Anyways, she and I hang out alot and we're friends and co-worker, but you think we could be more mature about this, but we're not, and this always happens, stupidness like this anyways...
We had planned to go out this week. She had called me a few days ago but I didn't return her call until 8 hours later. I called her and she simply just hung up on me. Fine, it's not the first time she's hung up on me. Anyways, I didn't call her back and it's several days later, but I want to know if she still wants to hang out. Should I call her or e mail her?
You'd think she wouldn't want to hang out anymore, but stuff like this always happens, we dont' say sorry, we just hang out again. Last week she was upset again cause I took too long to return her call, when I did she said, "I have to go, I am sorry, I am going to call you back, so please have your phone on you" Yeah....no callback, lol.
Yeah we got serious issues I know.
2007-12-05 19:57:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Call back
Ego is a very bad excuse for losing a friend
2007-12-05 20:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by necromancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i don't wanna sound like a stuck-up idiot here, but do you really think she is worth your time and energy? I have a friend like that, but i only get back with her 'cause she is always by me when i need her. But still, some of her habits annoy me so much that I just feel like quitting. If she actually does anything to you to make you feel important then, i'd say you should try calling her again. But if not, then i think it's time to move on. What do you think? Forget that she is/was ever your friend, do you think she deserves to be friends with a person like you? If you think she does(after careful thought), and if she does not hang up, then you can plan things out with her, but before you be buds with her again, tell her that you don't like her habit of hanging up(if you don't). Just be reasonable. If she doesn't even email you or anything in a long while, then just say it to her, "I'm sorry, but I think that there is absolutely no reason to be friends anymore. I think we should make our relationship strictly professional from now on." This is a nice way. But if you are really bugged and wanna let it out for good, then: "I'm tired of how you never care whether I call you or not! YOU DON"T DESERVE TO BE MY FRIEND!" and just walk away before a bigger fuss occurs. Do this if only you think it's the way to go, this can put serious strain on your profile and personality and the way other people see you, since they don't know the 'inner' you. If you really wanna try this out(after careful thinking) remember to never do it withother people around and walk away before matter get too heated up and don't make a fuss about it to other people. Good Luck!
2007-12-05 20:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by bladebreakers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would just leave it an not bother with her
If, however, you see her to be a good friend who is worth the effort, call her and explain why it took you so long to call back. Arrange to do something, just the 2 of you.
If she still won't talk to you, then again I would definately leave it now.
Like i said before, if you think she is worth it, then e-mail her, do the same as I said before, but ask her for an explanation as to why she felt the need to hang up on you for no reason?
If she still doesn't reply then well, you're going to see her at work but to be honest, she definately isn't worth your time or energy...
2007-12-05 21:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by risendevil2k2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be co-workers but I doubt that you can be called friends.
I would neither call her or email her. I would maintain a neutral relationship that ensures there are no hassles at work. No more.
I i would then devote my time and energy to cultivating a more mature relationships with as many other people as possible. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Enjoy the fishing.
2007-12-05 20:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you guys really wanna be way more then friends so yeah email her and apologize and all that good stuff. Also talk about moving things to the next level that way you guys could create some kind of undrstANDING IN THIS MADNESS
2007-12-05 20:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by kreoreo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Anna, do no longer touch him back. you have left the ball in his courtroom and he will touch you if he's involved to circulate extra. in case you maintain calling and emailing you will discover that he's became off. probably he has yet another lady on the 2nd or he's no longer somewhat interested in you. If he would not supply you a decision in the subsequent 24 - 48hrs then he's no longer interested in you.
2016-10-19 09:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by poore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could have been an accidental hang up, try giving her a call again.
2007-12-05 20:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by keymaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call, don't worry, and find some new friends who care about you. Mature people don't hang up on others...
2007-12-05 20:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by MomtoJoey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to hang out with her? Give her a call.
2007-12-05 20:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by SKCave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and if she doesn't answer leave a message and explain what happen that night!
then if she doesn't tlak to u buy movie tickets and tell her at work that you got these movie tickets and was surposed to talk one of your buddies but he canceled and asked if she would like to go!
2007-12-05 20:01:35 · answer #10 · answered by bmxesforlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋