Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

This girl and I have been off and on dating for awhile. Once day when I called her she said she couldn't talk becuase she was practicing her trombone I was a waste of her time. So later she texts me and she tells me how she wants to be the girl that i used to adore and love. Now this morning we talk and when I was about to go she makes a big deal about me leaving. Saying she is hurt I am leaving because she cares about me. But when I asked what she would do if she was me she said "ditch her stupid *** because she is emotionally unstable." yet she continues to say she doesn't want me to leave her life entirely. What should I do with this girl? Should I talk with her about what she really wants or just leave? Or maybe a mix or something....

2007-12-09 08:25:33 · 12 answers · asked by Joseph D 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 08:24:21 · 1 answers · asked by ecwsandman343 1 in Singles & Dating

i didn't have a b/f till I was 16, I'm 18 now but things seem to have changed alot since I was 12. I read on the net about kids wanting to have sex at 12/13, they dont seem to think holding hands and kissing is enough which I find really strange. is this what all kids are like now? i dont want my 12yr old sister to get a b/f if thats what hes going to want...

2007-12-09 08:23:28 · 11 answers · asked by lHeat 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 08:23:23 · 13 answers · asked by kay jay 1 in Weddings

2007-12-09 08:22:51 · 8 answers · asked by candiecorn 1 in Singles & Dating

im verry young..too young to have sex. my boyfriend is 3 yrs older than me [2 yrs in a couple weeks] but i realllyy wanna have sex with him but hes said how hes turned it down so much and he wants to be the 40 yr old virgin idk what to do....

2007-12-09 08:20:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are having small amount of food for our wedding due to the cateror is forced on us because of the venue we have chosen,
and their menu choices are rather nasty super authentic southern food , and there isn't many choices other then what we have picked

So we are going with the following.
chicken breast
rolls
cheese platers
fruit platers
veggie platers
cake
we are having open bar.

Is this more of a cocktail reception, or should this type of food be a formal reception.
and should it be stations or buffet

2007-12-09 08:18:47 · 9 answers · asked by la de da 3 in Weddings

details are helpful here

2007-12-09 08:17:08 · 24 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 08:15:52 · 16 answers · asked by Kipper to the CUP! 6 in Singles & Dating

i cant go to anyone in the compnay ...shes the owner .but i do like the EEOC ideah ...ty

2007-12-09 08:13:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-09 08:13:09 · 4 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, so on friday my boyfriend of about a month told me he thought we should break-up and that he was sorry. all i could do was stand there and nod so he walked away. thru my last two classes all i did was cry and try to figure out what i had done to make him break up with me. on wednesday he'd been telling me how much he wanted to go to the movies and that he loved me, then on thursday he was acting kinda funny and not really talking much so i asked if he was ok and he said yeah. i asked his best friend if he was ok and he said ya and then out of curiosity i asked if he was going to break up with me but his best friend said definintely not and that he loved me. He was my first boyfriend and i'm really kind of sad about it, but i don't want to make it seem like i blame him or anything because i really don't. My question(s) are 1) what did i do wrong, if anything? and 2) how do i act around him tomorrow at school, we have an english presentation and hang out with the same people.

2007-12-09 08:12:24 · 28 answers · asked by nmwildcat5 1 in Singles & Dating

It's the latest gossip that me and this guy are a potential couple. Supposedly he's scared to ask me out. He's outgoing and confident and really hot so I don't see why he's scared. What can I do to make him less afraid to ask me out?

2007-12-09 08:11:59 · 29 answers · asked by Sunshine 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi, how's everyone doing?

So I live with both my parents and I am 15. From the time I was about 3 I was sexually abused by my grandfather who lived with us until he was arrested when I was 10. Now 5 years later, that man is being released from prison sometime this month.

My parents and I have never had a close relationship. Maybe it was because during the abuse I believed my parents knew about it and just let it happen. I know that I was wrong now, they never knew. But whenever the topic comes up (which is about 3 times a year) it's always about how THEY feel guilty or how I LET IT HAPPEN because I didn't tell them anything.

I rarely see my dad these days, and I'm a bit happy about that. He travels in Europe a lot of the time. But whenever he is home everything he says to me is criticism or something hurtful.

2007-12-09 08:11:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-09 08:11:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know that after a couple has sex, or has an orgasm, the 'bonding' hormone is released and you feel real close to each other. But what does it mean if you have a strong hate - feeling afterward, even if you are supposably in love with the other?

2007-12-09 08:10:01 · 20 answers · asked by Danu 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 30 yrs old. My ex-boyf broke up with me a few months ago. The break up was very hard for me. He broke up due to long-distance. I was very hurt about the break up as I really loved him and still do now. He has always called me back after the break up and we even met a couple of times. But he doesn't want to let go. About a month ago, he called me and said he needs to see me. This was shortly after I told him that I am going travelling for a couple of months. He says he is too scared to loose me but he is not ready to come back to me. I was quite upset to see him leaving so I told him we must go separate ways and have no contact. He was upset but he said he has to accept it. But he called me last week saying he can't forget me and he thinks of me. But he then said he can't be with me now as I am going away to travel. He wants to meet when I come back from my travels. What should I do? I love him and he says he does too but I am so confused. I want to be with him but he says not now.

2007-12-09 08:09:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom wont give any information, all i know is his first and last name. I have to be 18 to ask child support.

2007-12-09 08:08:33 · 2 answers · asked by campana193 1 in Family

I am getting tired of drama and my friends are starting it with me and I feel like kicking there buts and they are just being jerks but I have school tomorrow when I see them what should i do any suggestions???

2007-12-09 08:07:24 · 8 answers · asked by Haley L 1 in Friends

ok... another question from me
ok... i'm an 7th grader and she's in 8th grade
can anyone guess what i'm gonna talk about now?
good, now descriptions... she has this really awesome smile that she often flashes at me during band class, the only place i know her of.
but i don't know if that means she likes me. cause i just look average-ish. how can i tell?
how do i nonchalantly start a conversation?
how do i get her to like me?
hell, i don't even know her name!!!
HELP!!! I"M DESPERATE!!!!

2007-12-09 08:04:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to apologize now since he didnt mean it how I took it.

2007-12-09 08:02:34 · 23 answers · asked by eatcreations 1 in Singles & Dating

months ago i got a new boyfriend but my ex one day he saw me on the beach with my guy, so he start kissing me and the my boyfriend went so surprised and when my ex saw him he start touching me and not just that, he took me to the ocean and start touching my bubs, vagina, and i was like "get off !!" so i squeeze his nuts so my boyfriend told me that my ex was jealous and that he will call me later...
next day my ex told him "be carefull..." and he go..

why he doesn't just leave me??

2007-12-09 08:00:30 · 16 answers · asked by fashionista :) 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you think- It is not a good idea?
Ok to do? or depends on chemistry?

2007-12-09 08:00:30 · 7 answers · asked by upsers59 2 in Singles & Dating

So i like this guy and
i thought everything was going good
and Friday night i hear that he made out with this girl in my school!
But this [girl] also did stuff with three other guys that night!
So how do i look at this?
I really like him and
right now i just want to be friends with him until he
starts to like me!
[guys what do you think]???

2007-12-09 08:00:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we arent rushing at all, we just started talking about it. hes not forcing me or anything, he said he'd wait if i wanted. we both trust each other a lot, and we're in love, but do you think we should just wait it out?

2007-12-09 08:00:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where did you guys store your gifts as they arrived to you? Did you get them delivered to your parent's house, or did you both already own an apartment or house together?

If you were finding a place while you were planning the wedding, did the gifts stay with a friend during your honeymoon or did friends and family help deliver the gifts to your new home while you guys were enjoying your honeymoon?

2007-12-09 07:59:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anouk 1 in Weddings

The reason for breaking up and putting him out was because:
1. He paid no bills
2. We have no trust for each other
3. we are nothing alike
4. I feel like I have grew out of the relationship.
5. He is disrespectful and wants to do nothing with his life.

2007-12-09 07:58:32 · 23 answers · asked by Strawberry 3 in Marriage & Divorce

why do people hate on other people so much? everywhere you turn you see someone been ignorant or hating on someone else.

2007-12-09 07:57:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My bf is like being all.....
Me: Ok then........ i'm gonna go jump off a cliff now........
kris: no
Me: don't try and stop me...............
kris: I Will
Me: Ok then............... i'm just REALLY bored as crap!!!!!!!! and I can't be on the computer much longer...
kris: k
kris: im about to post this vid on youtube\
Me: Cool......................................
Me :-S
Me: Well......... this is really riveting but I have to go......... i'll talk to you later or something...... i can't be on the computer much today b/c of my bro and sis so.........
kris: ok
kris: bye
kris: love ya

Why is he being all...?? Weird and quiet??? We had a who loves who more fight earlier...

2007-12-09 07:56:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have you ever had a boss who literaly yells at you ?infront of ppl.my boss thinks b/c shes the boss she can cuss nad yell and flail her arms around infront of ppl and im just supposed to take it . i have NEVER wrked anywhere wher a boss has done this.i dont know what to do .i absolutly love my job ..when shes not there .but i dont wanna get fired ,but i think if she does this again im going to scream back ....i dont know what to do ..what do you suggest .is it even legal to treat your employees this way .

2007-12-09 07:56:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships