i want to be in a relationship with someone but every guy who seems to like me i don't like. their all really nice guys to. i'm not saying i like the jerky guys. is it that i'm just looking for mister right? i just don't get it and i hate hurting all this guys but i just don't like them. how can i be nice about it?
2007-12-09 08:56:13 · 8 answers · asked by jordyn k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whats wrong with dating around?
2007-12-09 08:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tomps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help whom you're attracted to, but I say that you give these guys you say you don't like a chance...go out with them on a friendly date (nothing serious or anything) or two and see what happens. You never know, you could end up really liking some of these guys if you got to know them. And also that way, if you still don't like them afterwards, at least you'll know you tried and didn't miss out just because they weren't your type at first. If you go out with these guys and still don't feel a romantic connection, then tell them that they're great guys, and that there's nothing wrong with them...you just don't feel that the two of you are right for each other. It'll hurt them, but not as much as it would if you led them on and they found out your true feelings. Good luck, it's a tough situation.
2007-12-09 09:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get me wrong, picky is good. But give every other guy (figuratively) a chance to be yours. go have coffee, chat, hang out, see what's what. Then you can decide who to be picky with.
2007-12-09 09:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion just date one of the nice guys, if u find mr. right then u can always dump the other one its not like you are gonna be stuck with them 4ever!!
2007-12-09 09:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by uuummmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe youre just aiming a bit too high. sometimes Mr Right can be right in front of you and you might not even look his way because of your standards that you set.
2007-12-09 09:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating does not = serious relationship if you are dating that does not mean you cannot date others
2007-12-09 09:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jordyn k, Sweety you are doing the right thing. Waiting for Mr. right is a very good atitude !
2007-12-09 09:03:39 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u dont like them and they get rejected they just have to get over it
2007-12-09 09:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋