so then my mom was like u know wat i am tired of hearing u complain u piece of ****! and she was like u want something tell ur father! ( my mom alwyas complains about my dad! ALL THE TIME!) then like 2 minutes latre my mom actually got up and went over 2 my sister and yelled at her! he wsa liek screaming! and its hard for me cuase i am so young and i have to hear screaming and cryin all the time and i hate it! school is stressful 2! and i am sick and tired of everything! ( there has been multiple fights and screaming nad crying and it makes me sad and cry 2!) my mother just screamed at my sister gaain and now my om left and my sister is in her room and slammed the door! ) i dont knkow wat 2 do! i try soo hard 2 just forget about it and be happy but i cant! it happens 2 often! we arent gonna see a family helper person and i talk 2 my friends and stuff and they are NO HELP i need good help! and i am not talki 2 my mom or sister! no one undertsands my situatiion! no mater who i ask. help
2007-12-09 09:57:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
TALK TO A COUNSELOR AT SCHOOL.
2007-12-09 10:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first two answers. You should go to a school counselor. But careful how you do that because they tend to take things and make more of it than what it should be. you definately don't want them to declare your mother as unfit and then become a product of the system. Do you have any aunts or uncle? A grand mother? Anyone you can confide(trust) in to talk to. It's kinda difficult because we only know your side of the story. We still have your mothers side your sisters side and the truth. Not saying what you are saying isn't the truth but it's always good to hear all sides. But i really by what you are saying, think that your mother is going through something. as far as your sister arguing i think that is very disrespectful, and if she was my child she probably would regret opening her mouth the minute she did it. Your mother is your mother regardless of what you think. She will be their for you when no one else is. Unless it's something odd going on. try to be respectful to her. Just stop arguing with your sister. Tell your sister to listen to what your mother says even if she disagrees and keep her lips zipped no matter what she thinks she might need to say.
not sure why your mother uses such language with your sister. i just feel like their is something going on. Honestly you need help. Sorry that this is affecting you in school and all. Try to be the stronger link between the 3 of you. Be the back bone, the peace maker, the one who doesn't argue. Not really much a stranger or outsider can tell you hun because we are on the outside looking in. GOOD LUCK!
2007-12-09 18:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Thang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have you tried talking to your school counsleor,or to your grandparents ,i know when i was little and in grade schol i had a problem with my step father and i talked to my counsleor at school it helped me ,but i understand where you are coming from,sometimes this worked for me too when my parents started yelling i went to my room and closed the door so,turned my sterio on and relaxed listening to my music,
2007-12-09 18:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by froggylonglegs2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try seeing a school counselor or a minister.
2007-12-09 18:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a couseler at school good luck
2007-12-09 18:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by i<3music 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋