Family & Relationships - 9 December 2007

I'm going on my 4th date with this boy. It seems everytime on day I am about to go out with him I get very nervous and I don't eat much and I'm fidgety. When I see him the nerves kind of go away. Well about a little over a week ago he asked me how he would know I'm ready to move to the next level. I told him it's only been a month and since I'm a virgin I was very offended. He kept appologizing and said that he had tears in his eyes and he didn't want to lose me. Well my friends and my father are telling me they don't care that he appologized that I should call it off with this boy because that was and is not the right way to talk to me. I am seeing him again tonight and we are going to his house (he lives with his parents) and he is going to make dinner for me and have candles and wine but, as you can guess I am very nervous.

2007-12-09 02:13:11 · 2 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Singles & Dating

more precisely a girl you have met in a pu/club a few hours earlier

2007-12-09 02:11:19 · 17 answers · asked by BscHons 6 in Singles & Dating

Or does she just look like an easy lay if she claims she has one?

2007-12-09 02:10:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf has this cousin named lil man and lil man has a sister named rochelle she's a slut and my bf has been friends with both of them for 10 years and i asked him one day would he ever have sex with rochelle or has he thought about it and he yeah he thought about but it was before he met me but i can't stop thinkin he likes her and she hits on him alot but he says he loves me but he wanted to have sex with her a long time ago cuz she got a really big butt (i don't) but i love him and trust him but i can't help but think he still kinda likes her and i can't help wanting to kill her everytime i see her cuz she hits on him help plz (guys mostly)

2007-12-09 02:10:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always had a crush on my ex's best friend, even when we were together. We broke up two years ago, but I recently was lost my apt, and moved into my ex's apt. We sleep in seperate rooms, and their is nothing between us anymore. However, I hooked up with his best friend three months ago, and we have been talking and seeing each other ever since. My ex found out, and was livid, but we were through two years ago! Well, now I cannot see his friend, and we are limited to exchanging emails daily. I really want to see him, and my ex is making life for me miserable. I am a grown woman, but I feel badly about this whole thing. I do not want to stop talking to his friend, we get along better than I ever did with my ex, and he is closer to my age. Am I wrong for wanting to be with this guy, or what? Can anyone out there relate or help me?

2007-12-09 02:09:10 · 5 answers · asked by Gigi 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a few questions to ask about my friend who is dying. My friend has been a cancer patient since age 12 and is now losing his battle at age 17. At his last visit to the doctors they gave him 6 weeks to live. It's been 15 weeks since that visit. Recently his condition has worsened to the point that he's on oxygen.

People at my school keep asking about his condition when they refuse to call, go see him or even send him an e-mail. It gets annoying and makes me very depressed while in school. What's a polite way to tell them to go away?

My next question is about next year. I'm a high school senior and I've got a full scholarship to a tech school in Arizona. I currently live on the east coast should I take the scholarship even though I'll still be mourning my friend's death?

My last question is about my friend's family. Currently they try and include me in everything they do, but when my friend dies I don't think I'll be able to face them. What should I do?

2007-12-09 02:08:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Christmas is just around the corner, and I am planning to buy my mother a gift from things Remembered, the store where they ingrave whatever you want in the gift, Thing is I just dont have a good quote some one please help me. I know it would be a good gift, but it would be the perfect gift with the right quote.

2007-12-09 02:07:02 · 2 answers · asked by mala_uglygirl 2 in Family

I was friends with a co-worker, so I knew it was OK to tell her in a subile hinting way about the dream. She was shocked that I told her and possibly shocked that I dreamed of her. I know she was very flattered. We were in our 40's. When she realised what I dreamed, she screamed "OH MY GOD!!!"
I did not directly spell out the details so as not to be too forward or get myself in trouble at work. Problaby not a good idea to tell things like this to a person that is married that you dreamed of sex with them.

2007-12-09 02:04:32 · 4 answers · asked by OceanBlue0910 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 02:03:53 · 12 answers · asked by Angela W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Were just friends but when i mention what i like in a guy he'll say wierd things to me. Like one time i said i like guys with muscles and he said i guess i have to start working out then in a joking way. then yesterday i said like guys with tattoos n he said well im getting one next summer in a non joking way. i dont know what to think and we flirt like alot. i do have feelings for him but im not sure if he does have feelings for me. he likes this one girl but its wierd cuz around me he gets strange. And the last time i askjed about her he said they havent tlaked in a few weeks. i know when a guy likes me and he acts like he does but im not sure if its just us being close firends with one another cuz we do care about each other alot. i don't know what to think.

2007-12-09 02:01:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He's not bad looking and has a good athletic body. He has a job that pays well, a college degree, but he's a loner. He spends the majority of his time alone. He'll travel alone. Shop alone. Work out and train alone. He doesn't have ANY friends.... would you think he's a loser and wouldn't date him?

2007-12-09 02:00:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so we have been dating for almost a year and a half, and well I really have ran out of options, like I already have done all the cute ideas, and the sporty ideas, but I need something really good...and cute. I need help. asap. Thanks so much =)

2007-12-09 01:59:26 · 5 answers · asked by kickitup21 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked a poorly worded question on standards the other day and was brutally attacked for being "mean" and/or putting down the type of the guy that I deem not my personal taste.

So I ask you: why do people attack others verbally for having standards on looks, however minimal they are, if they are not that great looking themselves? Essentially one annoying comment was "you're not Angelina Jolie-esque...[how can you have standards]." So attractive people are allowed standards, but plain folks must take what they get?
All I ask for in a man is that he be smart, funny, proactive, and have a few things in common with me. How else does a relationship spark if not for commonality. As for looks, I just said I don't find large or ugly (I usually find something nice in almost all guys) attractive off the bat. That's not to say if i get to know them, that their attractiveness may go up.
How does this criteria incite such ruckus a la The Lottery?

2007-12-09 01:57:19 · 13 answers · asked by Carolina P 2 in Singles & Dating

i was dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. we broke up a few weeks ago. he has been hanging out with this other girl. i know that they have kissed once, but he acts like it meant nothing to him. he still tells me he loves me, and he also tells me that he's in love with me. i'm still in love with him and i would do anything to be with him again. he tells me i'm the best thing that has ever happened to him, so why would he want to give that away? it's confusing for me. he tells me that i am the love of his life, and i know he is the love of my life. i know that we are meant to be together. i just don't know how to make him realize that if he's not careful, he could lose me. i also want him to realize what he's doing to me and how much it hurts me. i love him so much.

i need help!!!!

2007-12-09 01:57:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Quite simple actually yet i need your two cents worth,who is better?
One who likes you, but has nothing in common with you or someone who does not speak to you on a regular basis but relates to you in every way?

2007-12-09 01:56:56 · 4 answers · asked by Matt V 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Omg on msn my best friend was on (aka my crush)
and me and my other best friend were talking to him so she told him i liked him alot when i left to get some red peppers.
And he was like no... I dont think he likes me but thats not what im worried about my lifes over becausde people at school will make fun of me and my best friend is avoiding me (i think)...
WHAT DO I DO.??? please help before i start having a mental breakdown!!!!!!!
Also im in grade 7

2007-12-09 01:56:47 · 4 answers · asked by cbabysnugglebunny 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Every time my friend comes over before 1 a.m. The fun is still to be had, but she just can't stay awake. She says she wants weto do all these things, but then all i hear is snoring!

2007-12-09 01:56:17 · 30 answers · asked by fairygirl01876 1 in Friends

Ok for years women have been calling men cheaters, but these days women are on a rampage when it comes to cheating, i've been cheated on once, and i learned that women lies are on point, because you will never know. I have a theory that all women have deceiving ways in them, and i also believe that in a relationship a woman will cheat at least once or more behind your back.

I'm not saying these things because I'm hurt or anything, I'm just deciding on taking the playa route, in that way you can avoid scandalous women, and be single, and date numerous of women. I'm 19, and older men always tell me never trust a woman, because once you do...it's over, and i learned never be to emotional with women, because they can detect these things, i also learned that maybe some woemn from ages 26 and up can be faithful in relationships but younger ages starting from 18 are attention whores, and thats a stage they go thorugh in life before they are mature about relationships..so they will cheat

2007-12-09 01:54:57 · 12 answers · asked by mr discreet 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for 2 years and together for 6 years. I love her and believe that she loves me, but we're not IN LOVE anymore. I don't remember the last time that we had sex (and it's my fault, I have no desire to have sex with her). I've found myself questioning whether or not I want to be married any longer. We mostly get along well, but she annoys the crap out of me for no reason 60% of the time we're together. She's not cheated on me (although I've allowed and encouraged her to spend time alone with male friends) and I've not cheated on her (although I've confessed to a woman recently that I have feelings for her and she feels the same way). I'm not interested in cheating on my wife, I wouldn't do that. When we got married it was last minute and only because she wanted to. I didn't object, but it wasn't a priority for me. I don't think that marriage is necessary. I'm depressed and irritable and she's not getting the attention from me that she deserves. Help?

2007-12-09 01:54:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I give her private lessons in literature, and she has a crush on me.. She keeps on telling me that I am beautiful, and that she loves me. I have cancelled a meeting today, and she came to my house anyways, because she says she misses me.

She hates my room mate, I think she might be jealous.

I dont know what to do because she is currently under depression treatment. She is 19 by the way, and I am 25.

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I do not teach at the school where she learns. I have tried talking to her mom, but she is blinded by her parenting love. I am just scared that she is gonna do something rash if I end it.

Like today, i couldnt convince her to go away, and I finally told her that I have to go as well. She begged me to let her stay with me while I get dressed, then we left togather, I circled the park and came back home.

I am a woman, by the way

2007-12-09 01:54:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend told me that my crush told him that he said he had a crush on me, but that was 2 or 3 months ago, and my friend didn't know if he still liked me. He had crushes on other girls and he told them when he did , But why didn't he tell me when he had a crush on me?or does he still have a crush on me and doesn't want to tell me?

2007-12-09 01:52:29 · 9 answers · asked by HopeSo 2 in Singles & Dating

dying or something like that? Who's gonna take care of me then? I'm gonna be left alone right???

2007-12-09 01:51:21 · 32 answers · asked by Dark Dickinsonian 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy online...merely for sex..as agreed..but things goes wrong...I fell inlove with him..and he in the other hand sometimes show same mutual feeling but sometimes give me a cold shoulder.
I would really want to know, would a guy really appreciate a relationship like this? or is just a fling or a convinience?
I am confuse really.
Please help.
Thanks

2007-12-09 01:45:56 · 22 answers · asked by DoubtInLove 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-09 01:45:38 · 1 answers · asked by rachael R 4 in Friends

2007-12-09 01:45:05 · 10 answers · asked by Crazy Tequilla Girl 3 in Friends

and know its the right choice i made for me and kids..how do i know im not blinded by the stupid insecurity of our trust issue..how do i know that he is telling me the truth..i believe the truth always comes out on way or the other..how can i trust again..how can i let him see he can trust me..that he is the only man i want that i will only be truely happy with him(if he is being honest)..it seems wot im doing is not working and ive asked and he says he cnt tel me..how do i break away from him when everything in my mind body heart tels me not to..how can we help each other to believe in each other again..how can i make him feel save and at ease to talk to me without fearing the worse..how do i stop feelingso helpless and show him that we can do this if we just be honest and comit from both sides..he says he does but i dont feel or see it..is it me..im i somehow blinded by his actions and feelings..am i the prob here..how do i find the solution..how do i know if its me..

2007-12-09 01:44:58 · 10 answers · asked by musicslave 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend broke me and my boyfriend up now he is calling me what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-09 01:44:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Erh, My friend and i , we were eating pizza in a restaurant and she was using fork and knife and i was using my hands, so we were wondering which one was the right way because both of our families are teaching different stuff. :x

So do you really eat pizza with hands or kinfe and fork?

2007-12-09 01:44:17 · 13 answers · asked by Foo J {: 2 in Singles & Dating

shy & quiet.
i don't talk in large groups of people, but i'm nice & talkative with close friends
especially shy with guys,
they don't seem to notice me,
anyone in the same situation?

i'm 15

2007-12-09 01:40:23 · 5 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

children?

2007-12-09 01:37:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships