We are planning for prom in March (it's early this year). I want to stay in a hotel for one night with my bf (he's 17 while I'm 16) and his friends but my stupid father said that it is a bad idea and won't lend me the money.

Why are parests such pests?

2007-12-09 08:36:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Not me and no thanks. But how about you? How'd it turn out?

2007-12-09 08:35:45 · 7 answers · asked by LEMON the good life 7 in Singles & Dating

all older, the state is Ohio, she left no will but a small home in which the older siblings live, the money in her purse is already gone and so are the credit cards. What should he do to protect his meager share?

2007-12-09 08:35:00 · 6 answers · asked by Patty B 2 in Family

My younger brother died three months ago. My mother and I were planning on going to a candlelight service tonight held by a grief support group in our area. However, I've changed my mind...I don't want to go anymore. When I asked my mother if she could just drop me off at home instead, both she and my grandmother became upset with me. Is it wrong of me to just want to be alone, instead of surrounded by people telling me how sorry they are, saying saccharine, cliche statements that are no more than empty words? What is so wrong about just wanting to be by myself tonight?

2007-12-09 08:34:55 · 6 answers · asked by Shadow's Sister 2 in Family

what does everyone on here think of this situation?
If someone has a bf/gf of a lonnng time, and decides
to hook up with one of their friends--and they start
doing it almost everytime they see each other, and become
cuddle buddies too. but the bf/gf didnt tell their significant
other, do you consider that a "friends with benefits" type thing,
or just a cheating thing? or both? idk what to tell the person?

2007-12-09 08:34:36 · 7 answers · asked by atomic_x_apples 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been married to my wife for 3 years. And the past 4 months we have been having problems. It all started out like this.

We seemed very happy, we had very few problems. But I had to go on an extended business trip and could not take my wife with me. So I had my wife go to her parents house because we were planning on relocating and I had to find a place first.

When I was gone my wife started saying things like "you just shipped me out here because you want to divorce me." etc etc.... my wife for some reason got the idea in her head that I was abandoning her, which was FARTHEST from the truth. Realizing there was problems, I quit my new job opportunity and packed my bags and drove all the way across country to try and fix our marriage.

2007-12-09 08:33:44 · 14 answers · asked by BlaBla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what are the things i will inherit as a wife if my husband dies?he always said to me why he cant give me nationality bec. he dont want i get his house when we divorce? is that true, cn i get his house if i divorced him?or if he divorce me.

2007-12-09 08:32:54 · 3 answers · asked by george 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend of 3 yrs have decided to come to an end. buti feel like i made the worng choice. can someone please help me figure out how to do anything to get him back. men, what can a female do to blow you away and give you a clear picture that she appreciates you and needs you. what do men want or need to feel that way? help me please

2007-12-09 08:32:53 · 22 answers · asked by jjzzlove 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend(we'll call her Samantha 4 now) dresses very inappropriately... wearing very very tight tops,low cut tops, short shorts, & very tight jeans(big butt & big breasts so she really stand out to all the guys(who r part of the reason she dresses like that))
How can i tell her she dresses like a scank without hurting her feelings
P.S. I'm 70 pounds lighter than she is & the clothes she wears would b tight on me.

2007-12-09 08:31:49 · 9 answers · asked by Kirsten J 2 in Friends

I'm 20 now. I dont belive anymore and haven't for years. I just play church so I won't dissapoint them. But I'm getting tired of hiding it. And yes I do go to church with them. I know they'll blame it on my Atheist Boyfriend, but the truth is I haven't belived long before I met him. The question is, should I tell them or let them keep thinking I belive?

2007-12-09 08:25:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family