5 reasons why to wait/not to wait to have sex until marriage?

Answer 1

to wait
1) in the end you two could end up brakeing up and all the things you did you be lost, just like your virginity
2)if you a girl loosing it is a huge deal and half the time the guys just doing it to do it and then move on to the next best thing (happened to my best friend)
3)you could really embarrass yourself and the guy that you thought you would be with could think your extreamly pathletic and end up leaving you (happened to another friend)
4) you could end up getting pregnant and then i doubt the guy would stick around. you could be in high school and think of the sh!t that would go around about you; and it can go around if you even have sex and DONT get pregnant(and think of having to tell your parents that one)
5) oh the wonders of having to go to the doctor every week because you find out your little sweety gave you AIDS because he selpt with a hoe or maybe two hoes before he slept with you!!! what joy!
not to wait
1) you have more energy when your younger, and you will have more people to do it with then just one
2)you can get the embarrassment over with so when you do get married you actually wont ask *what are you doing*/ you wont think it WONT hurt and have him laugh at you...unless he doesnt know himself 3)it can get you phisically and emotionally prepared for the pain that you husband might give you (in some places if the husband breaks the pelvic bone it symbolizes good marrige)
4) why wait for something when you can get it while your young and its fun?
5) theres always a chance your parents wont fine out and kill the boy, you wont end up getting an STD, youll get out of bed the next mourning ready to see the day with no pain from the night before, and youll end up together forever! (hahaha)

hope i helped~!

Answer 2

Why to avoid pre-marital sex?

1. Purity of the body from the religious and cultural perspecive (not all people can understand this).
2. To walk into marriage with a pure heart where the body knows no other man/woman and hence can be dedicated to the husband/wife. Hence, there will be no comparison and hence no dissappointments. For a good performer, there can always be a beter performer. But people usually learn by practise. So there is no logic in the saying, "Try before you buy!"
3. No chance of STDs.
4. More respect from the spouse.
5. No regrets in case the man/woman one loses her/his virginity to is not the same man/woman she/he ultimately gets married to. There is no emotional attachment and hence more dedicated and successfull conjugal life.
6. You are sure you are not being used for sex.

Answer 3

1. Babies, very cute and cuddley, very difficult to take care of (I raised my two youngest siblings almost completely by myself, great experience, but still not ready to go through it again).
2. STD's, speaks for itself...
3. After sex, things between a couple may change, and that may be a reason to wait.
4. After marriage, my bet is your partner is not using you, so you don't lose anything you're not prepared to give.
5. All out of reasons, sorry >.<

Answer 4

I'm for waiting until marriage for many reasons. 5 of which are~
1. Unwanted pregnancies resulting in abortions and infants found in dumpsters.
2. STDs. Ones who have sex casually often (realistically speaking) don't get tested. Being married however, denotes the mutual respect between husband and wife which leaves no room for a '3rd wheel' to roll in with an STD.
3. Emotional attatchment comes with sexual relations. Now what if a man and woman date, but it doesn't work out for reasons such as infidelity? Then your left feeling completely alone after sharing such intimacy with another person. It's enough to drive some to suicide. However, when persons are married, they are taking a vow -that is meant to be kept- to only have relations with their husband/wife.
4. To condone premarital sex is to tell younger generations that it's okay to be sexually active, younger teens are hardly capable of deaing with school, home and other natural stepping stones in pursuit of becoming adults, such as an influx of hormones and a search for 'who they are'. Add sex to the mix, and its a recipie for a confused and depressed child.
5. Marriage and sexual relations is something sacred put in place by a divine source. That is why at ceremonies they are joint before God. This would make it evidently clear that God not only condones marriage but requires it for those who desire to be intimate. Now God wouldn't make such a guideline if it weren't for our benefit. Just think of all the tumoil you'd be willingly subjecting yourself to if you chose to not follow Gods councel. See 1-4.

Answer 5

5 reasons to wait:

1. Increase risk of STD which could leave to death, infertility, and a live with an incurable disease (HIV/AID, Genital Warts, Herpes) + a higher risk for cervical cancer.

2. Increased risk of unwanted pregnancy leading to single parenting and child support payments.

3. Emotions unfulfilled.

4. Confused emotions - confusing sex with love.

5. Many regrets.

Answer 6

I nonetheless am . a million. religious teachings I now no longer have faith in . 2. residing in a society the place : a. intercourse is linked to honour , meaning that having intercourse with a girl without marrying her is regarded upon as dishounorable , an affront to her relatives . b . women persons are passive in society , whether hypothetically a girl replaced into consensual in an extramarital courting , i might experience greater to blame for the aftermath on her recognition , being in a greater powerful place in society . c. A corrupt society , the place ninety 5% of persons profess to have faith and cling to ethical standards they actually do no longer supply sht approximately (meaning on the tip , it grew to become out every person replaced into having intercourse one way or the different , in basic terms the misfortunates who get uncovered go through the hypocritical indignation of society , I grew to become out to be a fool for taking issues actually ) 3. An inflated Ego , i presumed i replaced into specific , consequently in basic terms a particular lady ought to have the must haves and the honor to have intercourse with me . i think you may say to me (i did no longer advise you or everybody such as you when I asked this ) , properly , i presumed i might proportion besides . the consequence NOW AT 32 : seventy 5% of me regrets all those "avances" I grew to become down , beginning from the age of 15 according to risk .(and that i've got been around , Germany , Italy , Malta , uk etc , as properly to community womenfolk )

Answer 7

To feel pround of yourself.And feel like it is special.

When i turn 13 i have decided to get a purity ring. I feel as if i should save it for a special moment when i am with the person i will love until the end.

Answer 8

Reasons to wait
1. A baby with a person that doesn't love you or care about their child.

2. Aids

3.AIDS!!!!

4.After making love for the first time there is nothing better in the world then to be able to look into their eyes and tell them you love them and MEAN it and know when they say it to you that they mean it too.

5. AIDS!!!!! or did I say that already.

Answer 9

1) You will know what to expect.
2) You will not get married simply to have sex.
3) Pregnancy is easily avoidable.
4) Sexual repression is a bad thing.
5) Buying a car without testdriving it will get you a lemon.

Answer 10

1. You could get pregnant
2. You could end up breaking up
3. You don't want to catch anything
4. Feels better when you're older
5. A lot of baggage comes with having sex, it's easier to understand and handle this new aspect of a relationships when you're married