Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

hey can anyone give me any advices? am a 15 year old girl, my little brother been ticking me off. So far he ripped my book that my bf bought me, and he took away my ps2, and my ipod. But even tho if i tell my parents on him they always sides on him, and i don't want to tell on him anymore cuz i got tired of it, and it seems to not help at all because they always side with him, and hes only 11 years old and hes being a bit too bossy with me. I want to stay away from the house but i can't. I really want my ipod back and the ps2 because its something i use to intertain lather the computer, right now hes bugging me on the computer and i can't even talk to my own bf because of him, i don't want him to read what i type, and hes being very annoying >< ah wah i can't find anything to do, i just hope anyone out there can help me out to solve this? i just really need help and its causing me stress, and its hard to do my homework because hes bugging me, i don't even have a room to myself.

2007-12-09 11:55:19 · 3 answers · asked by death note rocks 1 in Family

Ok.... i am 5'11" i have medium length light brown hair with green eyes i am ALWAYS told that i should be a model i have been asked by hollister to model for them but boys at my school dont really seem to pay attention... well i guess they do its just not the right ones...lol... so would you date me??? this is just for fun so all you girls that wanna send some bitchy comment dont... because i just wanna hear from the guys on this one...

2007-12-09 11:54:44 · 4 answers · asked by brunettbabi 2 1 in Singles & Dating

He was married once before and has a son.. What can or should we say to him to get him to see that this is a REALLY bad idea? We've tried everything we can think of.

2007-12-09 11:51:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-09 11:51:48 · 83 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So many husbands and wifes are doing it... can it be called "getting freindly" or somthing...

Just cause they are getting friendly dosen't mean they neccesarly want a divorce.. Maybe they just need some RxR

2007-12-09 11:49:50 · 21 answers · asked by Latin G 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend has been spotting dancing with a girl at school, giving her his hat [which he doesnt let ANYONE touch, not even me], sitting with her on the bus, pretty much checking her out, and he even got my name wrong one time.. Is he cheating on me, and should i dump him? a lot of my friends have told me i should.. but idk. I've heard those accusations from a variety of people.. even people i dont know but they know im dating him.. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!

2007-12-09 11:46:29 · 13 answers · asked by Helena's Nobody 2 in Singles & Dating

Everyday I sit alone at gym while the other kids talk to there friends. One person comes up to me and stands there waiting for me to say something, but I can't think of nothing to say. How can I be more talkative or loud?

2007-12-09 11:46:14 · 4 answers · asked by Pinkie 3 in Friends

I don think wanting a beautiful, smart, confident woman with standards who dont want/like men to treat them like yesterday's garbage would be all that hard to find......sadly, it is, so why shouldnt I give up?

2007-12-09 11:46:06 · 32 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2 in Singles & Dating

A girl said this to me the other day and now I'm confused. Was she hitting on me?

2007-12-09 11:44:38 · 35 answers · asked by Ross 1 in Singles & Dating

should it be top priority in a new relationship if we are not considering intercourse right away?
and is fingering considered just another way to say intercourse or just another name for it without getting pregnant? how may people oppose of it and should it be practiced as safe sex when my guy thoroughly washes his hands so we are protected.
more safe than sorry, but as a new couple we will be eventually having sex, just not right away. we want to be very careful and very safe.

2007-12-09 11:43:22 · 6 answers · asked by 3LL3 e VAT3 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 19 and i have found an amazing girl who I love. We have been together for almost 8 months and have grown so close and we have become pretty serious. I was a virgin before i met her and That is fine with me. I wanted to wait for someone special. I did discover that my girlfriend had sex with her previous boyfriend and it hurts every day. I HONESTLY feel a queaziness in my stomach and a pain in my heart when i imagine the love of my life with another guy. What is worse, is that she broke up with him on good terms because she had to move. I want her to HATE him becuase i still wonder if she thinks about him because he was her first. I really do love this girl, and i accept her past. I just wish i could get rid of the thoughts. I want to talk with her about it and how i feel, i just dont know how. Is this normal? Thanks guys.

2007-12-09 11:41:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im looking for a guy that is fun and has a great personality, I keep on running into the jerks of the world, how do i find the right person for me?

2007-12-09 11:39:44 · 12 answers · asked by fairygirl888 2 in Singles & Dating

This girl and I were working on a school project and she screwed up and we ended up getting an F. Since It was her fault I called her a f cking ***** and slapped her as hard as I could, the next day she kicked me in the balls. what the hell is this girls problem, when did it become acceptable to hit me in the balls, that is off limits isnt it

2007-12-09 11:37:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she would be all over you and want you back but she did the opposite?

2007-12-09 11:37:19 · 1 answers · asked by * 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so we dated for about a year and a half and he was such a pain and he acted like a baby and i am NOT ready to be a mom yet..... so he just had to go... so i thought that i loved being single but after a few weeks i miss him sooo much and he has totally moved on and he is dating another girl and it kills me to see him happy with another girl but i DO NOT want to get caught up in him again and i do not wanna go out with him ever again!!!! how do i get over him... i have another boyfriend already and i really like him i just cant seem to fullly get over that BAD HABBIT.

2007-12-09 11:31:09 · 25 answers · asked by brunettbabi 2 1 in Singles & Dating

She always causes trouble for her amusement. She threatens people with sharp objects and eventually hurts them with it. She even puts gross things on people such as snots. Everyone she has hurt or angered would have killed her if she didn't have parents. She does this to everyone even relatives. She makes my family look low class.

If you hurt her she won't stop even if she dies. If your nice she takes advantage of it and hurts you. My parents won't do anything until she gets hurt from me. Shes 11 and so stupid. She hurts people with no emotions and she doesn't have any empathy. After she hurts you she hides with fear not empathy.

What to do?

Thanks for reading.

2007-12-09 11:30:28 · 10 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family

I'm 19 and I lost my virginity about a month ago. My mom and I don't really have the relationship we once did, and I want to talk to her about it so badly, but I think she will be appalled if I told her. I'm hesitant to tell her because I'm not dating this guy and she has no idea that I've even KISSED someone let alone slept with them. Shes always been like "Your body is a temple and wait to have sex until your married" so I have no idea how she is going to react. What can I possibly say to start the convo?

2007-12-09 11:26:37 · 17 answers · asked by longislndgrl114 2 in Singles & Dating

so my parents are in debt over their heads, im a 13yr old girl, and the world practically hates me. what do i do? i have the greatest boyfriend whomes life is consumed of hockey, the most psychotic parents in the world, and the busiest schedule for an 8th grader. when im not with my friends, im doing homework or cleaning; when im not doing that stuff, im swimming for swim team [as of now]. i dont have any time for me. and when i try to fit that in, my mom yells at me. i need help. please give me some helpful tips. =] love katelyn

2007-12-09 11:25:22 · 4 answers · asked by kdub :) 2 in Family

but he says he'll call the cops and they will not let me take her. I know it'll be an ugly scence if i try to go and i don't want her to see that or be a part of that. Is it illegal for me to leave with her?

2007-12-09 11:24:53 · 18 answers · asked by dlh1402 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been going out with this guy for like nine months now. I told him that I wanted to give myself to him after my senior prom, which is in May and would make our time together a year and two months. We both discussed it, and we're both alright with that date. He says he wants to make sure I'm perfectly ready for it. My problem is, I'm beginning to fear it, because my friends who have already had sex tell me it's really painful. Usually I'm very tolerant of pain; Tampons don't hurt me at all and such, but I'm really starting to be afraid it.

Am I making too big a deal of this? Does it really hurt that bad? And what can I do to ease my mind?

2007-12-09 11:24:49 · 6 answers · asked by Xanthyan 3 in Singles & Dating

It is trivial I know ....but I am angry that a friend gave out my mobile number to another without asking or telling me. Just had a big argument with him as I am a private person and only give close friends my number.He thinks he has done NOTHING WRONG. What do you think about this?

2007-12-09 11:24:24 · 16 answers · asked by classyone 5 in Friends

i sent my b.f and her sister a present this x mass.and i haven't met his sister personally.but we exchange mails regularly.she is a sweet girl.when i did that shopping i thought about their mom too.but i changed my mind not to get her a gift coz i dont want her to think i am putting a good name for her to like me.now the problem is...my bf called me saying his mom send me a present.why? she doesn't even met me yet nor talk to me.i feel so embarrased.what will i do?i dont want her to think if i am going 2 give her a gift that is in return for what she did to me.please to all mom...give me an advice

2007-12-09 11:23:21 · 4 answers · asked by Lhizz 1 in Family

Iv just started working in a nightclub thats just opened,and one f the bouncers has been touching me, it first strted on friday when he told me to take him upstairs to show him around, and asked him to show him the cloak room. And kept cumin out wth remarks like hmm like it round their we can get up to owt, hes asking personal questions, asked if im easy in bed, touching me up. I dint say anything only to a mate who said she will talk to the boss but i told her not to. but yesterday we had a lock in party and my boss kept asking me whats wrong cuz he could tell something was wrong i ran off crying so my mate who i told had to tell my boss everything and hs promised hes going to sack the bloke and hes never stepping foot in the club but aint going to tel him wy hes been sacked cuz i asked him not to. But know i feel as if i ruined everyones(staff) night although i did cheer up,and feel guilty for him getting th sack.

2007-12-09 11:22:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats the best way to turn a girl on... like get her in the mood

2007-12-09 11:22:16 · 11 answers · asked by washable mist 4 in Singles & Dating

Before I met my husband, I had a fling with some guy who I know is really good at sex. I know he is a player but I have to admit the sex was really good. Question... I have had some difficult problems with my husband and I´m separated at the moment, strongly thinking about a divorce. Misteriously I get an email from this guy I had the previous fling with and has asked me to meet up with him. I know what it will lead to. I´m just so unsure about the whole situation. I need help determining whether it is right to do this(meet up with him ) or just stick to my vows and worked it out. I´ve never been unfaithful and never thought about it or even doubted before this time. Please help me figuring this one out.

2007-12-09 11:20:52 · 20 answers · asked by jaaaam 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband does all the house chores i just work 12hr shifts 3 days a wk and refuse to do anymore labor when i get home

2007-12-09 11:19:16 · 48 answers · asked by MEETOO 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright.
I'm 19 years old and pregnant with my first child.
I have been married to my husband for a little over 3 years.
We are constantly fighting with each other over anything and everything. He always makes promises to change (take showers more often, brush teeth, no lie to me, ect) The thing is, he just makes these promises to get me to stay with him, does it for about a week, then quits. I KNOW its stupid of me to keep believeing him, but I want him to be right so bad, I kind of think maybe if I DO believe it will work. It's also not just little things like that it's also that he can't think of anything for himself (i.e he has to get up for work in the morning and never sets his alarm and i have to wake him up...he has to call into work in the morning and he doesn't and i have to remind him to call in so he doesn't get fired..just so much crap....he has just done a COMPLETE 360 since we got married, that I don't even feel like Im with the same person anymore.

2007-12-09 11:18:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i don't really want my 6 year old to play with this one boy cause his parents are weird, the kid is ugly and dresses so yuck (i know thats mean but i am just being honest) , and he doesnt talk to us. It's like he doesn't like adults. His parents are really weird. And overprotective and rude. I have never met people in my life that were weird like this. I can't even explain it. They are just .........ugh! They give me a freaky feeling. I mean they look like child molesters or something.........

I know this makes me sound stuck up but honestly i'm not. I mean, my son is friends with other kids and even autistic kids and he plays with them and i dont feel weird about it. It's just this one kid.

For some reason my son wants to play with him all the time and really likes him.......... but i just hate for him to go over there and when he comes to our house cause he just looks at us like "omg , it's parents! NOw i am a mute!)

2007-12-09 11:17:01 · 4 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Friends

Yesterday, I dad told me to go straight to a University if i got accepted to either UCSD, UCLA, or UC Davis. Personally, i want to go to a community college first if i did not get accepted to UCSD, but at this point, i do not think I have a choice. My dad wants to kick me out of the house after I finish High School. Plus, he said that he could not support me after i go to college. In this case, i have to leave the house when I finish High School, and support myself without my parents' aid. should I move out after I graduate from high school, or should i go to a community college for two years even though my dad wants to kick me out?

2007-12-09 11:13:03 · 11 answers · asked by rainingurl 3 in Family

But then, I'm not so ideal, I'm not gentle or gentile, so the question should be what does he see in meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?

2007-12-09 11:11:41 · 20 answers · asked by Bollo 2 in Singles & Dating