well me and my ex hav a complicated story.
He is my first and the only guy i have actually ever slept with and he knows this.And basically everytime we do see eachutha we mainly just hook up and do thingz but not have sex all the time. He has a very busy schedule with work and playing soccer. I do have feelings for him and its tough coz i have asked him what he wants to come out of this and he has told me he doesnt want a relationship because hes still young and wants 2 have fun, and says that im still young 2 and dont need 2 b serious. Im 18 and hes 21, and realy i dont like to think of us as **** buddys coz i have much more respect 4 myself. When we see eachother also its like, we make fun of eachother and act like were 2gtha but i honestly do not know wat he wants.
so can u please answer these questions 4 me;
- am i just a booty call ?!
- what do i do; should i tell him how i feel ?!
- does he like me ?!
2007-12-09 00:48:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Truth is, yes you are. Sorry.
2. He'll lie to keep your easy sex around. Again, sorry.
3. Maybe, but it's not going to change anything.
2007-12-09 00:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Brian the supergenius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but you are nothing more than his "little f---k buddy" to him.You may not LIKE hearing that but it is the truth and you telling how you feel will NOT change things.He will just tell you sorry,I dont want a relationship as he has already said.
Learn from this mistake and do not volunteer for the same consequences of shattered self esteem by RISKING all your emotional eggs in one basket by having sex outside of marriage.NEXT time, MAKE the guy MARRY you FIRST before having sex, and you wont be asking "Am I just a booty call to him?"
2007-12-09 01:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a pretty good relationship... don't put to much doubt in the "feelings" department that's a big turn off... instead play to have fun, and try sparking his interest by being "hard to get" don't avoid him but don't put out at his first whimper either. in summary, probably not just a booty call girl, - Be honest and true to yourself, yes tell him how you feel but don't hit him with "I feel like im just a piece of *** to you" type of conversation. feel it out if he seems skid-dish don't force the subject. and finally i would say hes he likes you from what you wrote but its hard to say without more info. but he is right... don't try to look at him as future husband... that will probably end badly just play it by ear.
2007-12-09 00:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by Joe_Filatio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOOTY..... have your cake and eat it too attitude.
Please. move away from the counter!!!!!!!!!!!
Go in a total other direction for your own sake......do not hook up, do not hang around, do not pass go.
stay away........
2007-12-09 00:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup, you are
2007-12-09 02:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by panamarandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋