There are a few people at work who seem to have made it there life mission to set me up with someone. How can I tell them to stop?
2007-12-05 20:26:56 · 20 answers · asked by Sugar and spice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell them.....thank them for their interest...kindly.....and express your feelings that you would greatly appreciate it if they would stop trying to set you up with someone. If they are truly your friends--they will understand!!!
2007-12-05 20:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by itzybit_303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you can manage quite nicely on your own. People who do this are out of line. They might mean well, but they are interfering in something that is no their business. Do not allow them to set you up with someone. You can and you should make your own choices in the romance department.
2007-12-05 20:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Richard B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them you are your own person and if you wanted a partner you'd choose one for yourself. You don't need other people to do this for you, let them know there is nothing wrong with being single as they obviously see this as a weakness of yours so they are trying to 'help' you. You have to be strong enough to say this to them directly because they would only be trying to help so until you tell them that their help is not required you'll be going out on blind dates with their cousins, neighbours etc!... good luck
2007-12-05 20:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you do. Have them set you up to meet someone at a fancy place or even dinner at there house or what ever. Then don't show up. Do that a couple of times and they will stop. Try it.
2007-12-05 20:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Big Will 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest with them and tell them that you're not someone who needs help dating. Honesty is seriously the best policy (and the truth is much more fun than lies).
"I appreciate all of the effort to set me up with someone but I like being single/ don't need to be set up/ don't like blind dates/ whatever!"
Good luck (being single is fun right?)
2007-12-05 20:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by calvin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Q: "i do no longer choose to probability it." A: Then do no longer. you're no longer obligated to share the important factors of your love existence at artwork. you're obligated to artwork in spite of the undeniable fact that (in order that we are sparkling on that). Jokes aside, see what you're able to do to distance your self from the lady (i'm confident you have pushed women human beings away in the previous, no longer being snarky, i'm only pointing out that think appropriate to the recognize-how) and failing that, get a protracted distance dating which you're in no way in the temper to speak approximately.
2016-10-10 09:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you are seeing someone. You said coworkers and not friends so it sounds like you could get away withthis with out having to cough up proof.
2007-12-05 20:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by emtalex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say it in a very polite manner, that not to set you up...although it is very natural at times in the workplace where officemates will match you, specially if you are single..dont get mad, crack a joke at times, say "you want a very attractive, inteligent and a millionaire, role into 1 man" one that is so hard to find for them...like that.
2007-12-05 20:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by sexycutieBEV. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that you are commited to some pilot of an international airliner.
2007-12-05 20:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them u dont want them to set u up
2007-12-05 20:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋