This guy im with i really love him but he doesnt love me should i let him go before its gets to far to where ill end up getting hurt!!!
2007-12-09 08:56:34 · 23 answers · asked by Lashantiera Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you could ask him if he thought he could ever love you ? if not then it would be best to part ways. You wouldn't want him to marry you just because you love him + he just likes you. You know that isn't the kind of relationship you really want.
2007-12-09 09:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by toobingaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should first thank him for being honest and sincere with you as his woman. Secondly, you two are together so it's obvious he wants to be with you and cares about you. He's just not in love with you yet. And that's fine. Just give it time, and continue to love him as he deserves as a man. And as long as you continue to do that, he will soon feel the same. Hope it helps.
2007-12-09 17:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him. Give him some time, but don't be to overwhelming with your feelings (because that may pressure him). I think it's great that he didn't tell you he loves you because that means that he cares about you enough to not mislead you. No need to let him go, give him some time.
As far as your feelings you could meantion once in a while that you love him, but it may be too much pressure. Don't push him say it, because when he says it, you want him to mean it.
Good Luck
2007-12-09 17:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bronze Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all there is a big difference between " I don't love you" and "I don't love you yet". the "Yet" signifies that he could love you and just isn't there yet, in which case i say give it time never push someone to fall in love let him tell you when he is. have a conversation with him on if he could everlove you and I think you will get your awnser there.
Hope this helps
2007-12-09 17:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by jackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be his friend and let things happen naturally. If you force the issue of relationship and love, this guy will leave you in two shakes.
Trust me, guys who do this are really leery of committed women.
Read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus".
2007-12-09 17:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do if someone you love tells you that he doesnt feel that way about you yet!!!?
Thank them for being honest and not misleading you because they are caught up in the moment.
2007-12-09 16:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by antswife 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He might just need some time. I used to know a girl who told her boyfriend that she loved him just so she wouldn't hurt him when he said he loved her. I would be glad for not being misled. You shouldn't break up though, unless you feel he's never going to get past it.
2007-12-09 17:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go. it takes time for everyone. But don't pressure him or make him claustrophobic. give him space to make the decision for himself. so on some nights - take a break from him - go out with friends. let him see you being social, happy, and energetic.
2007-12-09 17:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by sandi10017 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off of him......that is the best you can do. Maybe once he realizes that you are able to back off, he'll think and feel differently. IT MAY BE HARD but you have to be tough. I'm serious here.
2007-12-09 17:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah move on dont look back ! never ever wait for a guy to love you it wont happen. guys like a chase anyway and that itsnt/wasnt there.
2007-12-09 17:04:25 · answer #10 · answered by Patricia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋