2007-12-09 09:54:58 · 41 answers · asked by Lorrane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
chase him, but don't be too obsessive.
2007-12-09 09:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm in the same situation and the general advice im getting is that you give him a taste of what you have to offer...kinda flirt, maybe hook up once or twice etc and then back off and make him chase you and if he doesn't then he wasnt worth it anyway...yeah this sounds like a bit of a risk and to be honest im very nervous about it but there is a lot of sense behind the advice so its worth a shot!!
2007-12-09 10:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by zzzzzzzz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go chase after him or if the girl likes to slow it down go flirt first then the guy might chase after if not for a few weeks go chase after..
2007-12-09 10:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the guys too shy then the girl has to do some chasing too. but i usually wait for guys to chase after me
2007-12-09 09:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by claudia68 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You may flirt with a guy you like but I would not recommend you chasing a guy. YOu may give a bad impression by making yourself out there in the open.
2007-12-09 10:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chase but not too fast just enough to show interest then allow the guy to still be a gentleman and offer you out....... coming from a guy with a lot of females but also has a sister.
2007-12-09 09:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to make sure he know that you are interested but really (and I'm old fashioned I admit) it should be the guy who does all the chasing.
2007-12-09 09:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it should be equal. She don't want to look desperate so she should just give a little chase, if she gets no chase back, then move on.
2007-12-09 09:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
a girl can only wait so long so if he doesn't come to her she better chase after him soon
2007-12-09 10:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by autumn_angel_2010 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should wait, if you chase him too much, it could just scare him away for good.
2007-12-09 10:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I chased after my guy.....sort of
We met...I really liked him....we chatted...it was obvious I fancied him as his brother took the mickey out of me for it....
I took a chance and text him...
We chatted on msn....we semed to get on...we had a date...
We have now been together 5 months
But I still let him chase me sometimes, just so he thinks hes the winner! lol : )
2007-12-09 09:58:52 · answer #11 · answered by sweetnlow 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋