i sent my b.f and her sister a present this x mass.and i haven't met his sister personally.but we exchange mails regularly.she is a sweet girl.when i did that shopping i thought about their mom too.but i changed my mind not to get her a gift coz i dont want her to think i am putting a good name for her to like me.now the problem is...my bf called me saying his mom send me a present.why? she doesn't even met me yet nor talk to me.i feel so embarrased.what will i do?i dont want her to think if i am going 2 give her a gift that is in return for what she did to me.please to all mom...give me an advice
2007-12-09 11:23:21 · 4 answers · asked by Lhizz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
honey bunny,, my pc is elllllllll broke oooooo, so stop buggin me for a few weeks pls,, unless you have any magical ways to give me a christmas,, that i have not had in 6 yrs,,,, im sorry i am unable to answer your emberrressing quwestion,, let alone who you are,, and why you think im cute,,,, PLS KNOW IM SICK,, I HAVE CANCER,,im not doing well,, no one loves me,,,, having no xmas for many years and no gifts,has really got me down,, and no pc now, really makes me cry,, when you compare this to new ones at best buys,,stores.... i answered this at the local library,.. tc a sad depressed lonely lost not doing well in life person,, in tears.
2007-12-10 04:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not obligated to give anyone a gift just because they gave you one. That is not what gift giving is about. Just graciously thank her for thinking of you, and leave it at that. my mother in law did the same thing early on in our relationship, and I just told her that I was so surprised that she did something so kind, and that she thought about me enough to give me a gift. I didn't buy her a gift in return, but a very nice thank you note--the old fashioned hand written kind, makes all the difference!
2007-12-09 11:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his mom is getting you a present it's because she thinks you are good for her son...so that's a good thing. If you want to get her something small, chocolates, an ornament for the tree or a picture frame, that would be nice...but don't feel obligated.
2007-12-09 11:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by beaners1229 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go get each of them a fancy ornament for their tree... it will be treasured, and yet will not be too expensive or too personal.
Chances are, they got you something simple like fancy-packaged bath salts.
2007-12-09 11:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋