About a month after my 3 year relationship ended with my ex i started liking another guy and now we're together and have been for 2 weeks. The thing is, hes a total sweetie but some of the things he says scare me. He says hes already in love with me and that he can see himself being with me forever. Thats exactly what my 3 year boyfriend told me before he broke up with me. Now, my new boyfriends longest relationship lasted 2 weeks.. thats something else that scares me. I really like him alot, we have alot in commen and everything, just the things he says scares me. Another thing is that we are sexual with each other alot.. i know he really cares about me but i dont know.. Everything he says pushes me away. Last night we had sex for the first time together (neither of us are virgins) but we were drunk.. i just feel overwhelmed. Should i get out of this? Any advice?
2007-12-09 07:37:55 · 7 answers · asked by This is me. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are always gonna want sex and they will say things to make you feel like they love you but they don't. Next time please give yourself time to be alone don't start being sexual active with many guys. Don't rush things. Stop having sex with guys you just met, take the time to really know them.....Take care...
2007-12-09 07:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by avater 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Sounds like you should get out while you still can. I advice you not to get serious and sexual so soon. If his record relationship lasted only 2 weeks than he doesn't know much about love and needs to mature before getting into a serious relationship. How can he love you and want to spend forever with you if both of you haven't known each other that long? You just got through a relationship and you started to like a guy so soon! Be careful and slow it down a bit.
Those are only suggestions and advice. Do what you believe is right.
:-)
2007-12-09 15:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by suzyqnelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is if your not feeling him, then dump him. Would you really want a guy that scares u or a guy that is normal? I would suggest that the guy is thinking too fast and if I were u I would get rid of him. If his longest is 2wks then theres something wrong about him.
2007-12-09 15:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mike L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart.
I think you looked for a new relationship too quickly. Two weeks is too soon to know if you are in love. More than likely you and he are in love with the idea of having someone in your lifes.
Take some time off from any relationships.
2007-12-09 15:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest holding off on the sex with him for a while.....at least a week or two. See how he acts when you guys arnt being physical. If he acts weird....then loose him.
2007-12-09 15:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. if you guys had sex, its gonna be way hard to get out of the relationship, phisically and mentally. you can do it though. this guy's past relationships with other girls means that he is not the type of guy any girl would want. if he scares yuou, its not right. get out now, keep faith. :)
2007-12-09 15:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by mlegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it looks like the two of you are ready to get married. I think you should go to Vegas and do it right now! Besides, if it doesn't work you can always get divorced.
2007-12-09 15:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by flyfish! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋