We have been together for a while, in the beginning he always told me he wanted to be married and have kids someday, I was the one who made the comments about marraige being horrible (I had a VERY bad marraige before), now after living with him, and being with him, I can recognize him as the only man I ever want to be with. How do I tell him that I grew up, saw the light and want to marry him someday?
2007-12-09 08:43:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
much like you did just now, except more about him...stress that it was him and only him that made you see the light, tell him that you'd only consider it with him, and how much he's meant to you...be open and honest, set everything off as very intimate from the start....it'll make him feel on top of the world, and see that you both have so much love for each other.
Good luck and congrats!
2007-12-09 08:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by lmspencr 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Instead of getting on the net and ask people for ideas.
Why don't you come up with one of your own idea?
Be strong and tell him in person. Tell him what inside of your heart from your own feelings with no bs.
You said you want to be together then you should have prepared yourself wht to say to him.
Come-on!
2007-12-09 17:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dongfeng!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the form of a compliment like you just did. Men accept info well when it's covered in praise. Tell him "I used to think...... but since I see your character, I realize that marriage could be great with a guy like you....."
2007-12-09 16:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dulos 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell him he's proven to you that not all men are like your ex and you can honestly say you've found yourself a good man that you want to keep in your life. Let him take it from there.
2007-12-09 16:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Say it just like that. But kind of ease into the subject and get his thoughts on it.
2007-12-09 16:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by tibsy2007 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just tell him. It is very simple and easy, although you may feel nervous slightly, but that is okay.
I_Spearedyou - have you helped a friend today?
2007-12-09 16:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Uh just tell him siily =P
2007-12-09 17:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Verbally. In a language he understands.
2007-12-09 16:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just as easily as you told us
2007-12-09 16:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by itsallgood 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
buy him a diamond and ask for his hand in marriage
2007-12-09 17:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋