If a boy or a girl asked you do u want to have sex on the first nigh whatwould be your answer?

Question

Cause alot of people do that , that i no as friends!!!

Answer 1

My answer would be, "Of course not!" Because sex should be between people who are in love, and have a commitment with each other.

Answer 2

NO! NO! NO! NO!
What part of NO do you not understand? The N or the O?
Having sex on the 1st night only shows that that person has no REAL self control AND usually doesn't care about the REALLY IMPORTANT ISSUES (like pregnancy, STD's, IF the other person REALLY cares about you or just about their own personal desires of having sex). Come on, show some maturity and tell them maybe, (notice that the word is MAYBE and maybe DOES NOT indicate an automatic yes) MAYBE in a week, but on the 1st night.NO. And REAL friends don't have sex w/each other that way..Only MISGUIDED and usually immature people play that game. And if you think that ya "just got to have it that 1st night", then most likely, you need some guidance and possibly counseling to find out why you feel that a DESIRE is a NEED when in fact it is NOT, and why you feel compelled to act in such a irresponsible manner.

Answer 3

I am a guy and I would still say no because sex is usually the beginning of a life long commitment (assuming that it is without a condom) and any guy should at least understand that before getting involved...Unfortunately though in today's society, most questions are answered by sexual favor but in this case if it was me being asked this by a girl my answer would still remain no.

Answer 4

There wouldn't be a second date, because there wouldn't have been an opportunity for anyone to apologize for making such a request. I don't carry myself in a manner that would imply that such a question would be either appropriate or likely to be asked. Sex isn't safe; these days it can kill you. Besides it not being moral to jump into bed with just anyone because you went on a "date" it's down right nasty and doesn't say much for folks that think through their crotch.

Answer 5

This is an in depth answer to your Question!!!
The thing is it is not about the asking but the expectance of it.
If a man expects sex from a woman on a first date that shows his shallow mentality and lack of morel standers and for a woman a man like that is a player and will RRRRun away for commitment and submitting to her meaning being response bill for her when she do get pregnant and take the responsibility for her if some thing go’s wrong. But and that changes every thing I just said Sex is mend at a time in a man and woman’s life where there is a life time commitment!
Now for the woman if the man asks for sex and you say yes well that will show you that you need too work on your morel standards. Why will you join your self to a man what can’t commit to you? Premarital sex needs commitment, understanding leading to marriage that is now in the 21 centaury And not in the 1950’s! So for all that said No!!! Good Now lets get deeper in to it in to the psychological aspects of Sexuality be for marriage keep in mind you will be come like the one you are sleeping with so if you don’t smoke, do drugs lets stay with smoking. You might begin gravening for it or become more except bill to it and if you do smoke well if you lose your breasts do to breast cancer as long cancer is common in Tobacco use and can lead to all kinds of cancer. But we are talking about the psychological aspects of it.
Behavior changers, attitude or life stile changers you can get do to promiscuity or the practice off premarital sex all sort’s of behavioral changers not for the good but for the worst!!!
Ok I will stay on a level you can understand or any one else what is reading this answer to understand what I am trying to get across to you reading this. There is some dangers in the practice of premarital sex and I am not just talking to about S.T.D but personality changers you may encounter after you had sex with a man or woman. Not even talking about abusive love or sexual abusive in the way of having violent sex with you if you are a woman so bad that you cant hand ill the pane the next day and suffers the trauma of the experience it have happened I have seen it . A woman got so abused she cold not stop bleeding virginally and anal le. I will save you the grouse detail. But you get what I am trying to say!!
That entire episode she suffered is on the first night sexual experience. She did not know him and he was a porn freak practicing out what he have exposed him self to.
My conclusion is waiting for 6 months at least be for you give your self to a man in sexual union but I advise you wait for marriage so that you know the man you are with is giving him self to you not for jut 6 months a year not for a undecided time what you call a civil union marriage is not may be I will stoic to you and then kick you on your *** after some 5 years and leave you with the children. The same can happen in married life. That is why you have to be 100% sir tin that it is the man you want to marrie and for man an lose woman will not commit to you for a long time and might use you for financial gain or just for what she can get out of you and then dump you if you cant deliver the good s no more.
That is my advise to you asking this Question and for those reading this.
That is it from me Mr. Jaco K

Answer 6

I would look the guy up and down a couple minutes, having a hopeful look (giving off the impression I might say yes) and then I'd quickly be like, "No. Way." Then turn and walk the other direction.

blondie.

Answer 7

I'm 42 yrs old so well old enough to be having sex...sometimes I might choose to do so on the first date, other times not. Depends on how well we connect and what the prospects are of us seeing each other in the future.

Answer 8

It really depends on the situation and who the guy is. I think I would usually say no but I can see it happening if everything was right. I don't think that it's usually expected unless it's someone you're taking home from the bar or a party or something. Sometimes it is definitely implied.

Answer 9

I won't lie... If my current bf had asked me on the first night I met him (I was so drunk I kept falling over every five minutes, and he was my brothers buddy who was the sweetheart to help me = ) when I met him) I would have said yes... But damn, I was drunk, and he is very cute, and he's way too much of a gentleman to ever ask.

Answer 10

Bad Idea! Sex is wonderful......IF DONE RIGHT!!!! Lots of bad can happen if done in haste or unprotected.
You should want to know something about the person you might want to share your body with. You might also want to understand yourself, and what you want from them.
If you only want a hook-up, be honest about it and USE PROTECTION. Don't confuse lust for love, and you'll come out just fine.