I know that after a couple has sex, or has an orgasm, the 'bonding' hormone is released and you feel real close to each other. But what does it mean if you have a strong hate - feeling afterward, even if you are supposably in love with the other?
2007-12-09 08:10:01 · 20 answers · asked by Danu 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe the sex isn't allowing that person to vent (release) emotions in whatever way they need to. Therefore they're venting at (hating) the other.
2007-12-09 08:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Hikerjoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the strong hate feeling against the guy, or yourself 4 having sex in the first place.
some gals who have been raped or taken advantage of or molested as a child believe they r over that but having sex brings all the emotions back.
i had a fiancee once who would sometimes shudder and pull away when we were going at it. come 2 find out she was raped and her conscience would bring it out at certain times. she had never 'forgiven' her rapest 2 have personal closure. one night she just started crying out 'i forgive you' 2 her rapest ( he lived in another state, she wasn't saying it 2 his face, but 4 herself). that was all the closure she needed. within a week all was on the road 2 recovery.
u need 2 look at yourself and find the reasons u have this strong hatred after sex, but make sure u really wanna know the answer first.
2007-12-09 16:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello hel,been gone to long,theres a time and place for everything,sex just happens to b such a place,a person doesn't feel the same as most is nothing to b alarmed about,its a smpile way of feeling either satisfied or not,its possible a dislike rather then hate,even if your satisfied,theres this feelin like u want to just get away from that person,right now!,it doesn't mean u don't care,just get!
2007-12-09 20:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by THE"IS" 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is interesting, as occasionally after me and my partner have had sex I have a really strong urge to cry, must just be hormones or something! If you are concerened see your doctor, i think i might Because wanting to cry cant be right either.
2007-12-09 16:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by sally c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe your partner didn't satisfy you like you wanted him to. you can still have an orgasm but just not that strong that there may be where the hate comes from. or you was pressured into having sex.
2007-12-09 16:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by viper 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a strong feeling of hate,mean that love is not present in that relationship.
2007-12-09 16:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you 'hate' someone after intimacy I'd say love isn't really there or you've got some serious issues with intimacy. Perhaps a counselor can help you sort that out.
2007-12-09 16:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The difference between love and hate is a very thin line.
2007-12-09 16:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
was that hatred there before you had sex?mmmm... not sure you should have had sex in the first place. but what was the sex like? making love, nice sex, rough sex>?? emotions can play a big part on all this.Hope you find your answers x
2007-12-09 16:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by kelly h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
where is this coming from? do you know someone that has experienced the "strong hate" emotion? I never heard of it.
if you love someone you wont feel "strong hate" ..
2007-12-09 16:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by friend2b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋