my wife says that I need to improve my sexual skills, bcz i'm running with the same monotony and I ejaculate very quick. plz help, serious answers only.
2007-12-09 07:19:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is nothing better than practice. But you also need to know what to practice. For a very in depth look at sex from basic to moderately advanced you might look at the site I will post below in resources. Book mark it. Visit it over and over again, learn all you can. Practice lots and lots with your wife. Also go to a book store with your wife and buy, together, one of the many excellent sex manuals that are out there. Take it home and go through the entire manual, together.
It takes two to make a great sex life in a marriage. Oh , one more thing: practice lots and lots WITH YOUR WIFE!
2007-12-09 12:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to you wife about what she wants and tell your wife what you want. You may want to see a doctor to make sure there isn't any medical problems interfering. Your wife may need to take a more active role also. There are lots of books. There are therapists that help people explore these issues also.
2007-12-10 13:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by Simmi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try doggy.. and grab her hips kinda hard like as you pull her in, then rake your fingers acrost her skin and finally pull her hair a bit while you ride her. That will wake her up. Don't hurt her or anything, but as a woman, this feels sooo amazing.. It just adds so much to have other parts of you stimulated at the same time.
2007-12-09 16:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wear a condom it deceases sensitivity, and you'll
"keep going and going"
and as for the monotony
who says its just up to you to keep things interesting
but seriously, acrobatics are for the seriously young and stupid,
trying doing something you wouldn't normally do,
use your imagination and if you don't have one copy someone else's, movies (not porn--- such a guy answer), romance novels, etc,
but( comfortable) must always be the key to a great time
2007-12-09 15:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by Morgan Lefaye 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just with practice. Buy a book with tips on pleasing her. Think of her instead of you and pleasuring her with foreplay. Learn what turns her on.
2007-12-09 15:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by No! I'm NOT Elton John 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please her first orally and then she wont care how long you last. If you aren't into oral then perhaps a ring you can wear will help you last longer. I don't think it's fair that she place all the blame on you though. What is she doing to help make the scene more interesting. Perhaps she's the one that is boring.
2007-12-09 15:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask your wife what she wants, there are all kinds of books videos to help you.
2007-12-09 15:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by r p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the Kama Sutra.
2007-12-09 15:23:19 · answer #8 · answered by Elisabeth 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't watch porn . porn isn't real , its not about ****ing a woman its more about how making love and knowing what she likes talk to her and ask her what she likes while your doing it , and even try alot of 4play , masturbating before the 2 of you "get it on" you'll last longer that way !
2007-12-09 16:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by Taurus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you really have to feel it. it is like dancing. you cant be like a robot following an instructions. Not sure what your background is, but porn may help with ideas.
2007-12-09 15:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by Vita Privata 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋