ok so what happened is that me and this guy and i were just freinds but then i dont really know how i fell in love with him... we talked for about ten months he told me he loved me and that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me but he never asked me out.... two weeks before halloween we agreed to be together and for two weeks he was great it was like if finally he realized how much he really did love me. we saw eachother that day and it was great it felt perfect he finally asked me out i was so happy..... however evrything changed after that we didnt talk we didnt see eachother it was hell and then i found out he was cheating on me..... he confesed and told me it was over but that he really did love me and all this other bull... i told him goodbye for good but then i couldnt so i talked to him again but it wasnt the same, just today i found out that hes been spending the weekend with her and that hurts so much because he was my first love.... im just so hurt what should i do?
2007-12-09 09:56:01 · 4 answers · asked by redfairy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aww, it's okay. at least, he was honest, but you should ask why. that happened to me, but I don't want to explain it because It's going to make me cry so much. so It's okay.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-09 10:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop loving something that doesn't love you back and start loving yourself enough to get back out there and find a real man. HE DOESN"T LOVE YOU. HE ISN"T WORTHY OF YOUR LOVE OR YOUR PAIN. Why is it that you think so little of yourself that you think you need him? You are better than that. You are worth more than that. Kick him to the curb as the waste product that he is and start looking for the man who will adore you. He's out there, but he's not even going to see you if you're down on your knees groveling at the feet of some loser who's got his hands on someone else. Isn't it obvious what you should do?
2007-12-09 10:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by Irish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem liek a great girl. this guy seems like an ***. you can do soooo much better then him. try to move on. sweetie, this guy is soo not worth your tears. i may only be 13 but trust me. i know.
2007-12-09 10:06:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least he was honnest and that neans a lot to us women and ask him why he did it
2007-12-09 10:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by 1hayhay72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋