ok so we dated for about a year and a half and he was such a pain and he acted like a baby and i am NOT ready to be a mom yet..... so he just had to go... so i thought that i loved being single but after a few weeks i miss him sooo much and he has totally moved on and he is dating another girl and it kills me to see him happy with another girl but i DO NOT want to get caught up in him again and i do not wanna go out with him ever again!!!! how do i get over him... i have another boyfriend already and i really like him i just cant seem to fullly get over that BAD HABBIT.
2007-12-09 11:31:09 · 25 answers · asked by brunettbabi 2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's normal all girls go through this. Your just going to have to be paticent and wait till the next best thing comes along in your life but day by day it will get easier to get over him. Good luck.
2007-12-09 11:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sapphire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not always easy. I have a restraining order against my ex and have not talked to him in years but, I sometimes still miss him.
What worked for me was I found someone who really was right for me. He made me forget all about him.
We were together almost 10 years- Middle school/highschool sweethearts, the whole 9 yards. Got married, he cheated and I kicked him out. It killed me. He moved back home and was engaged and got a girl pregnant before our divorce was even final which took less than 2 months. It hurt a lot but, I feel more sorry for her because she doesn't know what she has gotten herself into.
Just give yourself time, and you will get over it.
2007-12-09 11:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by love_n_hate84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it may sound bland, time is one of the only things that will help that. I have personal experences with what your going through (not the baby gf or that) but with letting go. It got better, but I still don't like to think about her for too long. Sorry bout your situation. I know how it feels. Just try to give it time. Have fun with your new bf. Think about him, not your old one. It might feel a lot better later, but nothing will ever truly get rid of his memories. Unless you have one of those deneurilyler things from MIB, but that's a perfect world, something we all wish we could have.
2007-12-09 11:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by Levi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love with him, or even want him back. You want the drama back. Sorry, honey, but that's the truth. You put up with this guy for a year and a half before you booted him then found a new boy after a few weeks. You don't want a relationship, you want a soap opera. So, enjoy the dramatics.
2007-12-09 11:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by dstluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had an ex and you can't get over him and you have a new BF. You may not beable to forget him but don't let that ruin your new relationship. Your EX is part of the past now so stop living in the past and live in the present with your new BF and newly found relationship
Don't feel bad it is completely natural for you to feel like that
2007-12-09 11:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by Canine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets a bit jealous to see their ex with another girl.
I do anytime I see mine. It's just human nature.
And it sounds like you need to get over this boy for your new one.
It'll probably take sometime to forget about him cause it's been a year and a half you've had a relationship with the old boy and if its a recent breakup you should give yourself sometime.
2007-12-09 11:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Habits are difficult to break. Both of you have moved on. Focus on you own life and the life with your new boyfriend. Focus on the things that make you happy. The more you do that, the less you'll have time to think about your old relationship.
2007-12-09 11:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep reminding yourself of why you broke up with him. If you only think of the good, you'll think you made a big mistake and never get over him. Keep thinking of the bad, over and over and over again, until the thought of him makes you ill. Pretty soon you won't think about him at all anymore!
2007-12-09 11:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by LoopyLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 22:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a bad case but it can be solved.you are not really missing him or his bad habit you're just having a hard time getting use to not having to treat your lover like a baby. I say 4get about him start focusing on yo new love because focusing on your EX can hurt your new love. You never now your New love mi be DA LUV OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-09 11:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by SoSweet101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋