a boy in my year he scared me he sent me pictures of him naked and i didnt want him too, he would talk about sex, and wearing my underwear, i thought he just liked me, then on webcam i stripped to him even though i was crying on webcam to him he kept giving me orders i was scared of him, then i met up with him once he told me to talk as he really liked me we kissed and i was ok then he pulled his pants down and told me to touch it i said no and i started crying so he got my hand and put it on him then he gave up on me as i kept saying no then he he asked me to strip i refused and was still crying but he pulled my pants down i tried to cover myself up and he told me to take my hands off i said no so he pushed me onto the chair and forced my hand off then he touched me i just sat there all quiet and scared not saying anything but no but he kept doing it and he did it with all my body too, i havent forgotten what he did to me and people say i overreact but it happened again last year
2007-12-09 00:43:11 · 12 answers · asked by dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is sexual assault, psychological/emotional abuse, rape. Call the cops or a social worker. He will be locked in juvenile prison for good. Tell your parents/principal or a responsible adult you know. This is a serious offence made by that boy. Go make that report now or as soon as you are ready. Don't wait any longer.
2007-12-09 00:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by James ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didnt you tell your parents?He almost raped you.Willyou wait until he does then let it go so he can rpae other girls?
As far as him "making" you strip for the web cam, YOU did that yourself, YOU could have said no and turned it off.Sounds like you want him to love you and you will do almost anything, but there is a part of you that KNOWS what is right and good and that you will get into trouble for the wrong you have done IF you tell on him.You need to take the blame for stripping online and not telling your parents when he first started doing these things and talking to you the way he did at the beginning, but he needs to go to jail for what HE has done hon.Tell your parents hon!They may get upset at you a LITTLE but nowhere near as mad as they will be at him.They will forgive you and love you, but do NOT put yourself in a position where you will be alone with this perv.You may end up dead if you do.
2007-12-09 00:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him to school authorites and the police. That is a sex crime. Don't wait. Do it now before something worse happens.
Why are you stripping on webcam? You caused this problem. Have some self respect.
2007-12-09 00:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is sexual abuse, and not something to be taken lightly. Being forced to do something like that, when you don't want to, is and always will be abuse. You need to see and talk to somebody about this, maybe mother, sister, preferably older, with enogh maturity to handle the situation, and see the severity of this. Talk to someone that you are close to, even a guidance cousellor, or they maybe able to refer you to somebody who can give you the help you need. Do something about it now, because if he thinks he can get away this now, he may get worse in the future. Good luck!
2007-12-09 00:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by honeybee84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him and lose all contact with him. he wants to be forceful and in total control because thats how he gets off. it could get worse and you dont need to be treated like that from any man. if he tries to come around you and wont leave you alone after you told him yo,then tell your parents and get a restraing order against him. hes not playing around.
2007-12-09 00:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are an abuser. It's called "passive-aggressive.... and you are very, very good at it! People who pose as victims need all the help they can get....see a psychiatric professional as soon as possible. Good Luck! Hugs, Gina C.
2007-12-09 00:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Gina C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, do you really need to ask us this? Go to the local authorities, this guy doesn't need to be torturing you or anyone else like that, ever. If you said NO then it is sexual abbuse, no question about it.
2007-12-09 00:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by lttlbt1442 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He took advantage of you, which is sexual abuse against your will, but in some way you lead him on, and you also met up with him.
2007-12-09 00:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that is sexual abuse. It would've started at him putting your hand to his balls
2007-12-09 00:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this happend like you say it did then you need to report him
2007-12-09 00:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋