I had this best best friend for 7 years, we did everything together. We even had a business together, due to the stress of the business we had a few stupid fight, but we never argued in open. after the shop closed down she joined 'born again' christian and now going out with a 'born again' guy, I haven't seen her for 1 year and started miss her, and i called her, she said that she is no longer interested in being friends since she is now a christian, also she is fully controlled by the boyfriend, wouldn't come out meet me or other friends, she wouldn't even give me her mobile number. Anyway i thought we were best friends, even our stupid disagreement shouldn't matter, however she sounds very determined and never contacted me even for a coffee, what should i do? i never know she could be so cold hearted
2007-12-05 19:33:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What should you do. You stop thinking about her and you start living your life again. you have a future ahead of you and this girl has made it very clear that she does not want you in her future.
One day you will someone else, and all this will be forgotten.
Move on, and don't contact her again.
The one comment that I find very interesting is the fact that this girl has become a Christian, and because of that fact, she doesn't want to be friends with you. Funny how some people interpret their religion as being not friends with some people, and only friends with their own religion. They put themselves in this little box, a nd stay in it.
Your life will be happier when you move on away from your Christian friend. Put it all in the past and don't give her another thought/
2007-12-05 20:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by Maureen S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your poor friend. She's been brainwashed by a cult. A true Christian wouldn't be intimidated by his woman having a friend outside of the faith.
I can understand that you're very hurt by her behaviour, but I think that for now the best thing for you is to just try to put it out of your mind and move on. I'm sorry, but I can't think of anything better to do.
2007-12-05 19:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people never get over certain disappointments and your fight might have been one of those things. It hit a nerve. I had a friend of 20+ years and one bad word from her, I quit being her friend because she was becoming abusive with her words to me. I haven't spoken to her in months and frankly, I don't like getting hurt like that anymore. Leave it alone, you will find a better friend.
2007-12-05 20:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by Equinox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was never a true friend.She showed her true colors.I still miss my best friend, and I have tried to find me another, but after 4 years, I have not found that person I can click with.true friends are so rare.
2007-12-06 14:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by Cecelia J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have even met a case of 40 year's old friend who cheat .But friendship are something you can't force,you have to let it go....
2007-12-05 19:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is so caught up in her life and thinks that you are a bad influence on her... i suggest you let it go give her her space and maybe she will come back when she wakes up and realizes what is going on in her life.. you never know...
2007-12-05 19:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Skylar1983 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just get on with your own life, just like she has. she obviously doesn't want to be friends again, so forget about her and make new, better friends.
2007-12-06 04:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel sometimes people just change so much,and they just turn nasty,if u were best friends why couldnt she even contact u,she is cruel,better off without her
2007-12-05 20:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FRIENDSHIPS COME EASY! YOU CANT KEEP LETTING YOURSELF DOWN!! THE MORE YOU PUSH THE MORE THEY SAY LOOK HOW CRAZY YOU ARE. IF YOU LOVE YOUR FRIEND WALK AWAY MAYBE ONE DAY THEY WILL COME BACK . BUT BE READY TO FACE THE FACT THAT THINGS ARE OVER. AS MUCH AS IT SUCKS SOMETIMES IT JUST HAPPENS!!
2007-12-05 19:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by ko 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget her,she obviously isnt interested.
2007-12-05 19:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by Freakin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋