my wife will suck me but never to completion
i have wanted to ask but think it may be rude to.
she uses it as forepaly and thats ok.... but i cant help but want ther to finish. so how do i ask?
should i ask?
2007-12-05 19:23:10 · 12 answers · asked by rufstuff 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have to add i love she is great at it
but ever in regular intercourse i take a long while to ***. i am not a two min man.
2007-12-05 19:37:06 · update #1
Tell her what you want she isn't a mind reader! She should want to do this for you!
2007-12-05 19:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,
Talk to your wife. Just tell her that you want both of you to enjoy your love making to the fullest. Ask her if there is anything she would like you to do or do differently. If she has an answer, listen, then she will probably ask you the same and you can tell her then.
Make sure that if there is something she wants, you comply with her wishes.
Communication is absolutely essential in a marriage. You should never be afraid to say anything to your wife. Especially when you can post it on the internet for the entire world to read.
Think of it this way. Is it fair that I know about your desire and your wife doesn't?
Good Luck
2007-12-06 05:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tauri Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone above. You are married so I would just ask her if she will do that for you. If she doesnt want your *** in her mouth you can tell her when your about to *** so she can pull away.
But dont be afraid to ask.
2007-12-06 03:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by crazyjenn99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love the way she does it and ask her to do it longer. But, she may not want you to ejaculate in her mouth, so you may have to promise her you won't do this. It's also possible that she's not that into doing this for you----do you do that for her or is this a one-sided deal?
2007-12-06 13:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's EZ. Ask her to suck to point right before you are about to blow then finish with a hand job
2007-12-06 12:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's actually pretty hard to finish me with a bj, so I don't expect it. I don't feel denied either. I don't want to give her a jaw cramp! Besides - the vj actually does feel better.
2007-12-06 03:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by fnyunj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her to finish you. You are married to this woman and have sex with her. Telling her what you want should be no problem.
2007-12-06 03:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her, simple as that. If you're brave enough to as this kind of question, what makes you afraid of telling your sexual preferences to your own spouse ?
2007-12-06 08:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Tesse Malou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask "Why don't you ever suck on me till I have an orgasm?"
ITs as simple as that.
Or do what the girl below me (with my same name) says.
2007-12-06 03:27:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your moans to a minimum and then just surprise her! Women luuuuv surprises!! You can apologize later if you have to.
2007-12-06 03:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋