This is becoming a big issue in our marriage. Do other couples also face the same situation? How to resolve it?
2007-12-09 04:23:35 · 31 answers · asked by Whisperer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Trim it close
2007-12-09 04:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by Naamoku 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
If this is becoming a "big issue" in your marriage, then you may end up with big problems. I don't know if you are the wife or the husband, but if the wife doesn't want to shave then she shouldn't. Does the husband shave his? Probably not, that is usually the case anyway. The wife could trim it up some without shaving or waxing, just to keep it neat and less ummm, "fluffy?" but if she doesn't want to shave, she shouldn't and he should not keep pushing her about it. Good luck with this and I wish you well.
2007-12-09 04:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you want it totally gone? If so wax or laser is the only ways to go but if she doesn't want it then I would not push her into anything she doesn't want to do. Love her and respect her.
I personally just trim mine with a little trimmer at walmart that I buy for about 7 dollars and its reuseable. Ofcourse I am not totally a little girl down there but atleast my husband can see what he is working with. Plus I don't have any shave bumps afterwards. My husband is just fine with it. There has not been any fights about what we look/feel like down there because we know we are both human.
And just a little fact....Women really do need hair down there because it helps protect them from infection.
2007-12-09 05:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lou Lou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people have very sensitive skin and shaving is very itchy and irritating. How about laser hair removal. It is permanent and there isn't itching. Husband should pay the tab.
It is her decision, it is her body. Let her do what SHE wants. It sounds like husband has other issues.
2007-12-09 05:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by Dani Bosco 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is itchy when it starts to grow back! If she doesn't want to do it then there is not much you can do. I personally like to shave because it feels a lot cleaner. I usually shave near my ******** (it isn't itchy when it grows back) and trim up top. Try suggesting that, but don't be pushy it is her own body.
2007-12-09 04:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Torrey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She would not ought to shave thoroughly, yet while she needs you to bypass down there, she ought to trim it as much as make it neater and greater soft for you. tell her in a non-confrontational way which you're able to do a much greater effectual job and revel in it much greater if there grow to be much less hair, after that it is likewise possible to grant to shave it for her... Be resourceful, yet once you bypass approximately asserting it the incorrect way, she'll merely get shielding, and that may not help concerns in any respect...
2016-10-10 22:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by misconis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes bushy, you like shaved, hows about the two of you come to an agreement, what about a TRIM, there is no shaving or waxing. Just a nice little trim down, you know trimming the hedges. And the two of you can be happy.
2007-12-09 04:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by stepintostep 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
was she shaved when you married her? if not , then you cannot expect her to. have you ever shaved down there? it is itchy. but it is just another thing to shave, we as women have alot more to shave then men. so it can be bothersome to add yet another thing. on the other hand, my husband asked me to in a loving way and i did it. and from time to time he does it for me, which is sexy to me, but he likes it either way, i think it is rediculous to get angry if she does not, do you do everything she wants you to do? think about that.
2007-12-09 05:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by chicksmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how bout triming? ever thought of that to get her started, most women who do not shave like things the way they are, instead of asking for it all shaved off,, start by asking for a trim and see how that goes,, if she does it and likes it, then you may be on your way inch by inch to get what you want her to do, but you can only acheive this by being polite and asking her, and then praising her when she starts. and I would have to say that those red bumps after shaving are not sexy to look at, and I can just imagine the irritation to her as well.
2007-12-09 04:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by john d 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
can you guys not compromise? do you shave down there? do you know just how bad it does itch and hurt? but my husband and i both just keep it very neatly trimmed-- and it all works out fine. I can't imagine that being a big issue--- best of luck
2007-12-09 05:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by Nessa131 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is all it takes to become a big issue in your marriage, I can't imagine what it will be like if something serious happens. Take this as a sign, you two need counselling.
2007-12-09 04:39:20 · answer #11 · answered by chinamigarden 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋