So....
I was dating a guy that was ok, "popular"....and I was NO where near that....
But we were together for one day and we split....Later, i found out the reason, it was Alyssa, the most popular girl.....She MADE him dump me so he HAS to be with Pricsilla(Alyssa's "BFF")....
Then, he was together with Pricsilla for 1 day and he dumped her and came back to me....
He started doing sweet things for me and about 1 month, i finally accepted him again....
We are now together and happy....
But, the problem....
No fairy tail has a perfect ending....
Alyssa found out and got all the people in the school(well, all the popular people)....to come to my face and trash me....
They also wrote alot of stuff in the blog.....
I just want to ask WHY? HOW can i keep living my normal life the way it was before??
2007-12-05 19:59:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Alyssa's a controlling little ***** who likes messing around with people's lives, is she ever going to get a nasty shock when she leaves the school for the real world ....
The guy you were dating really likes you, and she can't control that and it really pisses her off, so she tries to bully you.
Really, this girl is nothing more than a pretty piece of excrement. She is not worth getting upset over. The people who do her bidding are sheep, they too are not worth getting upset over.
How can you keep going? Well now, does your school have a policy on bullying? Because this sounds like bullying. You can show the blog to the principal, your parents, Alyssa's parents, and if necessary the police.
You can hold your head up high, because you have got yourself talked about. You refuse to do their bidding, and that takes great moral character. As I said, these people are nothing more than excrement and sheep. Take comfort in the fact that you are the better person, and the guy around whom all this started has the good sense to see this.
2007-12-05 20:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it get you down. It's a self-aggrandizing illusion on their part. If this boy is going to bow over just to appease some spoil little rich princesses, he's probably not worth having around. Take the initative and give him the boot.
Concentrate on your school work and resume-building, as soon as high school is over all the things they've worked on for years will be literally worthless. You have better opportunities in wait for you. College scholarship, good job...who knows?
Look forward to seeing some of them as obese soccer moms, at the driver-thrus clerks and pumping your gas.
2007-12-05 20:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
School can be tough. But I have been out of school for three years now and I can tell you that none of that stuff will matter when your out of school. You learn to forgive and forget. Its very weard to be out of school bit it is great. You are free to live your own life and make you own decisions and go where you wanna go and do what you wanna do. Im telling you to think about the future and where you will be in 5 years time. Do you really think that what you experiance and what hell you are going through now will effect you in the future. No way. Unless you let it haunt you. Brush it off and look towards the future. Fogive and forget cus I was quite the jerk in school and regret it every day of my life.
2007-12-05 20:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal?
Your in school. That is so far out side of normal. What your talking about is games children play. If he cares what some popular kid thinks he is the fool.
Tell them to grow up and get a life.
2007-12-05 20:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by jmack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty sad and on Alyssa's part it just sounds like jealousy. If your boyfriend really loves you, he'll grow a backbone and stop letting his "popular friends" dictate what he should do with his relationships.
2007-12-05 20:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This stuff makes my piss curl. Honestly, it is so immature and nasty. Who are these people? What purpose do they serve. Take them out of their microcosm and put them into real jobs where being popular is not an issue. Forget them,rise above it. Watch him too. He sounds shallow and fickle. Don't trust easily
2007-12-05 20:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by susieboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by standing up to Alyssa and her group. make them know you are better than them, that's why he chose you.
the reason WHY, is that you are a winner and the losers are jealous of you.
2007-12-05 20:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by Ewiase 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know really maybe you just write stuff in your blog about them or just ignore it
2007-12-05 20:10:06 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋