i'm married and been married for quiet sometime now it's been 3 years and it seems like he doesn'nt want me to have any friends everytime i get a friend he already don't like them and he did'nt get to know them everytime i go somewhere he want's me to follow me what do you think i should do
2007-12-09 04:26:49 · 8 answers · asked by darshala22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does he have friends? You should do it to him to make him see how you feel. I am in the same boat with my husband but he doesn't go as far as follow me. If he continues and doesn't stop it will harm your future and you will have to start demanding he changes or get help. (I personally like to just work on the relationship ourselves and not get a another person in the picture that way it feels like you really worked together showing your love for one another) Communication/Trust is key in a marriage. Good Luck and keep your hopes up high.
2007-12-09 05:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lou Lou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow take a breath or use a comma, period or something.
Sorry but reading this made me dizzy.
First off 3 years isn't all that long. Second no one will treat you any worse then what you let them. Stand up and live YOUR life! It isn't up to your husband who you are friends with or where you go. Yes he should care and you should care how he feels but he isn't your boss he is your husband.
You should be partners that love and respect each other. Not control each other.
Grow a back bone and start living either he will calm down or you will see you don't work together.
2007-12-09 12:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Welcome to marriage. Since you haven't learned much in life I'll give you a quick lesson:
1. There is no Santa
2. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
3. Marriage ruins relationships(moving in is the same)
4. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
5. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want to hear the truth if not just
keep believing the lies you hear from
everyone around you.
2007-12-09 12:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would try to persuade him to go to counseling with you and get to the root of the problem of his insecurity with you and other people. In today's world that can be a number of issues, like Internet usage, TV usage, telephone usage people tend to over look the small things that they do that sends the other one into hysteria
2007-12-09 12:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by john d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just put your foot down and let him know that you WILL have a life weather he likes it or not. Marriage doesn't mean ownership.
2007-12-09 12:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tall Chicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a problem but there is a possibility that you are contributing to it unintentionally. Professional advise would be the best bet.
2007-12-09 12:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's being controlling because he's immature and he doesnt' trust your love for him.
He needs counseling. I personally would not put up with that behavior for one more minute
2007-12-09 12:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by LB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take him with you.
Husbands that are as jealous as he is, may be cheating on you. You might want to follow him.
2007-12-09 13:09:17 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋