My BFF has a friend, lets just call him Owen, and my BFF gave me his AIM one day so we have been IMing on and off for the past week. So anyways, I know him, he goes to my school, and is one year older than me. He doesn't really know me that well, so we where exchanging pics and telling each other about ourselves. Well, one of the pics in my inbox was his thingy (you all know what I mean!) I didnt know what the message was so I just opened it and there it was! So the big problem is, he has a GF that is crazy and if she knew what I saw, she would kill me, not him! BTW I was fully clothed in the pic I sent him. So anyways, if his GF finds out she will tell everybody and I'll be ruined (although I dont have much of a socail life!). I fell really bad keeping it from her, but I dont know if I should tell her. We arn't great friends, so I dont think she whould understand. I need your help! Should I tell her? Should I feel guilty? And what should I do with the pic?
Thank so much you guys!!!
2007-12-09 00:45:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1. You delete that picture faster then anything.
2. You confront her. She might hate you for a little or what not but she deserves to know what her boyfriend is doing. But talk to her in private and sincerly. Let her know it was a hard decision. And tell her she doesnt deserve a guy doing that to her.
3. Dont feel guilty. Its not your fault this guy did this to you!
4. Live your life. Dont let this bother you .
2007-12-09 00:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by chelsea =] 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Delete the picture, discontinue IMing this guy (unless the direction his last message suggests is something you enjoy), and don't bother addressing his girlfriend with any of these details because she's not involved at all. Personally, I wouldn't be remotely interested in why this guy decided to send me a nude photo of himself; that's too far outside of my personal comfort zone. My only concern would be that he never do that again. But you know exactly how you feel about things, so if there's need for further dialogue between you two by all means go ahead and have it. Just don't involve any other people; that'll only cloud the issue. Good luck to you, and Happy Holidays.
2007-12-09 08:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you plan on telling her then show her the pic so she knows you are not lying about him sending it to you, my advice, don't tell her, delete the pic, and tell him to find another outlet for his childish behavior. He only wnats one thing and you know what that is and he is being unfaithful just by flirting with you and sending those kinds of pics, forget him and HER too if she finds out and blames you for what HE did*
2007-12-09 09:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) delete the picture he sent you.
2) Don't talk to him anymore.
3) I think you should tell her about that.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-09 09:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy is immature....ignorant and stupid.....first of all what are you doing....IM a another guy...I thought you have one....get rid of this clown..tell em off and stay away from em...he is looking for a quick piece of *** and you are his target..watch out ===stay away from this dude....U will be sorry!!
2007-12-09 08:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by gleelogan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋