Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

Im getting married in 12 months and as a suprise for my other half Im gonna hire him sports car for the weekend of the Wedding. What type of Car should I hire and where from? Money isnt too much of an issue but obviously Im not a millionaire...lol

2007-12-05 21:40:27 · 5 answers · asked by Clairabella 2 in Weddings

2007-12-05 21:38:44 · 2 answers · asked by gobra3 1 in Family

My father passed away about 2 weeks ago (Nov. 20th). He was divorced from my mother for many years and was married for almost 10 years to my stepmother.
Unfortunately, I did not have the opportunity to get to know her very well because she and my father lived in another state.
I know about her but I don't really know her, I also know that she and my father were very much in love.
I don't think that I can ignore her, because after 10 years of marriage to my father, she is a member of my family.
On the other hand, doesn't "until death do you part" mean anything?
My question is should I make the effort to develop a relationship with her?

2007-12-05 21:15:48 · 10 answers · asked by Eric W 2 in Family

I've had so much crap go on in my life. I've tried killing myself, i have so many scars down my arm cause i cut myself so much. I don't no why. My parents are divorced, and my mum completly hates my, im 15 and don't have any family in Australia so i cant go anywere from home. I don't have many friends or a boyfriend that i can share my problems with. I don't like counselers, and i don't want proffesional help. I just want to change my life around and be happy, i don't want to go to bed every night crying, but how? How do i change my life to something i will want to live for?

2007-12-05 20:56:51 · 25 answers · asked by cOOkies.... 2 in Family

I'll try to get right to the point, but there is a lot involved. Me and my sister have always been close. She is 1 1/2 yrs. younger. She has twin 4 yr. old girls who I have a tremendously close relationship with. My sister and I got in a fight, and now she isn't speaking to me. This is fine with me, but apparently, I'm not able to see my nieces. I consider this emotional blackmail and I'm not sure how to deal with it. She has done this in the past when the girls were babies, and I literally cried every night because I missed them so bad. After a couple months, she finally contacted me to make up. After the second time she did it, she promised she would never use her kids like that again, (she admitted she used them to get to me, & it's the only way she can). I'm not surprised it's happening again, but it still hurts because the girls & I are so close. I feel she was in the wrong in this fight, so I won't give in. How would you handle it? I am open to all suggestions.

2007-12-05 20:51:10 · 4 answers · asked by calimari 2 in Family

It obviously depands upon the couple on how to go about it. However if a Spouse wishes to have it wild do they have the right to demand it from the other. You know what I mean!!

2007-12-05 20:39:53 · 14 answers · asked by the_young_bride 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In UK today, the "government" of Mr. Bean (no offence to the real Mr. Bean) wants to do tabletop or "desktop" abortions in GP surgeries with only one doctor needed.
THIS IS MURDER at the doctor's surgery !
Incredible ! and WRONG !
WHAT A SADISTIC COUNTRY !
WHAT A HEARTLESS AND DESPERATE PLACE !
Kill in Iraq, Kill your enemies, Kill your unborn defenceless kids !
My question is about the wish of GB to save on benefits and promote a TOUGH society where people WORK and PAY tax to HIM WHO MUST BE OBEYED and kill their unborn kids as they might in the first few years of LIFE drain HIS CASH from the WORLD FAMOUS HMRC !
In UK we have the WORST record in any OECD country for bringing up kids it is the most TOUGH place to raise a child.
INSTEAD of trying to do his JOB to improve UK he is telling people to get abortions !

So my question for all of you good honest hardworking and GODFEARING people:

Does the shameless and immoral UK government encourage abortion to evade it's responsibilities ?

2007-12-05 20:37:59 · 13 answers · asked by Love life and share happiness 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been with my boyfiend for 3 years, both of us have being married before, not living with him, as met him soon after i seperated and he not in a position because of fininical obligations, when i found out i was expecting he wanted me to get a termination as he felt it would upset his previous family. after alot of soul searching i decided to carry on with the pregnancy without him but he then made the decision to stay with me, i've 1 previous child nearly 10 who was born with problems due to a difficult pregnancy and ended up in scub. he told his ex wife 3 months ago and she went mad, hates me and is threating to make his life hell if he has anything to do with me or this baby and is using his teenage kids as a weapon, he's lying to her about still seeing me and he because he feels guilty about how devestated she is is now going to couselling with her to get her over it and making me feel like its all my fault, i love him to bits but feel like i'm wasting my time, i'm scared

2007-12-05 20:31:06 · 11 answers · asked by car 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There are a few people at work who seem to have made it there life mission to set me up with someone. How can I tell them to stop?

2007-12-05 20:26:56 · 20 answers · asked by Sugar and spice 2 in Singles & Dating

So there is a girl who I like more than just a friend. And I have expressed my feelings to her, and she has said she feels the same way, but she has a boyfriend. The reason why things are complicated is because she come from a small town, and she lives with him now, and things between them are not working out...I feel like she is pushing me to say "come and live with me," but I cant say that,because im in college....I am starting to fall in love with her, and I know she is as well with me....She cant get a place on her own, because she cant afford it....She has said she might be moving back home, and im heart-broken...How do I get her to stay...Or should I not even worry about it.

I care for her, and I would like for her to stay here in town, but currently I have responsibilities, and she has none, because she doesnt go to college.All she does is go to work...I actually may be her only good friend here in town, and even that is under the covers, because her boyfrind is unaware of me

2007-12-05 20:11:56 · 11 answers · asked by ThatGuy88 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, So I got myself in an internet/online relationship with a a guy I really like. He's the perfect guy, and with all the pictures and info he's given me, I'm beginning to trust him more and more. He says he loves me and I love him too, but sometimes I wonder if I'll ever get a chance to meet him, because we've met on the internet and we live so far away from each other. IS there ever a chance? Or is this just some fantasy that's never going to come true?

Thanks in advance

2007-12-05 20:01:45 · 16 answers · asked by Ms. Phoebe 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 20:01:00 · 26 answers · asked by ej974 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So....
I was dating a guy that was ok, "popular"....and I was NO where near that....
But we were together for one day and we split....Later, i found out the reason, it was Alyssa, the most popular girl.....She MADE him dump me so he HAS to be with Pricsilla(Alyssa's "BFF")....
Then, he was together with Pricsilla for 1 day and he dumped her and came back to me....
He started doing sweet things for me and about 1 month, i finally accepted him again....
We are now together and happy....

But, the problem....
No fairy tail has a perfect ending....


Alyssa found out and got all the people in the school(well, all the popular people)....to come to my face and trash me....
They also wrote alot of stuff in the blog.....

I just want to ask WHY? HOW can i keep living my normal life the way it was before??

2007-12-05 19:59:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Anyways, she and I hang out alot and we're friends and co-worker, but you think we could be more mature about this, but we're not, and this always happens, stupidness like this anyways...

We had planned to go out this week. She had called me a few days ago but I didn't return her call until 8 hours later. I called her and she simply just hung up on me. Fine, it's not the first time she's hung up on me. Anyways, I didn't call her back and it's several days later, but I want to know if she still wants to hang out. Should I call her or e mail her?

You'd think she wouldn't want to hang out anymore, but stuff like this always happens, we dont' say sorry, we just hang out again. Last week she was upset again cause I took too long to return her call, when I did she said, "I have to go, I am sorry, I am going to call you back, so please have your phone on you" Yeah....no callback, lol.

Yeah we got serious issues I know.

2007-12-05 19:57:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm an old-fashioned woman once it comes to love. Not as naive as i used to be - i got my heart broken over puppy love in high school and i've learned to become realistic. When i got to college, i met this person who ended up being one of my close friends - probably the closest i've been to anyone for a long time. I never thought i would fall for him nor would he fall for me. We had a good relationship - nothing i've ever experienced. I was so comfortable with him - we could talk openly and trust each other about anything and everything (rare nowadays) and we could also laugh and understand each other. For a friendship, we were very affectionate - taking care of each other if one was heartbroken or not in a good place. Looking back, i'm surprised we kept inside the boundries as friends. He was always respectful and a gentleman to me - this was truly a special relationship no one can understand except for the two of us. Close for about three yrs...

Early this yr, we fell for each other year very deeply (hes always had feelings and i never caught on). We were "together" for a little (cuddles, give him first kiss) - i KNEW it would be potentially a good relationship. It was always my ideal relationship to end up w. a best friend. I could see myself being with him in the future for a long time but not at the moment. I had that "gut feeling" that kept telling me, "yes, be with him but wait. not now in your life." Very strong feeling and i agreed. I'm at the pt in my life where i want to start a foundation and finish my studies first. He understood completely and it was hard for both of us. For the next couple months after that, we tried being friends but i think it was harder for him than me. I told him back then that i would get over the situation of us not being together someday but i would never get over him. It's almost been a year and who knew i spoke the truth back then. I've met and hung out w. other guys but NOTHING compares to him. I respect him as a person and it's hard to shake him off. After the past few months, i've learned to not force feelings - to not force getting over him and not getting over him. It is what it is and let your feelings be. It's been months and i STILL feel the same way. I know for a fact the only way i'll get over him is if God allows me to meet my future husband. Other than that, i don't think i'll ever get over him.

WHY? Why does it SEEM like everyone's moved on including him....except for me?

2007-12-05 19:55:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi i love this guy he kind of ignoring me and doesnt even talk to for months now i try to reach him many times but he never talks is he still in love with me am confused pls help as am hurt...

2007-12-05 19:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by lily 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents have me trapped..i have an arab father and white mother.(im almost 17).so my home life has always been a mix of cultures..which sometimes can be a very bad thing..i have been raised as an american but as time goes by and ive gotten older my father expects me to act like i am a good muslim/arab girl..this means no dating,partying,basically no life..my parents are also verbally abusive and harsh..i want to move out when i turn 18..but dont know if i could make it on my own or with my friend..my parents wont let me work so i cant save money..unless i sell my art..(im a desent painter)..i was wondering if anyone could give me any advise about what i should do

2007-12-05 19:50:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-05 19:46:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-05 19:41:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 22 year old girl and i have my own house, a good job, and i'm a nice person. The trouble is i live near my family. My mom and dad live on the same block and i have 2 sisters and a brother that live only a few blocks away. They are all constantly fighting and arguing with each other and it's driving me nuts! I always feel like i'm caught in the middle because i seem to be the only level headed one among a bunch of rude hotheads. I'm really tired of it and it's starting to wear me down mentally and physically. I'm thinking about getting away from all of them and relocating to another city. Would i be wrong for doing this? I love my family but i can't take this crap anymore. A co-worker told me that family should always stick together even if they don't get along. I disagree. Can i get some answers on this topic? This is my first time on Yahoo Answers. My friend told me about it so i decided to give it a try. HELLLLLLPPPPP!!

2007-12-05 19:40:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Stop Child Support On Good Fathers.

2007-12-05 19:38:33 · 8 answers · asked by blacky 1 in Family

I've been married for 6 years now and have 2 kids. I love my family very much. My husband is travel alot for the business, and 2 days ago he asked if I want to have someone to acompany me and the kids while he wasn't around, he mean a boyfriend. I don't know what to say. Then he convince me that it's ok with him, he wants me to have a boyfriend who really love me and the kids and willing to accept the fact that I have a husband and doesn't want to take me for his own, and also I can't be pragnant by him. He said that he knew I have a feeling for other man, and his right, and again he said as long as it wont make any change in my love to him and the kids, its ok. I don't know i'm going to happy or sorry with it, it's all mix up. he said he love me so much and don't want me to get sad or lonely. please advice, I'm so confuse.

2007-12-05 19:37:09 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had this best best friend for 7 years, we did everything together. We even had a business together, due to the stress of the business we had a few stupid fight, but we never argued in open. after the shop closed down she joined 'born again' christian and now going out with a 'born again' guy, I haven't seen her for 1 year and started miss her, and i called her, she said that she is no longer interested in being friends since she is now a christian, also she is fully controlled by the boyfriend, wouldn't come out meet me or other friends, she wouldn't even give me her mobile number. Anyway i thought we were best friends, even our stupid disagreement shouldn't matter, however she sounds very determined and never contacted me even for a coffee, what should i do? i never know she could be so cold hearted

2007-12-05 19:33:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When I got out of prison my son was already twelve. He was raised well by his mother in my absence. He was very involved in community theater. It was at a cast party four years ago that all the questions started coming. After I left the party two other parents went in to a room where all the teens were hanging out. There, on the bed, my son was lying in the arms of a man ten years older than his fourteen. I was told of this the next week and blew my top. I was told how ridiculous I was. This guy just hangs around. He doesn't work. He plays with Barbies. And about eighteen months he started selling weed and giving weed to my son. When I pressed my son's mother to put an end to this BS I ceased being a guest in her house. My son won't talk to me. They all say I'm making trouble out of nothing. I think the guy is a pervert with no regard for the law. I think any MAN would have taken a step back and not been so pushy. Am I crazy? What would a shrink say?

2007-12-05 19:30:34 · 5 answers · asked by pugetsoundcrawfish 1 in Family

2007-12-05 19:30:25 · 10 answers · asked by finer 1 in Family

As I mentioned in my last question, I have re-listed this question because I need more specific answers to what to buy and where from (if possible.)

What I also should have mentioned is that I’m in the UK, so that may affect things.

Ok, what I need is a miniature camera. One that can record by itself and NOT need a VRC or pc near-by, doesn’t have to be anything fancy or record long lengths of data.
I have spent hours searching for something that will do the job but whenever I see something promising it turns out that it needs a pc to work and I’m back to square one.

2007-12-05 19:28:37 · 6 answers · asked by Questioner 1 in Family

I've recently had a baby.It's my boyfriends mothers first grandchild to her only son. She has been making fun of my routine, she believes that the baby has to be nursed all the time. She won't put my baby down even when she's sleeping. She's controlling, makes smart ar@e comment about my parenting, she has called me a bad mother when myself and her son have had arguements, she tells my boyfriend everything I tell her to start arguements with me and him. I really believe she thinks shes the mum. How do I tell her to back off? It's my turn, she's had hers. I go back to work next year and she'll be looking after my baby, only I don't want her to. My mum does a good job at it. They'll both share the babysitting. But I'm worried because she talks badly to my daughter about me, even though she's doesn't understand, she will eventually.I believe she's looking for an excuse to try and take custody of my daughter because she failed with her only son. How do I tell her to stop all this nonsense?

2007-12-05 19:26:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my wife will suck me but never to completion
i have wanted to ask but think it may be rude to.
she uses it as forepaly and thats ok.... but i cant help but want ther to finish. so how do i ask?
should i ask?

2007-12-05 19:23:10 · 12 answers · asked by rufstuff 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been married 2 years and would rather wack it by myself than have sex. whats my problem and how do i fix it?

2007-12-05 19:15:15 · 14 answers · asked by danrmar29 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in my sister's house and to make a long story short I would like to be on better terms with my sister's neighbor cause as it stands he ignores me and it's not like we get along great(cause I ignored him and wouldn't speak because I am a little shy and even before I say a word sometimes we are staring at each other and I feel uncomfortable for some reason) but I would like to change that if I can, cause I feel that I need to learn to make friends and be more friendly to people.

2007-12-05 19:12:34 · 5 answers · asked by calmlikeatimebomb 6 in Singles & Dating