Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

i used 2 go wit him 4 at least a year on and off until our parents broke us up during da summer. i gain at least 15 pounds during my sulke summer eating tons of junk food. den when i came back 2 da church after summer i realized he was the one 4 me .i miss him and i want him back but i think he has a girlfriend please help me

2007-12-09 09:57:23 · 20 answers · asked by bootyshakers 1 in Singles & Dating

so then my mom was like u know wat i am tired of hearing u complain u piece of ****! and she was like u want something tell ur father! ( my mom alwyas complains about my dad! ALL THE TIME!) then like 2 minutes latre my mom actually got up and went over 2 my sister and yelled at her! he wsa liek screaming! and its hard for me cuase i am so young and i have to hear screaming and cryin all the time and i hate it! school is stressful 2! and i am sick and tired of everything! ( there has been multiple fights and screaming nad crying and it makes me sad and cry 2!) my mother just screamed at my sister gaain and now my om left and my sister is in her room and slammed the door! ) i dont knkow wat 2 do! i try soo hard 2 just forget about it and be happy but i cant! it happens 2 often! we arent gonna see a family helper person and i talk 2 my friends and stuff and they are NO HELP i need good help! and i am not talki 2 my mom or sister! no one undertsands my situatiion! no mater who i ask. help

2007-12-09 09:57:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-09 09:56:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate them. But my boyfriend loves them. He knows this about me but i want to suprise him with one when he gets back from his annual training with the army. He is in a lot of pain so i figured i would try to make him feel better. Problem is. I dont even know where to begin. I have never ever had one. Nor would i like one. But i really want to know how to give him one. Please help. He doesn't come home until saturday. So i have a bit of time.

2007-12-09 09:56:26 · 1 answers · asked by Ashley K 2 in Singles & Dating

lately i dont know what it is i just constantly am worrying my girlfriend is up to something... she wont answer her phone( then i find out shes working over time or her phones dead) or if shes really home (shes taking a nap sometimes and i overreact) or like today she has this really sexy lingerie and i enver knew she bought it like she was hiding it from i kept asking to see it shes like what does it matter and it still has the tag but i automatically assumed she was cheating on me i don't know why and even she says im becoming psycho and i know its starting to push her away from me what should i do i know shes not doing anything but i cant help to think that she is she says its pulling her away from me she thinks its so bad and unhealthy and i dont want that i love her i dont want to lose her cuz im being stupid what should i do?

2007-12-09 09:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so what happened is that me and this guy and i were just freinds but then i dont really know how i fell in love with him... we talked for about ten months he told me he loved me and that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me but he never asked me out.... two weeks before halloween we agreed to be together and for two weeks he was great it was like if finally he realized how much he really did love me. we saw eachother that day and it was great it felt perfect he finally asked me out i was so happy..... however evrything changed after that we didnt talk we didnt see eachother it was hell and then i found out he was cheating on me..... he confesed and told me it was over but that he really did love me and all this other bull... i told him goodbye for good but then i couldnt so i talked to him again but it wasnt the same, just today i found out that hes been spending the weekend with her and that hurts so much because he was my first love.... im just so hurt what should i do?

2007-12-09 09:56:01 · 4 answers · asked by redfairy 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what is going on with me?? I feel so sad and cry when he say he want to leave?? I like him but I like to joke with him alot... Yesterday he ask me if i like him. I say i like him but he dont believe me . i quarrel with him and told him that i will not blame you if you dont trust me because it's my fault. instead of feeling more anger i feel sad. Why did he ever pursue a relationship to begin with?I send him a farewell text . He say he is not leaving anymore, he say he love me?? What's up with him?

2007-12-09 09:55:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 09:54:58 · 41 answers · asked by Lorrane 2 in Singles & Dating

I have liked this guy since March. I really think I am becoming obsessed with him. It's hard to explain, but I have never been more attracted and felt more chemisty with anyone in my life. We have hooked up but he doesn't want a relationship and he really doesn't treat me like he cares at all. I know everyone says why be with someone who treats you that way, but he's like a drug to me.. he gives a little and takes a lot and leaves me wanting more everytime. I know I need to move on cuz he's never gonna wanna be with me. How do I move on? Every time I am drunk I get the urge to call him and I do. When I see him I melt. I've even dated other guys but I still think about him. I'm hooked on him. What do I do??

2007-12-09 09:54:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating somebody for almost 2 years now and he can never seem to find the time to call me...on weekends he disappears and if i try calling him i get his voicemail. He doesn't care about how upset this makes me. I know that he really truly does love me, but i've had enough. I really do love him and I know he has it in him to treat me better, but nothing is working. I don't know what to do to get through to him anymore. What should I do? Stay with him and try and make him realize that he hurts me, or leave him? it's so hard on me...

2007-12-09 09:51:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My life since the age of 18 has been my children. This will be the first Christmas I have spent without them (and grandchildren). Last night, I put up the Christmas Tree and I cried. I know they have their own lives and I respect that, but I felt so lonely. I will see them on Christmas morning, then they will be gone to do their own thing. I certainly do not envy that and do not begrudge it. I wish them all that I did not have, but I feel so alone.I am 52rys 'young'.

2007-12-09 09:50:12 · 13 answers · asked by Somer 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

?

2007-12-09 09:49:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been im'ing everyday. he wanted to take it slow and communicate only online till he felt comfortable. his previous gf cheated on him and he was very gun shy. though he said after a few months that he was falling in love with me. we exchanged pictures. well-this past week-after a year-he called me on the phone out of the blue and says he wants to meet.

is this too weird??

2007-12-09 09:47:24 · 5 answers · asked by ronnie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 09:46:56 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't want a bunch of commentary on the dangers, and how people can be dishonest, lets assume we're all honest. Is it possible?

2007-12-09 09:45:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A grl who is shy and sweet or a grl who is outgoing and talkative at first?

2007-12-09 09:44:28 · 10 answers · asked by nuttiebabie 1 in Singles & Dating

i love my bfriend but thats the problem.. i really love him..we're together now for 2 years.. he's kind'a controling me. i mean he's not spying on me but he wants me to tell him everything even to ask him for desition that i have to make..and i'm not that kind of person.. i'm, i mean i was, very independent and now i'm not happy because i cant be ME..
2 years ago he didnt used to be like that, so i feld in love with him.. but than eveything change exept 1 thing: that i still love him as much as i always did..
i'm stuck .. it's not like i haven't talked to him about all this, but he doesen't understand me..
here where i live it's not good do have had more than 1 relationships..i had one before. and i told him..he didn't like the fact that i loved someone before him (tipical mentality of here) so now he doesn't always trust me..
if i make desitions without asking him,i fear he will leave me.. i cant leave him cuz i might never get a boyfriend again, and did i mention that i love him?

2007-12-09 09:44:17 · 3 answers · asked by samsamilya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean would you rather have a woman who has a perfect body but an average looking face, or someone who has a beautiful face but is carrying a few extra pounds of fat?

2007-12-09 09:42:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not like Easy women?
surely its everything they want, a woman throwing themselves at them!
honest opinions x

2007-12-09 09:42:33 · 18 answers · asked by DumbBlonde x 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my friend have some horrible ex boyfriend's that have ruined our reputation and now its there turn but we need something really good to get them back

2007-12-09 09:41:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend and I don't think its going to work out. We've been dating for 8 months and are very close. I just dont feel the fire like I once did. Does anyone know how to let a guy go as easy as possible?

2007-12-09 09:40:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad loves candles!!! But I give him that every year!! What should I get him this year??? Please help!!

2007-12-09 09:38:49 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Now question, how do you all deal with major differences in a marriage...I.e Cultural, religious, personal preferences?

My husband and I have been married for 6 months (dated for 4 only before that) and are already having problems. We have a lot of differences that didn't seem to make a difference until after we got married even though we discussed everything before hand. I am religious and he makes me feel stupid when he says things like "christians are mindless" when I know I'm not...I like things that he doesn't like and so on but religious has to be the most difficult to work around especially when we have kids! Just looking for some advice..we talk but he gets mad easily so our talks don't go far usually end in me in bed or sad

2007-12-09 09:38:23 · 21 answers · asked by C.C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends tell me 2 get out of my relationship of 4 yrs with my boyfriend whom I love. "When we get into arguement" 90% they R from him & due 2 his trust issues. He starts swearing and I yell back 2 but without swearing. But when we aren't fighting we R perfect together. Recently we were fighting & I was fed up with him swearing & yelling at me. I try 2 leave but he said no cuz I had few drinks which I did, but he was the drunk one. He was holding my arms tight and continued swearing at me. I pinched hard 4 him to let go of me & he got furious. He squeezed my arms so tight lifting me a little that I screamed in pain. The next day my left upper arm was black and blue. The bruise was as big as a person's hand. He couldn't believe when he saw it. He didn't realize how tight he had done it & apologized. I forgave him, cuz I felt I lead him to do it by pinching him. My friends think he is out of control & abusive & I need to get out now. R they right?

2007-12-09 09:37:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so I have been seeing a guy for a few months (ted) and his ex gal still calls him and it kind of bugs me.
so i was thinking of telling him "ohh sorry but I cant go out tuesday cuz I promised jeremy ( someone i used to date but now we are good friends) i would go as friends with him to a Christmas party and I promised him before I met you." ( even though ted and I agreed not to see other people)

do you think its a good idea.. i mean i have no christmas party but I figure if he is still talking to his ex why cant i go out with mine as friends???? is this a good idea?? honestly???

2007-12-09 09:36:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Go up to the girl he likes and tell her that he likes her. When is it the riight time for a guy to tell the girl he likes her.

2007-12-09 09:36:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out that I have postpartum depression the other day and I have been getting counselling and am being put on medication for it.I have had it for almost a year now but only just found out what it is. I went and told my mum about it and she turned around and said "now you know what I went through" and said hers was alot worse. I thought that she shouldn't have brought that up since it was like 30 years ago that she had it and I wasn't even born yet. Anyway, I got over that then the next day she came over to my house and sat there and started crying. I asked her what was wrong and she said she didn't know and that she was depressed and sick. I got angry at her because I felt that she knew what I was going through but decided to make it all about herself anyway.She went home pissed off at me so I went over there and she turned the whole thing around onto me and made me feel even worse. She is now acting like she is the victim and I am just a *****. What am I going to do?

2007-12-09 09:35:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm confused she loved just a day ago she told me something I got angry and texted her the B word back. She texted me back that she hatted me.

2007-12-09 09:33:51 · 8 answers · asked by DA454 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years. We have a 20 month old son together. We met in Church and got married...the whole kit and kaboodal. Then 6 months ago I found out that he has this deep dark secret and devistated me. He left. I have been trying to pick up the pieces of my life and trying to provide a somewhat normal life for my son and myself. What would you do? Would you divorce? Does the pain ever go away?

2007-12-09 09:33:01 · 19 answers · asked by Kathern 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you get truthful answers from an alcoholic?

2007-12-09 09:32:41 · 17 answers · asked by Diane m 1 in Marriage & Divorce