Why do some people think it's hard to believe that I'm still a virgin?

Question

Yet a proud one. I've learned I'm waiting to have sex with the right girl. It just dosen't show maturity but it shows how respectful I am to all women out there.

Answer 1

Hi

I'm one as well and people used to make fun of me about it all the time, and I used to feel bad about about being a virgin because of that. I wouldn't want a man that has been with numerous women; that would just prove that he doesn't have any respect for women and is only interested in using them for sex, and I will not be one of those women. Every man that has ever tried to talk to me have made it clear that they don't want a relationship, just sex. I will have sex when I have found the right man, instead of just having sex because of someone pressured me to do it or out of desperation. Experience is not important to me, I want a man that will love and respect me. I don't want a whore for a boyfriend or husband. You should be proud to be a virgin, it just shows how much respect you have for women and yourself.

Answer 2

Just means that you have to wait till you find a girl with the same line of thinking. Most women these days want to have a guy that knows what he is doing when they want it if they have already had it. I mean if it works for you that's great but that's kinda a lost idea for this age it would work great about 60 years ago though. Not knocking you at all just saying different frame of mind these days but hey keep what ya got going for you there are still girls out there that look for that too.

Answer 3

Only you know what the truth is. Don't worry about what other people think or have done. I was a virgin until 26 so who cares what age everyone is.

Answer 4

Why would that be hard to believe? If that's your choice, good for you!

Answer 5

Sorry for ya, fella.