I have liked this guy since March. I really think I am becoming obsessed with him. It's hard to explain, but I have never been more attracted and felt more chemisty with anyone in my life. We have hooked up but he doesn't want a relationship and he really doesn't treat me like he cares at all. I know everyone says why be with someone who treats you that way, but he's like a drug to me.. he gives a little and takes a lot and leaves me wanting more everytime. I know I need to move on cuz he's never gonna wanna be with me. How do I move on? Every time I am drunk I get the urge to call him and I do. When I see him I melt. I've even dated other guys but I still think about him. I'm hooked on him. What do I do??
2007-12-09 09:54:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're going to keep on doing what you're doing until you get tired of being treated that way. He must have put it on you good, but the thing is, if you can let go of him someone else could put it on you well, too but they could also have genuine regard for ALL of you. Food for thought, right?
2007-12-09 10:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, i think we've all been there. the first step is to delete his number from your phone. try to distract yourself. pick up some new hobbies. and, if you're calling him when you get drunk, then maybe stop drinking for a while. work on you! get in shape, get a new haircut, reinvent yourself... it just takes time to move on, but it will be worth it, because there is someone out there for you that won't treat you like an object, he'll treat you like a princess!
good luck and i wish you much happiness!
2007-12-09 18:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by underpre$$ure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of everything connected to him. Delete his number from your phone. Take a break from drinking. Do some regular exercise - not to loose any weight, but to increase your serotonin levels and to keep you occupied with something else. Over time, the feeling will pass.
2007-12-09 18:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, maybe their is a simple solution. but its so so hard to let go of someone. would it be easier or more difficult if he was really in to you when you were together??? like you really had a good thing and now its gone. but it sounds like it is a one one way street. like he represents something really amazing to you, but is he really mr. amazing? i'd break the cycle. stop hooking up with him, if thats what you are still doing. get yourself to a healthy place mentally. and who knows...... thats a super attractive quality in a woman! but, i don't think it can work out for you in a healthy/positive way if he's not respecting you now. let go.
2007-12-09 18:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by orange peel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor.
2007-12-09 17:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to leave this guy. as bad as it sounds, you need to make a list of everything you don't like about him, and read it over and over until you get over him.
2007-12-09 17:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop drinking and call a doctor
2007-12-09 17:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋