He's not bad looking and has a good athletic body. He has a job that pays well, a college degree, but he's a loner. He spends the majority of his time alone. He'll travel alone. Shop alone. Work out and train alone. He doesn't have ANY friends.... would you think he's a loser and wouldn't date him?
2007-12-09 02:00:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not shy or a pushover... he just doesn't talk much, unless he gets to know you, and trust you, then he'll open up. Would you date these weirdos?
2007-12-09 02:00:55 · update #1
Oh and he doesn't have low self-esteem, he talks confidently when he NEEDS to talk.... but he'll go back to being quiet when he has nothing to say anymore or dont need anything anymore....
2007-12-09 02:05:31 · update #2
i dont think he's a loser or weird..at all..
i think it's cool. lol.
good looking and good athletic body. whoa. why not??
2007-12-09 02:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by *YUMMY* *PINKY* *GUMMY* *BEAR* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll go down the list: 1. Males who are into fashion are generally pretty effeminate and can be mistaken for homosexuals. We want manly men. 2. If you won't spend a lot of time with your friends, we assume you probably won't spend a lot of time with us. That's bad. 3. It's good to not be stupid, but don't make us feel stupid in comparison. 4. As long as you have a good personality, most girls don't care what you look like, but for the most part, if you don't have some kind of hideous deformity, you're good. But don't expect us to all look like super models all the time either. 5. It's your job as the male to start putting yourself out there. Males have to take the initiative and ask the girl out, not the other way around. You can't be shy or you'll never get into a relationship. 6. What kind of girls did you date in the past? It says a lot about you as a person. Girls want guys with personality. If you're a loner, you're generally seen as "socially awkward" and women won't gravitate toward you. Come out of your shell. Hope this helped.
2016-05-22 07:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by tiara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it makes him a weirdo just because he is a loner. Try to get to know him a little better before you draw any conclusions. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, they say. If you date him, he won't be a loner. He will be part of a couple. Go out with him a few times and then decide if you want to continue. It is not as if you are making a lifetime commitment after all!!!
2007-12-09 02:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont consider them weirdos...they are actually the guys i look for!! The guys that arent into the things that the typical guy is. I've found that those guys are the ones that would treat a woman well. There is nothing wrong with a guy being by himself with no friends. I would most definitely date him...i think i tend to like guys like that because they are the opposite of myself and i tend to attract a lot of attention and they dont have a problem with being in the "background."
2007-12-09 02:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't date "weirdos" but someone being a loner doesn't make them wierd...just somewhat antisocial. If we were compatible then it wouldn't matter that they chose to stay alone and have no friends, however they'd have to accept that I do have friends and they are a very important part of my life.
2007-12-09 02:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would date anyone I like who likes me; loners are often fascinating people and are great to be in a relationship with because they respect your need for some space as a given. In short, yes!
2007-12-09 02:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well then he needs to find a girl semi the same. Get them together and let them explore each other let them get to know each other because more than likely they will get along if they are both loners and wont be loners anymore!!
:] its worked b4
2007-12-09 02:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by Chocolate Cookie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hang on a minute! if the guy has a great personality, which he's bound to have, and hes friendly when he does talk! whats the problem about going out with them just becoz they are a loner. if u like them, then yeh sure id go out with him loser or not
2007-12-09 02:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would date this type of guy simply because he has his mind on correctly and i know i wouldnt have any physical issues with him i would just have communication issues with him but sounds like he's pacing himself to see whats really out there which is good cause girls and boys run into anything now days and things never work out until you really know a person and i mean really know a person but yes i would date thi type of guy i think we would go a long way as well we could work on communication
2007-12-09 02:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not a loner, I just called myself that because I was an only child. One day he will have Ms Right and all Hell will break free.. Hold on
2007-12-09 02:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by Crazy Tequilla Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex husband was a loner and i was married to him for 17 years. he had social skills, but no one wanted to be around him or talk to him cause all he ever talked about was books and television! quite frankly, unless you have the same qualitites and don't mind being 'alone' yourself, they would be great partner, but if you are a social person and love to live life......DON'T even consider being with a loner, you will only become frustrated and bored very quickly. they are needy and boring!
2007-12-09 02:08:11 · answer #11 · answered by leolady0765 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋