Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

I've never really been the kind of girl to ask out men, but I've been getting a lot of crap from my galfriends about how it's really silly of me to have that scruple, especially sense I've been crushing on this guy for 4 months and don't want to ask him out even now that he's single. Girls who ask out guys just seem slutty and/or desperate to me, is that a misguided observation?

2007-12-09 07:55:56 · 12 answers · asked by Jasmine 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 07:55:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

first off do you believe in them?

second if have you ever met one?

and third, do you know any places where someone could meet one?

2007-12-09 07:54:53 · 12 answers · asked by Kristy 1 in Friends

HAVE ANY OF YOU BEEN MOLESTED BUY A FAMILY FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBER,AS A CHILD,AND STILL TILL THIS DAY NO ONE KNOW'S?
WHAT WOULD YOU DO OR SAY TO THAT PERSON IF YOU SAW HIM OR HER?

2007-12-09 07:54:09 · 5 answers · asked by harleygirl 3 in Friends

I know im loud during sex, but according to my friend, she is perfectly silent. Now I cant tell, whose the weird one here, me or her? O_o

2007-12-09 07:53:39 · 19 answers · asked by . 5 in Singles & Dating

I lost my husband in January to cancer. We were married for 12 amazing years. We had 4 children, that are 12 year old girl, 10 year old boy , 5 year old boy and 8 month old girl. We married at an early age, 20, but we were very much in love.

This will be our first Christmas without him and he will miss our baby girl's first Christmas. We will be spending Christmas with my mother, step-father and other family, but how can we focus on being happy this coming Christmas? We want to remember him, but not be sad. My 12 year old daughter is the only one of the kids that understood about the death. My 10 year old thinks that this all just a horrible nightmare and of course, my 5 year old is nothing but sad and my 8 month old was only 7 weeks old when he died.

How can we make this Christmas a happy one?

2007-12-09 07:53:34 · 5 answers · asked by Dina 3 in Family

ok so me and my bf..never have nothing to talk bout on the fone or about us...
but on the computer we can talk for hours....
whts up with that..

2007-12-09 07:53:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

that a girl does to you.

anything, thank you.

2007-12-09 07:52:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in April 2008. My single mom isn't dating anyone and I told her she should take one of her female friends as her +1. She says that it's "against etiquette" for her to take her friend and not bring their spouse. I told her it was only rude if I only send an invite to just that person, not if she invites her as my mom's +1. I would MUCH rather have her take one of her girlfriends instead of some random person that I probably won't know at all. And I KNOW that she would have a much better time with one of her friends. Am I right?

2007-12-09 07:51:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What would you hope people will remember about you?

2007-12-09 07:50:52 · 5 answers · asked by KyLoveChick 7 in Friends

ok, so I'm 16 and I have been dating my boyfriend for over two months now, but she doesnt trust me when I say that I'm going to a friends house. She insists that he's going to be there and that I'm lying to her. I really haven't given her any reason not to trust me. There was this one time when my boyfriend was going to visit his dad, and he ended up not going, so now she doesn't beleive me when I say hes at his dads. I try to explain to her that plans CAN change, but she doesn't get it. Sometimes I think that she doesn't trust me because my older brother lies to her all the time, but I'm not him!

This is a lot more detailed than I wanted it to be but if you read it all, thank you SO MUCH. I really need help here...I feel suffocated

2007-12-09 07:50:49 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-09 07:47:52 · 10 answers · asked by laurlauris 2 in Family

2007-12-09 07:46:09 · 7 answers · asked by norma * 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to Disneyworld soon with my family, and I really want a camera so I take pictures and video, but I don't have enough money, and my dad won't budge if I ask him?
Anyone got tips?

2007-12-09 07:45:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im looking for a guy who is always there for me. Who will protect me. I will do whatever the guy wants me to do. I want a guy who won't use me. And a guy that will never cheat on me.

2007-12-09 07:42:15 · 8 answers · asked by babykitten132001 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you find girls with or without makeup more attrative?

Do you like girly-girls or tomboys?

just wondering. thanks!

2007-12-09 07:41:43 · 29 answers · asked by Glycerine 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 07:41:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not dating this guy, but yesterday, this guy i really like came up and told me he liked me. he caught me really offguard, so I pretty moch rejected him. i want to tell him i like him too, but i dont know if he will want me back, and i dont know if i have the guts to. ANY SUGGESTIONS AT ALL ??? please help me. i wont see this guy for another week.

2007-12-09 07:38:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or vice versa??? or can´t you compare? I think my husband loves me more than I love him, but I need him more (in different ways, but above all emotionally), anything wrong with that???

2007-12-09 07:37:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

About a month after my 3 year relationship ended with my ex i started liking another guy and now we're together and have been for 2 weeks. The thing is, hes a total sweetie but some of the things he says scare me. He says hes already in love with me and that he can see himself being with me forever. Thats exactly what my 3 year boyfriend told me before he broke up with me. Now, my new boyfriends longest relationship lasted 2 weeks.. thats something else that scares me. I really like him alot, we have alot in commen and everything, just the things he says scares me. Another thing is that we are sexual with each other alot.. i know he really cares about me but i dont know.. Everything he says pushes me away. Last night we had sex for the first time together (neither of us are virgins) but we were drunk.. i just feel overwhelmed. Should i get out of this? Any advice?

2007-12-09 07:37:55 · 7 answers · asked by This is me. 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends tell me to get out of my relationship of 4 yrs with my boyfriend whom I love. We get into arguement a lot, 90% they R from him and for stupid things with his trust issues. He starts swearing and I yell back without swearing. But when we aren't fighting we are perfect together. Recently we were fighting and I was fed up with him swearing and yelling at me. I try to leave but he said no cuz I had few drinks, but he was the drunk one. He was holding my arms tight and continued swearing at me. I pinched him to let go of me and he got furious. He squeeze my arms so tight lifting me a little that I screamed in pain. I was in tears. The next day my left upper arm was black and blue. The bruise was as big as a person's hand. He couldn't believe when he saw it. He didn't realize how tight he had done it and apologized. I forgave him, cuz I felt I lead him to do it by pinching him. My friends think he is out of control & abusive & I need to get out now. R they right?

2007-12-09 07:36:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband wants to separate but tells me he loves me and he'll be here for me. He says that he'll help me financially. I'm 4 months pregnant and he says he'll be here for the baby. He tells me he loves me. He says he doesn't want a divorce, he just needs time to think about what he wants. I want to be married to him, live with him etc. I want to trust and believe him and I want to be patient. Is he confused? OR is he trying to play me? He seems genuine in our conversation, but then I can't understand if he loves me etc. why won't he just stay?

2007-12-09 07:34:10 · 18 answers · asked by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm looking for questions to print out, cut out, then glue to the back of flat, clear glass stones. Then I'll lay them around on the tables at a Christmas party I'm having. There will be people of all ages there. I'm looking for sayings like, "Where will you be in ten years?"- questions that both kids and adults can answer. Do you have any other ideas? Thanks~

2007-12-09 07:33:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is at her house your texting her 6:30 a.m in morning what are you thinking not being smart just wondering

2007-12-09 07:32:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please give me your opinion or advice.

2007-12-09 07:31:34 · 5 answers · asked by camacholilac 2 in Singles & Dating

We argue and he grabs his belongings and leaves our home.He doesn't call and then he returns the next day.He left last night and I haven't even heard from him.Is he cheating?

2007-12-09 07:27:23 · 19 answers · asked by sweet_az_peaches1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My frined asked me for some help because he going out with 2 girls at the same time, but i dont know what to say. And he like them both equally and 1 of them dont live around us!! But he still dont know what to do and I dont know what to tell him!! Help please!!

2007-12-09 07:26:22 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah T 1 in Friends

I am really always interested in how people met their wives or husbands. Just wondering.

2007-12-09 07:25:51 · 17 answers · asked by Winter_Decay 3 in Marriage & Divorce

someone's been giving me hints that he likes me for 2 years, i can't go into the whole thing now and no - he is single, my point being he must not be that interested, right? (cause if he were, he'd be straightforward)

thanx

2007-12-09 07:25:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because my boyfriend said he wants to ask me to marry him when I turn 16 and then we'll get married at 18 or 19. Is that a good idea or am I too young?

2007-12-09 07:24:36 · 15 answers · asked by Eugene's Girl 2 in Weddings