my boyfriend has been spotting dancing with a girl at school, giving her his hat [which he doesnt let ANYONE touch, not even me], sitting with her on the bus, pretty much checking her out, and he even got my name wrong one time.. Is he cheating on me, and should i dump him? a lot of my friends have told me i should.. but idk. I've heard those accusations from a variety of people.. even people i dont know but they know im dating him.. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
2007-12-09 11:46:29 · 13 answers · asked by Helena's Nobody 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he is cheating on you or at least not that into you. you need to cut him loose and find someone else but dont be in a hurry to have a boy friend because everyone else does. Find someone you can be just a friend with to start with and when it gets to the boyfriend stage it will be more special and he will be more interested in you than someone else. Good Luck!
2007-12-09 11:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's definatly cheating on you, but he is definatly flirting with her. I would try confronting him about it and telling him that it seems like he's flirting with her all the time and you want to truth from him. If he can't give you a straight answer, then you should probably break up with him. Good Luck!
2007-12-09 19:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM. don't rush into a breakup -it's the worst thing you could do. if he acts all defensive, he might be hiding something...but then again, he might act defensive because he really isn't doing anything behind your back. Ask him to his face if he is cheating on you, he might confess, or lie...or tell the truth, tell him you are worried about him hanging with this other chick. they might just be good friends. my bff is a boy, and i hang out with him all the time, he's got a gf too. Although, she doesn't think he's cheating on her with me (which he isn't) good luck.
2007-12-09 19:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's ovious he is already cheating on you emotionally. Talking to this girl, sharing things with her he doesn't share with you. I wouldn't wait around until it turns into something more, because it will only become physical. Listen to your friends, they only want whats best for you.
2007-12-09 19:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by person715911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely flirting with her, but you cannot be sure that he is cheating. Confront him about her.
2007-12-09 19:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by All you need is love :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your intuition if you think he is up to no good he probably is, since people you dont know are telling you things it can be hard to trust their opinion.
2007-12-09 19:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by photogirl_freewaydriver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. doesnt seem like you like him that much either so u hav nothing to lose
2007-12-09 19:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by catch me. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really obvious he's being unfaithful. Dump him!
2007-12-09 19:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dump him, he obviously likes her, and you shouldn't be with someone that doesn't realize what a great girlfriend he already has, dump that jerk.
2007-12-09 19:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Viva La Grenade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him (but I think he's cheating)
2007-12-09 19:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by thsp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋