It obviously depands upon the couple on how to go about it. However if a Spouse wishes to have it wild do they have the right to demand it from the other. You know what I mean!!
2007-12-05 20:39:53 · 14 answers · asked by the_young_bride 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The answer is simply, you cant DEMAND anything, It is a two way street. No one has the right to demand another to indulge in an act that they are not willing to participate in. You can ask, and explore and talking works well I find. Communication is a great problem solver!!!!
sex is a very private intimate thing for all of us and should always be where both parties are willing to participate in whatever is happening. There is no harm in experimenting, but no one has the right to demand anything from another.
2007-12-05 21:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..I think you know that you can't demand it. All though i wish you could lol.
You need to talk about it. And i think your spouse should at least try to full fill your needs.
The truth is sex may not be #1 in a relationship but it's not last ether, and if a spouse is unhappy with their sex life it will most likely lead to bigger problems down the road..
2007-12-06 07:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by Bill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex between spouses isn't a commodity you demand. Its an OBLIGATION to each other. Its part of being married and if that duty is not met - then whats the point of being married? You can ask for it in the same manner your spouse can ask you for it. But if one refuses and the other one insists - there has to be mutual consideration for each other in this area.
2007-12-06 04:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are defiantly entitled to wild sex if you want it. The trick is getting the other involved if they don't want it that way. You have to keep in mind they have the same rights and should have sex the way they want too. Try working something out where you rotate sexual preferences or something like that.
2007-12-06 04:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by JONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is an outward and shared expression of the inner connection, so both oartners should be very very eager to do and explore everything imaginable in sex...I mean everything...also, you only live once, why not do it in every way imaginable? Carpe diem, and oh, how I wish I could find a woman like you.......
Btw, check out the tantric arts and such....that is so very very good!
2007-12-06 04:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by lmspencr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never demand something that the other person is against, say for example you loved spanking, but your partner hates it, it would be wrong to demand that. I think that whatever you mutally agree as acceptable is fine, but you should never force someone to do something that they are uncomfortable with.
2007-12-06 04:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't demand it, but you can sure ask for it, and I think it is reasonable to even expect it every now and then.
2007-12-06 06:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they don't.
and i disagree with catwoman's answer above.. sex isn't an obligation of any sort -- it's an expression of love and care, and it can also be a release. it's a privilege that married people have together and something to share.
2007-12-06 05:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can demand all u like. . . u are not going to get it.
2007-12-06 09:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question.
2007-12-06 08:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋