please help me get him back?

Question

i used 2 go wit him 4 at least a year on and off until our parents broke us up during da summer. i gain at least 15 pounds during my sulke summer eating tons of junk food. den when i came back 2 da church after summer i realized he was the one 4 me .i miss him and i want him back but i think he has a girlfriend please help me

Answer 1

there's other fish in the sea. if he has another girl friend he's moved on. you should do the same. odds are you can find better

Answer 2

How old are you, dear heart! Don't depend on a boy for you self worth, if he was any good he'd see how nice you really are. Get away from him and I mean RUN. Talk to an trusted adult, like an Aunt or someone from church or the school nurse (yes, the school nurse is usually trained to help with these things) I know its sad but G-d doesn't give you anything you can't handle. If it gets to heavy ask for help...don't wait to long. Being sad for too long can be bad for you but there's an old country song called, "Thank G-d for Unanswered Prays." It used to help me when I didn't get what I thought I wanted. Remember, G-d always knows best! P.S. The weight gain is just from being sad...get out, do a sport, jog, bicycle or some other physical activity. It will keep your mind off him and you'll feel and look better.

Answer 3

This will hurt, but,

It sounds like the first thing you MUST do is regain yourself--start a new hobby, like knitting or bowling or anything. Make yourself do it 1-2 hours a day for at least 2 weeks, then 30 minutes a day after that. Doesn't matter what hobby-----just GET ONE!

Truth is, there is absolutely NO WAY to get someone back... that's god's honest truth. There is that simple proverb about "if you let it go and it comes back to you" but that happens 1 in a million times. Don't pay money to psychics or horoscopes.

Even if you are not religious, I think what helped me is "what goes around comes around"-- and I'll give you a quick story. The guy I thought was going to leave his wife and marry me in 1998 stayed with her; I was devastated for years. 9 years later, they were divorced anyway, and I had a chance to date him, and I dumped him. I was so glad to get the chance to see what he was.

Answer 4

IF he has moved on i think it's best that u move on to!

Try to be his friend and gain his trust back that way if he breaks upw ith his current gf u'll be there and he may want to reconnect with u and go out with u again!

Never let a guy make u sad OR bring u down! No man is worth it!

Good Luck!

Answer 5

Follow these steps:

1. find a temporary man
2. take him out to a place you know your old boyfriend will be
3. do all the old flirts to the temp guy that your old boyfriend use to love.
=He will get so upset he will come back to you.

IMPORTANT: MAKE SURE YOU CALL HIM AND ASK YOU TO TAKE HIM BACK BEFORE YOU DO THIS OR YOU WILL GET IN EVEN WORSE TROUBLE WITH HIM IT WAS IN ALL OF THE TV SHOWS LIKE DRAKE AND JOSH AND HANNAH MONTANA. LUCK!

Answer 6

1.)Learn to spell
2.)If he has a girlfriend.. leave him alone and find another one.

women always think a guy is "the one" once they don't have him.. which is kind of nonsense.

Get over it

Answer 7

If he likes you the weight doesn't matter at all. Just talk to him naturally like you used to and find out if he does have a g/f or not. If he does, find out what he likes about her and do better.

Answer 8

I would talk to him and tell him what you have said here.that way he will know and maybe you 2 can get back together.i wish you luck

Answer 9

if you loved him you shouldnt have eaten junk food all summer, you should fought for your man, your time has come and gone, sweetie, sorry.
chel-c ;-)

Answer 10

talk to him and tell him how you feel. At least you will know where you stand