Would you still carry on the affair or have sex with the married man (or woman) if you KNEW they were also still sleeping with their wife (or husband)
2007-12-09 05:13:25 · 23 answers · asked by busymum 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Before I get bashed~~~~ I am not involved with ANYONE but my HUSBAND... I'm just curious because my hubby might be cheating on me but we 'do it' everyday at least once, but usually more... so if he was cheating how could she not know we were still sleeping together...
2007-12-09 05:14:43 · update #1
crazzyjim... thank you thats my point... I'm trying to figure out if my husband is doing this.. like sleeping with her and then coming home to me or vice versa.
2007-12-09 05:26:33 · update #2
yes
the power of pulling outta one woman and going right to another and getting her to clean up the other woman's mess is intoxicating.
what do they say : if its front to mouth its love,
but if its rear to mouth its true love?
there is a psychiatric term for it but i cant recall what it is. im watching football game
2007-12-09 05:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by crazzijimsmith 7 · 15⤊ 2⤋
I definitely wouldn't. Well actually, I'd never have an affair. BUT if I were having one and he said that he was sleeping with his wife also, I would feel as though what is the purpose in doing it with him if he still has an active sex life with his wife?
Also, usually if your man is cheating he wont have sex with you everyday or very often because he's getting it from other places.
2007-12-09 05:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well frankly, most spouses continue to have sex with their partner while carrying on an affair. Most love their partners still but are finding stimulation and excitement from a third party; not a good thing and very self-centered, but it happens all the time.
2007-12-09 08:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have suspicions, you better start to find proof. Yes, ppl continue to have sex with their spouses in order not to be found out. I have a friend who is the other woman. And when I was in counseling while going through my divorce, my counselor told me that a "true love affair" will go to every lengths to keep it a secret. Those who want to be caught will be careless, & leave subtle hints to get caught or even tell a friend or two! Good Luck to you!!!
2007-12-09 05:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by T. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How does he have the energy and the time to cheat with another women if you and him have sex everyday? Not to be insensitive to your situation or anything. I wouldn't ever get involved with a married man because he's married. I would also think about the woman who is his wife and I am betraying her and contributing to that.
2007-12-09 05:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by daisyduck4007 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am in this situation, the man I am having an affair with is married, but so am i. We get together every once in awhile when time permits us both but i also know he is having sex with his wife too. It is unrealistic to think that married men don't have sex with their wives, cheating isn't always about sex. It is possible for your husband to cheat and still come home to you and have sex with you. believe me men do it all the time.
2007-12-09 05:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i'd get involed with a married individual if the two had actual themes, as in they enjoyed there spouces yet got here upon they wher no longer in love with them and there became an underlying well-being isssues the place they might see they may be left on my own down the line,would could have a particular form of head over heels in love feeling to to get entangled with yet another, yet then 2d techniques, i think i'd get rid of from what i'd have.it fairly is a dfficult question to respond to relies upon on the circumstances
2016-11-15 00:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by blair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not do this, but I wonder why if you believe your husband is cheating, why you care about what the other woman is thinking. Does it really matter at this point whether she would still sleep with him? Why would he???
2007-12-09 05:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To protect yourself and loved ones I feel you should back off until you know for sure....If he is cheating ..you are only making the pain deeper for you..How about STDs I know it is tough..but don't wait as long as I did...I did not believe the signs and the phone calls and the things people told me. I wanted so much to believe the man I married...the father of my children...would not cheat. I came home early from work one night sick...and there they were. Best to you
2007-12-09 05:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by wilma s 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would NEVER cheat on my husband no matter what.
What you need to do is to ask yourself one question...is he satisfied with you and your relationship? Do you guys fight a lot, or have problems? If you cannot answer the question yourself you need to ask him, because trust and communication are the things that keep a marriage alive.
2007-12-09 05:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jessie K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally, the "other woman" assumes that the man is sleeping with his *wife*.....as well as with her.....
If you suspect your hubby of cheating, why not ask him? If that doesn't work, why not try marital counseling?
Good luck
2007-12-09 05:19:40 · answer #11 · answered by kiki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋