This girl and I have been off and on dating for awhile. Once day when I called her she said she couldn't talk becuase she was practicing her trombone I was a waste of her time. So later she texts me and she tells me how she wants to be the girl that i used to adore and love. Now this morning we talk and when I was about to go she makes a big deal about me leaving. Saying she is hurt I am leaving because she cares about me. But when I asked what she would do if she was me she said "ditch her stupid *** because she is emotionally unstable." yet she continues to say she doesn't want me to leave her life entirely. What should I do with this girl? Should I talk with her about what she really wants or just leave? Or maybe a mix or something....
2007-12-09 08:25:33 · 12 answers · asked by Joseph D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump her a$$ before she dumps you!
2007-12-09 08:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on what you want. Ultimately you could help her,but it would probably hurt you as she is emotionaly insecure, and so it will seem like she's screwing you around a lot. However my advice for you would be to leave her to her own friends, and spare yourself the pain. This may seem selfish but it will help her more if she is with friends, as she won't get emotionaly attatched and depend solely on one person for her emotional security. Just keep a clear head about the desision, and decide whats best for you.
2007-12-09 08:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she still has feelings for you, it's not like you can erase love within a day. But she doesn't want to go out with you, obviously
I would just talk to her about it. Tell her that you aren't sure the way she feels for you and you're kinda confused. Ask her if she likes you romantically or if she just wants to be friends. make sure you're somewhat alone, though, because she might feel under pressure around her friends and stuff.
good lucks
(girls can be really confusing sometimes, i know, i am one. but you've just gotta go with the flow!)
xoxo
ELLIE
2007-12-09 08:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to telling you something without really saying it. Move on to higher ground and leave her with this mess she has made. You'll find someone in a heartbeat.
2007-12-09 08:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is so confused. She needs to get herself together before she can get with you. Maybe her family doesnt show love so she doesnt know how to show you. If you really like her just be there for her (quietly suggest she get help)
2007-12-09 08:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by antswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said it, so believe it, she is emotionally unstable. Leave her.
2007-12-09 08:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is insecure. start putting some distance between the 2 of you cuz the relationship isn't healthy. try counseling.
2007-12-09 08:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by KitKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words come to mind:
High maintenance
You're resolution: Flee.
2007-12-09 08:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...some girls are just crazy...but it all depends on how you feel about her...and if shes hot "cough cough"...ha but seriously if she really makes you THAT confused...then just leave her for someone you can relate to better...hope this helps ;)
2007-12-09 08:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jonny Bananas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE IS PLAYING WITH YOU
YOU ARE HER TOY
DO YOU REALLY LOVE HER?
IF NOT TRY SOMEONE ELSE
OF COURSE IF YOU ARE NOT EXCITED BY THIS GAME
2007-12-09 08:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by suciu m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋