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I know it is not a good thing to "try" to do, but sometimes it just needs to happen!

2007-12-09 18:38:50 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

34 answers

Why does it need to happen? Nothing wrong with just moving on w/ life without the ex. Those who seek to make their ex-lovers jealous are themselves held captive by that ex.

Living well w/out the ex is always the best revenge.

2007-12-09 18:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 3 0

If he's still into u...it'll be simple... Just keep him guessing through getting a guy friend to help u.... Confuse him by getting him to feel its only friendship between u and ur friend and then quite often do somethng that makes him feel that y'all are more than just friends... i think that'll give him a feeling that u may be available so he'll hurry up if he wants u back... But im not too sure of ur objectives...do u want him back or simply make him jealous for the "ego" sake??? if that's the matter, then u can directly create the scene with ur friend where he thinks y'all are in love... u can do that through simple gestures like a peck on the cheek, holding hands, hugging, etc... Subtlety all the way... Check for a nice guy friend who'll help u out.... Cheers...Goodluck

2007-12-09 18:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm sure you already know that the best thing to do is to ignore the ex. If you MUST,however.....
If you have a mutual friend, have them tell the ex that they saw you out w/ someone else ( and throw in some details such as the escalade the two of you drove of in, how you were smiling the whole time, etc).
If that isn't possible, better your situation (college, grad school, better job, etc.) to show that person that you are much better w/o them.....it's like a knife to the heart.

2007-12-09 18:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Stephen 2 · 0 0

Jealousy is a form of revenge and either of the two can destroy the person who seeks to take revenge or make another jealous. All of that sail, It is really class to earn respect of those who know the person you seek to make jealous. For by doing kind deeds to others helps you to
over come the need for revenge while at the same time you
get respect for yourself and by doing this you forget about the one who you want to make jealous. This really does work.

2007-12-09 18:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by brent d 1 · 0 0

The best way is to just move on and live your life and leave it all behind you. If you "try" to make him jealous all you will be doing is sending him the message that youre still thinking about him. Its a game you cant win.

2007-12-09 18:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1 0

I know it's a disgusting thing to want, but I've made my ex jealous by talking to much hotter guys. He'd ask about them and we got into fights about these hotter guys a lot. Then he decided to go out with my much younger girl. I am alone, but I think I won that war hahaha.

2007-12-09 18:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Understood. "you gotta do, what you gotta do."
"Up-grade" to a "better" guy. How difficult that is depends on "how bad' your EX was. Also what YOU "bring to a relationship", can have a significant variable on who is available to you.
Seriously, don't "wreck" some other guy, just to pi$$-off your "EX". Be "real" with him, so you'll have a "successful" relationship. Nothing will smack your "ex" upside the head like YOU being in a "happy" relationship.
Good luck with that. It's easier said, than done.

2007-12-09 18:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It probably won't work, but if it does, it's only because you behaved in a disingenuous and manipulative manner. How gratifying can that really be?

I say this, having done this making-an-ex-jealous thing when I was young and stupid. Are you young? You may not be able to help being young, but please don't be stupid! You'll look back one day and think how lame you were!

2007-12-09 18:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bride of Yeshua 3 · 0 0

The best thing is to go about your life as if losing them meant nothing to you. In fact, they might get some satisfaction out of you trying to make them jealous.

2007-12-09 18:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by Justin H 7 · 1 0

Go about your life in the best way you can, to meet your obligations, and you must enjoy the fruits of your efforts and talents. Just be a regular person and give up the idea of creating jealousy.

2007-12-09 18:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 1 0

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