My frined asked me for some help because he going out with 2 girls at the same time, but i dont know what to say. And he like them both equally and 1 of them dont live around us!! But he still dont know what to do and I dont know what to tell him!! Help please!!
2007-12-09 07:26:22 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's easy.
Pick ONE of them.
2007-12-09 07:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Marissa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He didn't feel bad, he's just trying to manipulate you into accepting his crap because he likes abusing and humiliating women. I just broke up with a creep like that. We'd been dating for two months, everything was going fine, he was very attentive and sweet and loving, everything I wanted in a man, up until the date when he told me what he thought was a cool, funny story about some girl who drove up next to him on the freeway, threw her number on a piece of balled up paper into his open truck window, and then pulled over and screwed him in his truck at the next off ramp. He even produced the piece of paper from his glove compartment. It even had a date on it, 2008. I wondered what had happened to her if he thought his experience was so wonderful and fabulous that he had to tell his new girlfriend about it! I could not believe he told me that whether or not I was his girlfriend. Maybe a guy would enjoy that story, but not a girl! Wow, was I turned off. The rest of the night was no fun for me. I was so disgusted and his touch revolted me. I pleaded sick and got him to take me home early. I could barely stand his kiss goodnight at the door. I figured he must be telling me this to test how much I would take, so I blew off his hundred million phone calls after that. It's not that I'm anything extra special than other women; I think he just hated it that I wouldn't take his crap. That just wasn't going to fly in his book, and he called me hundreds of times afterwards trying to find out why I wouldn't have anything to do with him. He just had to know, and I wouldn't tell him. Let him wonder.
2016-04-08 03:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your friend expect you to do? There is nothing wrong with dating two people at the same time provided he is honest about it. Sometimes people expect a dating situation to be exclusive, so it is only reasonable to let them know you enjoy their company but are continuing to date others, especially because of the distance. This allows them to decide if they are willing to continue the relationship, it could be they would prefer exclusivity and that is their right. In the long run I think he will decide on his own which one he prefers to spend more time with.
2007-12-09 07:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two girls at once? I'm sorry just in shock it's possible. He has to choose one obviously but make sure he doesn't look at it like he'll lose no matter what but rather he'll win no matter what. I guess you could try having a friend see him with each of his girlfriends and find out which girl he seems to get along with better. But he will have to choose.
2007-12-09 07:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by AnswerMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing is to be honest with both girls. If he can't do that he needs to be very careful because someone will rat him out. You should be careful. He could be hitting on you with this "What should I do?" line Sounds like an old TV sit-com.
2007-12-09 07:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Rudolph'sGrandma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not mature enough to pick a girl, then he is probably not mature enough to be dating anyone at all. That is what I would tell a friend in that situation. He is only going to hurt both girls, as well as his own self. If he was smart, he would dump them both and just stay single until his is mature enough to handle a relationship.
2007-12-09 08:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop dating both of them and take some time to himself until he knows how to be faithful to ONE.
2007-12-09 07:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by Jylsamynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to quit whining about having two girls going at once. Most guys would love that "dilemma"
2007-12-09 07:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by Scotty Showtime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm youre friend is stupid. dating two girls at the same time is wrong. he should know that. tell him that until he can treat one girl with respect then he shouldnt date until then.
2007-12-09 07:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop being a manwhore and choose one or the other. Could you imagine the stigma attached if he were a girl?
2007-12-09 07:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by Elisabeth 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs to drop one of the girls, why not the one that lives farther away.
2007-12-09 07:29:25 · answer #11 · answered by Pants face 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋