Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

For me, the best thing in my life is my three sons (no, not the old TV show starring Fred MacMurray, LOL)! What about you? Is it a particular present or gift you received as a child, let's say a family heirloom; or is it the person's love that gave it to you that makes it so special?

2007-12-09 05:34:21 · 10 answers · asked by Andy K 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Help! We're thinking about our reception itinerary, and are looking for help on what's going to happen. Toasts? Cake cutting? When will this all happen, and does anyone have any good ideas?

2007-12-09 05:34:11 · 2 answers · asked by shawnzmojo102 4 in Weddings

I was just wondering was you guys think. We're getting married soon but the ring is not important to me but everyone's been telling me that it's his MORAL OBLIGATION (basically) for him to buy me an engagement ring before we get married. What do you think?

2007-12-09 05:26:55 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I know what they do and what they are all about!!
What I want to get an opinion on is...... There are no bell ringers at the TARGET stores. I really appreciate that. I shop at Target for everything during the holidays because I don't like the irritating bell ringers. If I wanted to donate money (Which I do give 5% of my taxes to the city youth programs, not the point,but..) If and When I do donate money I don't want to feel obgligated or preassured to give to a specific cause or at a specific time. What is your opinion?

2007-12-09 05:21:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Would you still carry on the affair or have sex with the married man (or woman) if you KNEW they were also still sleeping with their wife (or husband)

2007-12-09 05:13:25 · 23 answers · asked by busymum 5 in Marriage & Divorce

During a passionate moment he mentioned having a desire for someone I am close to ... he since apologized and it hurt me very much. Do I need to worry that he is attracted to her? How would you handle this!

2007-12-09 05:10:05 · 15 answers · asked by amy a 2 in Marriage & Divorce

TELL ME IF YOU <3 THIS VIDEO

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UDAaevTq51I

2007-12-09 05:08:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I become popular in high school but not act slutty? I want to be popular but how?

2007-12-09 05:04:59 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pursued me and lavished attention - everything wz wonderful - until I texted him FU. I now recall he said to not ever say this to him in the past... i am not a crazy, rarely say FU but his behavior really sent me..... he is very driven, in sales, stressful job... probably he is a control freak and I now realize he has probably heard this from women in the past... there are likely control, & anger issues and i will likely back off from him anyway ... he will not answer my calls/texts. i stopped yesterday after a couple of calls/texts/apologizes, he had siad we would talk about this during the weekend but he hz cut off all contact. IS- it over and this is his way of telling me? he teaching me a lesson?control by silence? he is seeing how i handle the silence? or he is trying to figure it all out before he calls? i'm not contacting him again - it his txt to me after F U txt was" very very bad move. me no like F U. no way I deserved that.. will he call? bizarre behavior..

2007-12-09 05:03:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Husband has been brought up on Child Support and the woman gets 884$ a month!!!! for ONE child....of which her parents actually house and feed.......I am wondering if there are any laws against a custodial parent having no job ? Or if there is anything we can do if she is jobless?

2007-12-09 05:02:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

That her clothes look REALLY bad and too tight?

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It looks terrible and other people agree. Other people do it too, but I've heard people say things about her.

2007-12-09 05:01:29 · 12 answers · asked by Coke Nicola 3 in Friends

my wife eats pickled herrings.. eww

2007-12-09 04:55:54 · 22 answers · asked by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I've a brother and sis in law with 2 boys, & a cousin aged 43 who has 5 kids & 2 grandsons. For the past few years, I've bought presents & cards for ALL their birthdays & Christmas. Yet I get my birthday card late, my husbands birthday gets forgotten, & they are often late for my daughter's birthday. In fact my cousin NEVER buys my daughter a gift, though I buy all her kids prezys all the time. My brother buys her a Xmas prezy & thats the only time he ever visits me. I visit him every 2-3 mths.

This Spring, my bro sent my daughter a card & pressie,2 months AFTER her birthday! I got all 4 of his family their cards & gifts to them on time, throughout Jan/Feb!

Should I not give prezys to ANY of them this Christmas? I know U shouldn't give 2 receive, but it upsets me that I make so much effort & they make squat & it upsets me that my cousin never buys my ONE child anything coz she's supposedly broke; she smokes 140 fags a wk tho! SHE never visits either, tho I visit her evry 2 mnths

2007-12-09 04:54:59 · 7 answers · asked by SMEG AND THE HEADS 5 in Family

My dad was a decorator and he was decorating this house and the people who lived in the house were alcoholic's. and when he whent to paint there house he had the keys so he let his self in and they were both drunk on the sofa asleep so he coverd them up with the dust sheets and painted over them. did any one find that story funny?

2007-12-09 04:53:54 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

should I be the same or should I continue to be nice towards them and hopefully at some point they will stop being rude or unfriendly?

2007-12-09 04:52:48 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am not trying to be judgmental or criticize anyone for their questions or the things that they are going through in their lives, and I've asked plenty of questions that some might not have an answer for, but honestly, questions like "When a girl looks at you, does that mean she likes you?" or "Does this mean he wants me back"? "If a guy slaps you on the shoulder, does that mean that he wants to date you?" "If he picked up my pencil, does that mean he likes me?" It's starting to get annoying as hell! Not because people ask, because they honestly expect you to give you their take on what someone we've never met, is feeling and it's impossible. Nobody can speak for all men or women everywhere and all people are different in their own unique way.

Why don't people ever come out and ask, the person exactly what they want to ask them, instead of sh!tload of strangers who have never met whoever it is that they like? I guess I'm more of a straightforward person, but what do you think?

2007-12-09 04:51:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a friend of mine is going through a really tough divorce. and his soon to be ex wife has a really good lawyer, (he cant afford one) the stipulations say that as part of the divorce he has to get a $250,000 life ins policy and her be made the sole benificiary. can they do that???
he's more concerned b/c what about his mom and daughter (from another relationship) and the lawyer says he'd just have to get another policy for them seperately. i didnt think they could do that, but im not sure. why should an ex be the benificiary? and what if he wants to get re married?
i feel bad for him, she already took his car (because her's died) and at the pre hearing the judge allowed her to have his. he cant even get back and fourth to work. the poor guy has nothing else to give....
any advise as to what can be done?

2007-12-09 04:51:30 · 8 answers · asked by jessi jane 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my grandpa is not eating anything or drinking anything or taking his pills. He says he wants to die. we tried calling 911 and they brought the paramefics but my grandpa yelled at them to get out and if they touch him theen they will have a fight on their hands. everyone is worried. my aunt flew down from seattle yesterday and everyone has tried talking to him out of it except me and my cousin Jamie and we are supposed to talk to him today. I don't know what to say or do or feel. They have already picked out his suit and talked about taking out the carpet and replacing it and selling the cars and i'm scared. and my birthday is next week.

2007-12-09 04:46:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ahhh, that felt good

2007-12-09 04:46:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 04:45:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He has been out nearly every weekend since we found out I was pregnant, he is working away at the moment and only comes home once a fortnight even though I am coming towards the end of my pregnancy, he goes out in London where he is working and turns his phone off and lies to me constantly, I always find out when he's been lying about who he's been with ECT. Just to top it all off he has just found out he has genital warts, he swears to me he has never strayed in the 2 years we have been together but I just cant trust him, he says the warts could of been lying dormant for sometime (we have been together 2 years) I love him so much and feel like im being made a fool of, we have a beautiful house together and a puppy with baby number 1 on the way, why am I feeling like this? Is it all in my head? Please help as im not sure I can take anymore....

2007-12-09 04:42:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean a guy goes to the bathroom out of that thing and he wants me to put it in my mouth. I think that's gross I mean isn't it dirty?

2007-12-09 04:30:00 · 3 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Singles & Dating

we were together for 11 months, and i think we might be getting back together what can i get him?

2007-12-09 04:29:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm married and been married for quiet sometime now it's been 3 years and it seems like he doesn'nt want me to have any friends everytime i get a friend he already don't like them and he did'nt get to know them everytime i go somewhere he want's me to follow me what do you think i should do

2007-12-09 04:26:49 · 8 answers · asked by darshala22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like the above states, I just found the guy that I Iike is gay. Not only that, but he is going out with one of my guy friends. They've only been going out for a few days. This is just according to another one of my guy friends that they're gay, but some of the things they were doing (feeding each other, arms around one another, sitting too close, etc.) makes me believe that they are.

I feel like a, inadequate human being who will never be worthy of love. I'm feeling so many things right now and I don't know what to do. I want to go up to him and ask him if him and the other guy are really going out, and then I'm going to ask him to just be quiet and listen to me. I think I'm going to tell him that I liked him and that I apologize (b/c i kept hitting on him) because I had no idea and that I hope he and his boyfriend are happy together. I think that's the only way I will get to move on.

2007-12-09 04:26:25 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 04:25:41 · 7 answers · asked by gettapan 1 in Singles & Dating

Yet always assumes you do bad things that you really don't.

Even at 31, my mother assumes that I party all the time, that I only care about myself, that I am sexually immoral, and that I'm lying all the time etc...

The truth is that I don't lie, I live according to the bible as best as I can, and I spend most of my spare time helping those in need. I can't talk to her anymore because I've been driven to near-madness over it.

2007-12-09 04:25:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

does your partner reach your expectations or did you just settle.
the question stems from the fact that a friend of mine (married) told me that you never get the one close to your "standards" but some times you have to settle.
Is that the case with you?Is the one you have your dream girl/guy or are they a miniature version of it

2007-12-09 04:25:08 · 17 answers · asked by cleo s 3 in Singles & Dating

This is becoming a big issue in our marriage. Do other couples also face the same situation? How to resolve it?

2007-12-09 04:23:35 · 31 answers · asked by Whisperer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay I am a girl in the seventh grade. I like this guy and I think that he might like me too, but I am not 100% sure. So here is basically why I think he may like me too:
* He goes out of his way to talk to me almost every day
*He loves making me laugh
*He is always joking around saying things like call me
* I see him looking at me somethimes
*His friends told me he likes me (I dont know if they were kidding) They may have been.

So what do you think?
Does he like me?
If he does please also give me tips on how to "flirt" with him. (Im new to this!)I can be a little under confident and shy!

Also I used to have a crush on his friend and I am pretty sure he knows. I also think he still thinks I am still interested in his friend. How can I let him know I am no longer crushing on his pal without being to obvious about liking him?

Thanks

2007-12-09 04:22:30 · 10 answers · asked by simcrazyr 2 in Singles & Dating