every person's charecter is differr from behavier why?

Question

every perons behavier is differ from charecter. some talk roughly their heart is very kind, they wnt harm or cheat others. some are talking very smoothly but their inner mind is very selfish, cheater like. some are smooth as well as good. but some are not good in talk as well as in charecters but some are good in both. Is goodnss in heart is always rewarded or not. Can u plz

Answer 1

This is mostly due to society's expectations on how we should act. Some ppl are more influenced by this than others. It all boils down to peer pressure. I have a great heart and would do anything for anyone, but when I'm around certain ppl, I notice that my demeanor changes. Only people that truly know who they are inside and are happy with themselves can avoid this ever so common trap.

Answer 2

scientifically - all persons have a different genetic makeup. Genes determine the physical and mental raits of a person. even two identical twins are different, even in the minutest way. due to this variation even the environment in which the person is brought up vastly influences his or her nature, behaviour thinking etc. The interation between ones genes and environment, shapes up one's personality. This variation is a gift of nature to plants, humans and animals alike. Had it not been in place, everything and everyone would be same, like clones and all species would have been extinct a long time ago.

Astrologically (whether you believe it or not), every person is different. No two people on earth would be born with the exactly same planetary position at a given microsecond. There fore people are different astrologically as well.

As far as goodness is concerned, this is Kalyug. In kalyug it is preordained that evil shall always prevail. Contempt, theft, fraud and all bad deeds shall bear fruit whereas no good deed shall go unpunished. Ultimately however, good does triumph and good deeds are rewarded sometimes after death.

Answer 3

If you're looking for a "human equation", something that will quickly help you figure out people, you won't find one. You won't find one for the mere fact that we're human, complex, ever-changing and growing, and we wear many masks for many different occasions. IMO, what you described in your question are examples of facades or masks.

IMO and experience, many people who show themselves as strong, tough, competent, brave, independent, etc. are completely the opposite. People who speak calmly, surely, and with compassion and seem sincere have ended up being some of the most manipulative, coercive, twisted people who slowly undermine you at the very core of your existence before you realize what has happened.

I have a couple more quick things to say. I believe that you must be true to yourself completely before you can be that with other people. If you have a good heart, pay attention and learn the lessons you'll encounter, remember them and impart them to others will help your own wisdom.

Is goodness in heart always rewarded? I used to think not. Now, I believe true goodness is rewarded. It certainly isn't always immediately rewarded, and, IMO, it usually is not rewarded in ways that most would desire or expect.

I don't want to bore everyone else. Feel free to e me if you desire further discussion. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

Goodness of heart is eventually reflected in the face of a person. It may not be always rewarded in the worldly sense of the word but its actual reward is contentment and the knowledge that you will have the last laugh in most cases.

Answer 5

Goodness of one's heart IS rewarded. Karma has a way of closing in on those with hardened hearts who seek out to cheat or hurt people; how or when is unknown....it's all just a matter of time.

People with bad characters are who they are because of they grew up in abjectively raw tough places. They want to show the world they're right to believe stereotypes.

People with good characters are the stronger, more braver--and far far smarter.

Answer 6

huh?
Okay, if I'm understanding correctly here's my two cents....people can be deceiving..thats true. Some people don't portray who they really are. They disguise their true selves by pretending to be someone they're not. But a person with a good heart will definately be rewarded. A good heart emits clear conscience...less stress and a happy soul.

Answer 7

Goodness in heart is the only thing that makes u feel great at the end of the day...You may not get rewarded or acknowledged..but still....have goodness...for someday the whole world will say good of u..

Answer 8

Because like it or not, accept or reject the cultural values that are reinforced by cultural expectation, we are all a product of that culture. Each child in a family has a different experience of their family. The development of our personalities is the result of our ongoing personal experiences.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

positively true! Your heart is where it is if only we take the time to feel what it says to us.